The Biggest Mistake Men Make When Choosing Women

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[Averyr]

Got pretty much ignored all throughout my early twenties and teens because men chased women and girls who were fitting that stereotype of hoe-ish and IG pretty. Now that they went and knocked all those girls up. They try hitting THE GOOD GIRLS up 😭

Glad I never played into that, and ended up being rewarded with a REEALLY really good man. To any women - they are still out there. To any men, I’m very sorry guys like that make you all look bad - it isn’t fair to the true good guys.

[jasminealexia]

As soon as these men see that I’m a woman of God they’re no longer interested.. GOOD!

[destamcghie]

So can we tell the men to "choose better"

[sparkle]

At least 80 percent of people on instagram don’t even look like their pictures lol. It’s soo funny when you see foolish men fall for it.

[marvinellison]

We don't spiritually connect. Unequally yoke. To be truthful we don't even discover our spiritual side.
To be carnal-minded is death. We have it backward we are spiritual beings in a physical body. KNOW THYSELF!

[leah]

The problem with the “Instagram level of beauty” is that it’s all fake. I love listening to men like you talk about this. My husband is the same way.

[marybowers]

Soooo true. I have male friends very successful most chose narcissists because they looked like supermodels but these women only used them, didn’t love them. They got raked through coals and are now bitter. They have nothing to offer. Too jaded to marry again.

[touchofgrace]

Ask the average man to describe his dream woman and he will describe a woman who looks like a 304 but has traditional values. It doesn’t exist because traditional women don’t look like 304s and 304s don’t have traditional values. When men realize they have to choose one or the other they pursue the 304 and get bitter because that’s all she is. Meanwhile the traditional women are passed on for not putting out. 🙄

[xanjey]

I’ve been looked over so much and probably still will cause I don’t do what a lot of other females do and I’m in no way trying to offend anyone but this is just my experience. Guys go for girls who dress very revealing. They go for the girls who are willing to sleep around. They go for the women who have no respect for themselves whatsoever. They go for the women who act a fool. As I’ve said before, I’ve been looked over because I cover up, because I’m saving myself for marriage, because I don’t go out and act a fool, because I don’t smoke, drink and party etc etc. that’s just not me so I get passed up all the time. Im in college, I work, I go to church, and I have hobbies I love to do. I stay up out the way and out of drama, great sense of humor, nice personality etc. All of these things men say they want but when they have the chance to be with a woman with the qualities they say they want, we get overlooked and done wrong. I just don’t get it.

[MissWardu]

This is real. Because men look to other men to validate them by the woman they have.

[Rocanala]

Men seek women that other men want to sleep with, but give little consideration to non physical factors. By the time they figure it out, it’s too late.

[darlamcfarland]

Men go after women they want to have sex with, and then they do have sex, then ignore any responsibility that follows.

[Trailblazers]

I am assuming that your audience right now is majority black. As a bw with a slim frame (very similar to AAliyah), I can tell you that bm especially have a fixation on ass. Its an obsession. It's to the point where bm chooses women solely on the size of their butt. I am about 99 percent certain that my future husband will definitely be foreign. I've always attracted international men. They see the whole woman including brains, beauty, accomplishments, mindset, etc. Its black American men who are the most shallow.

[TeeW]

Many go for what they WANT, hoping she can also give him what he NEEDS…They end up letting their wants hurt them…🤷🏽‍♀️

[keishajones]

Idc what anyone says: men are complex to me. I hear ppl say “men are simple.” But that’s a lie everyone thinks is truth. They ain’t, they ain’t, they ain’t. And, I ain’t been proved wrong yet.

[chloelageaux]

Facts! Just like some of these women choose a man based on finances. There are men who choose women based on their looks! Money and beauty matter. However, they aren't the most important things! Character and integrity is!

[broco]

Beauty and looks have their place. They just shouldn't be the main reason anyone stays with a person. It's ok to let that be the initial draw or attraction to someone. But, the rest should be about the person's character - integrity, mentality, intelligence, goals, etc. - and how they compare to yours. Take the "milk and cookies" off the table and take time to vet the person if you're serious about meeting "the one".

[Franklyspeaking]

I try to tell my brother this all the time, he complains about women being all the same but yet he keeps picking the same type of women. Maybe taking it back to the old days before social media and meeting ppl in person can be very much beneficial. A person can't put a filter on in person. If you are smart all you need is a 15-minute conversation and you can learn so much about a person. It's so far a Dm can go, and most ppl live fake lives on social media.

[mvinson]

I've thought the exact same thing! They're both perfect for each other in a dysfunctional sort of way

[jasoniag]

Imagine being chosen just for your looks. How is that actually going to work out in the long run? Seriously...