Top Notch Couples Keep the Spark Alive Weekly Review 29

Week twenty-nine
Relationship Tune Up
You know, where you attempt to improve things but they’re not 100% successful and you realize you need an expert to help.

Always try to tune up yourself first.
That way, if you’re less than successful, you have information for me when you come in for couples counseling. It might only take a couple of sessions to fix it, so don’t procrastinate coming it. The longer the problem is happening, the longer it takes to fix it.

Emotional connection- Look at the connection the two of you have.
How well do you connect emotionally?
What is getting in the way?

What is your role (both of you look at your respective role) in the problem?

Are you still doing the magic 6 hours a week?

Are you still doing the Rituals of connection (emotional) weekly?

Are you doing the necessary maintenance or are you neglecting your obligations to your relationship?