How Mastering Detachment will change your life (my method)

[TreasureForeverOfficial]

The more you focus on yourself, and take care of yourself- the more life takes care of you ❤❤❤

[surfandlearn]

My cat has taught me EVERYTHING about detachment ! His freedom is so wonderful to watch and life together is so simple... 💕

[Clevelandsteamer]

Be open to everything and attached to nothing- Wayne Dyer

[Christinekueblerartist]

There was an Olympic athlete who said, I dont worry about the outcome. I focus on the process, the training and I trust it. 🥇

[Moonlove]

When I am having the loneliest day and holding on to something that I can’t have, you bring me peace with these messages. Thank you

[PoppySeed]

I've been reading a lot of Buddhist based books lately and this resonates with the Buddhist way of life very much. Non attachment is key. Compassion is another. I think it's hard for some to wrap their heads around. How can you be compassionate but at the same time, remain unattached? The answer relies on removing expectations. To act without expectations. You live a compassionate, non attached way of life by acting without any expectations of something in return. Always try your best, regardless of what the outcome might be. Whether it's at your job, a hobby, or a relationship with your significant other. Act with compassion. Expect nothing in return. Stay mindful. And you will be living peacefully.

[Sporacle]

Take care of yourself and the rest will follow

I was doing drugs (an expensive one) every day, drinking every day, living with my girlfriend. I left our home, moved cities 2 months ago today.

I'm 60 days off drugs, drank once or twice a week mostly since then and have now committed (3 days) to cutting that out entirely, I haven't missed a day of work (where I'd missed about 20 in Jan/Feb from having cheap rent and an enabling partner) - and I just signed a lease for my own one bedroom apartment for July. It was a miracle to find and get the place, and I attribute it very much to having been putting the work in. Nothing comes free. We have to decide what costs we allow ourselves to pay, and when to remove unnecessary costs entirely.

[Sparkdivineharmony]

For me, what I’ve come to develop is this sense of reparenting my self. My healing came from detaching from who I am. Becoming the observer of my life and has shifted to becoming this relationship between two parts of my self. The inner child that wasn’t allow to be see and the parental figure that I need as a child. I shift between the two personalities where I picture my self as the parent and then as the child. This relationship allow me to be free. I’ve found that meditation allows me to appreciate and notice the different voices in my head and put them in to perspective. In addition to not allowing my self to be totally absorbed by the thoughts since now im able to observe and detach from them. Finally taking back leadership of my life. Thank you Aaron for your perspective and send so much love and support to all those here!

[ReikiMasterCarlie]

It is true!! 💥Attaching to people will cause repelling them away from you! It has been my experience. And now, when I have got enough love inside myself, I don't need to prove my value by being accepted by others. ✨✨ Of course I still expect my loved ones to love me and treasure me. But if one day they don't treasure me, I will also know how to let go of the unease and the relationship. Because attaching to someone who is not meant to be in my life isn't attractive😂Thank you for making this video🙏🏻 Blessings to you all💖

[EvaRose]

I always feel bad when I hear about non attachment, because my heart literally picks people. Then I feel attached.

[louiseelliott]

Validate and approve yourself. It starts and ends with us. Once you step away through wanting attention or validation your whole mindset shifts and your life changes. I’m a work in progress. I no longer need or desire external validation or approval I can validate myself. Build a relationship with yourself first and foremost - it’s the most important relationship you’ll ever have. I hit rock bottom and I’ve had to rebuild my whole self from the bottom up. If I can do it anyone can.

[boblossie]

I'm 68 years old now and have been going through a lot in the last 10 years. I've ALWAYS loved Aaron's videos, but this is another that is on the top of the list to help me better understand my entire life - especially at this point of my life. Thank you Aaron! You're an incredible man and a good man to the core. Just wish we were neighbors.... Not for the endless lectures, but just to share the presence and energy. Calms me now just to think of it.

[elsagirvin]

Not to stroke your ego but you keep getting more funny. I love this humility and confidence, and your ability to laugh about your humanness. Gives a permission slip to the rest of us to be human and own it. Thx for what you do. It’s helped me a lot ❤

[JoshuaAnzalone-zkht]

Never allow others to project onto you. Their problems and baggage are not your problems or baggage.

[hernehill]

Dude, I appreciate that you lay it down with humor. A little joke and self-parody in the right amount is really humanizing and enjoyable, because we laugh at what we don't want to be! Your loving, light-hearted humor is effective and uplifting, even joyous! So thanks brother!

[Jesusisking]

I use to give EVERYONE 100% attention and wanted to attach to everyone. Now I’ve learned about the power of ignoring which helps me to detach from people. It’s amazing as I am noticing how others are starting to show me respect and are more attractive to me. I’ve broken my past habit of giving EVERYONE FREE ATTENTION. This has greatly helped my attachment issues.

[GodHelpMe]

but the thing is,
avoidants may have once been clingy
like those with anxious attachment,
maybe even MORE needy,
and had to learn to shut off emotional needs
to survive hyper-independently
because we learned the hard way
we were both too much and not enough...
that in the real world no one actually cares,
so we'd better learn to fight alone
and put the pedal to the metal...

[catcasey-id]

Deep insights such as these are amazing in a man so young. I'm hitting 70 soon, and am just now catching on to these things. Who knew? After this long life, the Internet is aiding me in becoming self aware. Huge!

[mariacasemyr]

Love to drink my morning coffee and listening to Aaron. Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪

[acealex]

Growing up I was let down and abandoned by my parents in various ways, wasn’t until I started watching your videos that I learned to detach and really see the bigger picture as to why I act and feel how I do. Thank you for your videos, this one definitely hit home, consciousness and acceptance heals