Should women submit to men?

[marshalldteachjb]

High value women know they deserve high value men, they also know that the only way to get an high value man is to submit to him in the relationship.

[princealinabu]

A woman will submit if she respects her husband.

[philipjdry]

It's not submission, it's discussion and the man enacts the decision. Or more realistically do his work to make it happen and the woman does her work to make it happen. A great example I saw was home improvement. Where tim and the wife lost in a storm, they discussed driving or stopping at a station. They decided to stop and get directions, risk being stuck in a dangerous place. Masculine means hard work, risking danger. Feminine means thinking, support, problem solving

[alexandrapluscarr]

What about when there are valid disagreements or differences of opinions? I’ve always heard (coming from a Torah/Jewish perspective ) that a man is “in charge” in public and a woman in private. Obviously both people are human beings, equally deserving respect and equally will need to (inevitably) compromise on some things. As long as it’s done respectfully, without anger or raising voices, differences can be worked out. Sometimes that means one person doesn’t get the pink pony or red truck, but we’re adults. We should be able to handle some short-term disappointments & disagreements if overall, it’s a quality relationship that both people want to last long-term.

[Ezilla]

Yep, agreed it just depends on situation.

[splinterdevilblood]

I like that it’s actually a couple talking about these subjects and not fake stranger interviews.

[anthonyalandoyle]

Its all about polarity that is the key to a relationship that will last. Now if she is more masculine she will need a man who is more in there feminity which is fine because if thats who he is then thats who he is if he tries to change it then hes not being true to who he is.

[Mister_W.T.F]

Kind of feel like

If it's an ISSUE theres a Problem. Like- both parties should know who they're getting involved with
A lot if people aren't honest about who they're going to be a year or even 3 months into the relationship

They misrepresent their natures

So all this blows up later

Also people are more disordered now

[Muziqreborn]

Men carry scars and women carry their own scars as well..the moment the scars anxieties a man and woman about to engage in a relationship are dropped, forgotten and moved on, then everything else just naturally falls into place and that kind of energy is the kind of energy that can last two people to their old age together..this before you even get to the other factors like whose high value and who is not and others..there is still some amazing biology that creates that proper foundation between two people and it is never seen or looked for, it just happens and, i know what you are all thinking reading this, its not Love..its in the scars we all carry around my people..

[DirtyDieseldude]

This is really concerning. I don’t think women or men know what that means. If you were in a romantic relationship:

If you take her to dinner
If she gives you a hug
if you do something special for her
If she’s there when you need her
When you have sex
When she asks you to work on her car
When he asks you to pick up milk

The fact that you’re in a relationship is “submission”….dur dur. Why? Because you have submitted yourself and committed to a relationship. They are confusing dominance with submission. That’s a misrepresentation. how does a couple share and grow their life without committing and submitting? 🤦‍♂️ if you think submission is bad, what are you doing with her/him then? … stay single 🤷‍♂️

[JonathanSorunke]

There’s a good amount of guys these days that aren’t worth submitting to tbh

[theloverevolution]

Men lead but the woman is always right. Plain and simple. They both can lead in their own way and contribute power in the relationship where it is necessary.

[warlocksden]

To submit is exactly how it sounds, you are belittling yourself to gain a benefit, some thing that you are incapable of doing yourself because of laziness or lack of opportunities, marriage is submission of weak women

[matthewgales]

Yes— it does not depend. You should submit to the man YOU chose to be with. Don’t want to submit? Then don’t be with that man then.

[antepetrish]

Ladies you all out there need to Ephesians 5

[bendutton]

smart and articulate woman like her probably won't submit to most men.

[toddmccormick]

It depends is not biblical, and because of this the relationship probably won't make it over the long haul. I do believe that the "remedy" to this is for the woman to know that if she can't "follow" her man at his side then she should move on because he is too emotionally weak for her. I am speaking from my own experience as a man.

[amazinggrace]

I don’t think any woman should submit to a man who’s not her husband . Why this is even a thing is beyond me.

[tomaelmicro]

Reading these comments is actually terrifying. Why on earth would any self respecting man want another person to "submit to them"? So worrying that these values are being encouraged.

[projektava]

lead in things that you are good at, and let the other one lead in things that are their speciality, is it that hard? give the same value back, care and try to take care if the other one does the same, comunicate and be honest. thats synergy, thats respect for the person you love, and the respect they give to you. be in roles you are both comfortable, jesus its not science, talk people talk, say what you want, if it goes well with they want or you both wiling to change some aspects and make it work, then there you have it.