5 Types of Love Bombing! | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

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[yiselba]

This also happens in marriage. They adjust their behavior for a few days and then treat you like garbage again. It’s a horrible cycle.

[cmrandall]

I love, Love, LOVE how clear you are about stating that love bombing is all fake, manipulative, and just meant to hook you for the inevitable abuse. What makes love bombing so effective is how they get you to BELIEVE their affection for you is real when it's not. You get so caught up in everything. After you've been a target of it you truly need that wakeup call that love bombing isn't real in order to break the spell

[s-Trance_]

Dating and relationship RULE!

'Never ever get attached to someones good behaviour and aura. Specially in the beginning. They can act...you'll know that when you know them for a longer time.

Don't lean on the validation of other people. Be comfort with yourself. If a person disrespecting you... check on them. Maybe they coulf doing unconious so check again like 3 - 4 times more if its neccesary. Still going to happen...LEAVE without self doubt abd WITHOUT thinking'

[SosoWedge]

One type of love bombing is phone calls. He called me 30 times a day and night, and we saw each other every evening at the gym but absolutely refused to see me outside the gym. We talked non-stop on the phone, he got all the information he needed to destroy me later. It's frustrating because technically I've shared all my free time with him, but in reality I've only spent time outside the gym with him 2 or 3 times in 6 years. In the end, he said that nothing had happened between us, we're just "friends", and he dumped me to marry a stranger. It traumatized me.

[Jeremy.Glasgow]

This literally describes all the things my ex did when I met her and I took it all at face value. Now she’s in a new relationship (after being with 4 guys in 4 months, including myself) and is engaged to the 4th guy in less than 4 weeks of dating. I feel bad for the guy because he has no idea what he’s in for, but I obviously can’t get involved in that. Just gotta be thankful I got out when I did.

[eeomwyu]

Wanting to talk and be with me all the time is intrusive and doesn't feel good. But when someone (ALWAYS AT MY CONVENIENCE only and with my agreement only) spends time with me(shows obvious consideration of my time),
and then,
when with me, he gives me UNDIVIDED ATTENTION like noone else!!!!
Even without any gifts, this person is just looking and looking straight into my eyes, smiling, showing all the adoration.
And I feel worshipped/loved just for existing from such sweet non-pressuring treatment. It's more addictive than constant intrusive gifts because it does feel authentic: a person asks for nothing but my presence, pressures me into nothing but just adores and worships every chance I give him to be around me. That can only feel intoxicatingly good.... As I feel how much he appreciates just my presence alone, I start longing for his attention and his presence in turn. His attention made me feel, if not like a Goddess, then at the very least like a very significant/important person.
And that's why it is so scary - it is very VERY addictive, very flattering, very intoxicating. Who wouldn't love to be just quietly adored, admired, smiled at, and unconditionally worshipped just for existing? Isn't it how we all wanted our parents to love us in our infancy and early childhood?

That's exactly how my covert narc hooked
Love bombing at a slow pace, without pressure into anything and without any intrusive gifts, can feel every authentic. . . There was no grandiose display...he was a shy, covert I fell for it.

[sanjeevbains]

This was my last relationship exactly & thankfully I was able to exit 🙏🏼. Stephanie’s courses and videos have helped me stay away and RISE UP up. It has been a 2 year process and I love the life I live now ❤️🎉

[stephaniehansen]

Someone at work was doing this to me. The words of affirmation stuff. She did it all the time so I knew it wasn’t genuine. I honestly can’t stand when people compliment all the time. I’d rather someone just do their job and be helpful. Just be real!

[edgreen]

If you need words of affirmation do inner child work to heal yourself. Then the narcissist has nothing to trigger. Is it over the top. They don't know the whole you in 2 weeks. You have reminded me of serveral things like reactive abuse. Thank you!

[sunflower]

At the beginning, showing a lot of love bombing isn’t good. (Gifts, trips, flowers etc, and only that; and not showing their character/personality, that’s a red flag)…. But damn it’s the fun part of meeting someone new, but that is what makes it dangerous.
The gifts/romance not maka the man, it’s the personality, and that is what really stays in the relationship, their personality, not the gifts))

[kkrushr]

Yeah just went through a narcissist breaking up with me after using all these tactics “I love you” “you’re my soul mate” “never met anyone like you” “I’ll never leave you!” I put down boundaries throughout the weeks and it seemed fine. I put one down about not being alone in his apartment with him and at first was fine then flipped, became cruel, said horrible things to me and said “I’m not ready to be with him” I thought this was real and he came off so genuine!
The studying me was a thing! He found an insecurity in my family situation and used that to try and manipulate me. So scary these types of people!

[Paka]

Aloha Stephanie, really appreciate the part about enjoying a new single life and someone new setting that balance off. Truly believe listening to your intuition and following it. Thank you for all your guidance. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[jasoncampbell]

Looking back after 30 years, it has all become clear. The marriage had ended last year, and it has taken that time to get to a better place. Knowing the signs now is so helpful when I finally feel ready for a new relationship. Thank you for all the videos over the past year.

[kundalinigirl]

Understanding this tactic will save someone from wasting so much time and preventing a lot of pain

[Patricia-xzek]

I feel so grateful to be part of your community Stephanie Lyn Coaching💞.#dating: identifying the red flags, being aware, and loving myself more.

[MagickYoga]

just dated a "therapist" of 2 years she love bombed me, yet gave me a full background on herself with proof. once she displayed verbal abusive behavior after a few days that we slept together (yelling and cussing) I drew my boundaries of not tolerating that or being spoken down to. She disappeared. I got lucky it was just 2 weeks of dating. The very open communication on her background threw me off. Hopefully I will step much more carefully next time. lesson learned

[izawaniek]

Thank you for great description of the toxic behaviours at the beginning of a relationship with an unhealthy person.

[mariaakopyan-dignifieddivo]

Great video Stephanie! These signs are helpful for recognizing what is genuine and what is more manipulative ❤

[Genxmom]

This is 💯. I feel like a complete fool for falling for it. Literally, the second date he flew me to a luxury resort. He took me shopping and we got messages. When I tried to talk to him about getting to know him on a deeper level and my concerns with the constant FaceTiming and non stop messages mostly sexual. He stonewalled me. I blocked him across all media and I had to admit to myself what he is. I obviously was disappointed.

[mrrobert]

Thank You Again Stephanie for another one of your Great and Insightful YouTube Videos. I hope and I pray that I can find a good woman with a kind heart like you to share the rest of my life with. I’m 63 years old now, and I swore that I would never, ever let another woman like my ex-wife back into my life to use me and verbally abuse me. She was prideful and arrogant. And she was selfish and self centered. And she was demanding and controlling and possessive. And she was verbally abusive and emotionally abusive. And she was violent. And she had a violent temper. And she was vengeful and revengeful and vindictive. And she was cold hearted and heartless and cruel. And she was unforgiving. And she made my life a living hell for ten years. I wasted 10 years of my young life giving my love and my affections and my devotion to a two faced, back stabbing, manipulative and deceitful, crazy maker. She drove me to have a nervous breakdown after she ran off with another man with my daughter and my son and raised them up to hate me. She was cheating on me the whole time that we were together both as a couple and during our marriage. She enjoyed talking down to me and disrespecting me and tearing me down. And she enjoyed insulting me and threatening me. She enjoyed it. And she took pleasure in it. And now I know that she was just using me for a doormat and walking all over me to build herself up while tearing me down. And GOD saved me from committing suicide and I Became a Christian. That’s the only Good that came out of that relationship. Thank You Lord.