5 Small But Powerful Changes to Simplify Life Today

Want a simpler life?
These 5 small changes to simplify life instantly may help in creating a simple and slower life.

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Chapters:
00:00 small changes to simplify life
00:44 doing simplicity right
02:11 self improvement trap
03:36 change of heart
04:50 leaving the hustle behind
05:57 some thoughts
07:13 small changes that make a difference

Have you ever wondered why life still feels overwhelming, even when you're trying to simplify?
I used to think that decluttering my space, cutting back on commitments, or slowing down would make everything feel lighter.
But even after all that, my mind still felt cluttered.
That’s when I realized: it wasn’t just what I was doing—it was what I wasn't doing.
Sometimes, we make life harder without even noticing it. But once we see it, everything changes.
Here’s what I had to unlearn to finally feel lighter and simplify life.
When “Simple” Becomes Another Thing to Get Right
At one point, I got obsessed with simplifying everything. I wanted the perfect slow lifestyle, the most intentional time management, and an aesthetic capsule wardrobe that fit all my ideals.
Ironically, I ended up stressed out about whether I was "doing simplicity right."
That’s when it hit me: I was filling my life with a list of shoulds.
There’s no prize for having the most minimalist lifestyle or a gold star for perfecting the art of slow living.
If we’re constantly questioning whether we’re doing it right, we’re just replacing one kind of pressure with another.
The real shift came when I realized that a slow, simple life isn’t about controlling every detail—it’s about letting go of the need to control everything.
It's embracing our lives at any stage—even the messy parts. Because in reality, nobody has everything figured out completely—even if they look like it. We're all a work in progress, and that's perfectly okay.
The Hidden Trap of Self-Improvement
I love learning and growing, and I believe self-improvement can be a beautiful thing. But for a long time, I found myself constantly striving—reading self-help books, setting new goals, refining habits—always looking for the next way to improve.
It seemed productive, but deep down, I started to wonder: Am I trying to improve because I truly want to, or because I’m afraid of never being enough?
The tricky part is that when we tie our sense of worth to constant progress, the goalpost keeps moving. No matter how much I improved, it never felt like enough. I was always measuring myself against an ideal version of me—one that was just out of reach.
But life isn’t a race to some perfect destination. Growth matters, but so does recognizing how far we’ve already come. It’s okay to evolve, to seek better, but it’s also okay to pause, to appreciate the present, and to find contentment in the quiet, subtle in-between.
The Pressure to Finish Everything We Start
I normalized the idea that once I committed to something—a goal, a dream, even a relationship—I had to see it through no matter what.
But what happens when your heart changes?
We’re taught that quitting means failure. But sometimes, growth means outgrowing things.
Maybe a career you once loved no longer excites you. Or a goal that once mattered now feels off-track. Or maybe a friendship that used to be fulfilling no longer fits with who you are today.
Letting go doesn’t mean you're flaky; it just means you're being honest with yourself.
And truthfully, holding onto things just because you started them—even if they no longer align—is what keeps you stuck.
It’s okay to change your mind. Life’s not about proving you can stick with something forever—it’s about having the courage to walk away when something no longer fits.
Leaving the Hustle Without Leaving Everything Behind
For so long, I thought that leaving the hustle meant giving up everything—ambition, goals, productivity. But that’s not true.
You don’t have to quit your job or retreat to a cabin in the woods to step out of the cycle of exhaustion.
It’s about stopping the autopilot mode.
Hustle isn’t about how much you do—it’s about the energy and intention behind it.
Are you working towards something that truly aligns with your values, or are you just trying to keep up with external expectations?
Slowing down doesn’t mean giving up on your dreams. It simply means giving yourself permission to choose how you reach them.
And when you stop running just to keep up, you’ll realize—you were never really behind.

[cindypreece]

So beautiful and exactly what I needed to hear today! Thank you so much! I love your videos and wisdom! ❤

[SUDZ]

My younger self wanted become a Doctor, get married and have at least 3 children. But I am now widowed in my 40s and have no children. I live a life very different to how I imagined. But I feel like I know myself better and I have accepted that my life will never be perfect and it is a journey of constant learning and evolving. Love your videos ❤

[Forampatel]

This channel is very underrated but Keep posting such nice videos. Your ideas are very unique and relatable. The videography is also perfect

[LoveLizaLife]

All my thoughts are captured in this vdo. Loved it ❤

[benbates]

I am honored to hear your story. As a child I was a very different person once I turned 27 that’s when my personality traits started changing. Being near my 40’s I still feel there’s still room for change. I look forward to seeing more of your future videos!😊

[ErizaPaola]

you just got new subscriber ❤️ love your content ❤

[margarettownsley]

Hi Suzy thank you for sharing your childhood story and photos I need to let go of worrying about life and take a step back from my adult son as he is very verbally abusive to me I hate to say this but he has no manners or respect towards me and Ive been allowing this for years but I feel it’s time for me to let go ‘ I want you to know Suzy that you are my light in the darkness and I’m very grateful for you from the bottom of my heart thank you for your videos 🌻🥰

[desertmom]

Hi Suzy! I always look forward to your videos! 😊

[KN-qqgm]

Very eye opening! Thank you, I was just recently thinking about life being rough even after simplifying. Thank you for the suggestions of letting go. I am doing the best I can with what resources I have. And that is good enough. Those childhood photos are so adorable!!

[paulinaherr]

Thank you for this video. I needed to hear that it is ok to let go what you have outgrown. I should quit my job but I did for way too long but I find it so hard to do.

[peacelovesheerenity]

Always looking forward to your vlogs. ❤ - Mom She of Phil. 😊

[Elise-eu]

The one thing I would love to let go of is my ex husband....I have been divorced for 25 years. I was alone in my marriage. I am so independent I feel like my chances for love are over. I am 55. I only was married to him and really can't find much to talk about now, so I always speak about my life married. I don't want to talk about him anymore. I am tired of this. I just want a life simple with no regrets. Thanks for listening 😊❤

[warrenthorp]

I enjoy your videos. Thank you for making them.
Is all of the photography from Thailand?

[Carole]

All your clothes look so comfortable and soft. Are they mostly cotton and linen?