Surprising Twist Behind Love Bombing & 5 Red Flags #Narcissist

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Narcissists are extremely self-absorbed, so why does the love bombing phase feel like they're all about you? Well, it's an illusion. The love bombing or idealization phase is more about the narcissist than they want you to believe. Watch the full video to hear love bombing explained from a different perspective and to learn 5 red flags of a love bombing narcissist.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[nickf]

A narc I have to interact with at work told me one day...."You know, you are really hard to read". They didn't know that I already had them pegged as a full on narc. So I give them very simple, dry answers and only when its necessary to interact with them at all. Hence, they have no supply, (from me). And their need to "read" me, or anyone else is a dead give away they are not interested in the questions or answers at hand, but the need to "read" you is how they get a handle on how to manipulate you. Don't engage these people, they only want your answer to beat you into the ground with. Be honest, be truthful....but say it in one word and no more. Watch their reaction.

[NKRAIEM]

I had no idea it was transactional. Now I see it fully. I was so blind then. And now it's so obvious...

[roxymovie]

5 early red flags during the lovebombing:

♦️They constantly need your adoration
♦️They are hyperfixated how you see
them
♦️They can very early on tell you that
they love you
♦️ Their love is conditional/transactional
♦️They seem addicted to you and you
might even be addicted to them

[nilashankari]

I once dated someone who checked all these boxes. I didn’t know what it was but I felt something was off with the whole relationship and ended things.
I used to think back and wonder what gave me that icky feeling, and this makes sense!
I guess it was a good call to listen to my instincts!

[NarcisismoTV]

I’m totally shocked, destroyed, sad. Omg! I can’t believe this people exist. I just….😢

[cmullenmusic]

"Narcissists feed off off their reflection in your eyes." around 3:20 Key 💪💛👍

[mypov]

I stayed true to myself and she ghosted me. I don't want to believe she's a narcissist but the evidence is there.

[eliseantys]

When you said the're craving for the way we look at them, well that makes sense... I couldn't understand how it was possible to fake the way you look someone, but these people are able to copy the way you look at them... A theory says that when you fall in love with a narcissist, you fall in love with yourself in some way... and this is why at the end of the relationship you feel like they've stolen a part of you...

[cjd]

I feel that most alcoholics I have ever met are covert and grandiose.

[iamgoddessoflove]

Relationships often fail because one person gives and gives while the other one takes and takes! Never allow it to be one-sided.
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[sherriv]

My ex always got upset because I "should have" done this or said that... So annoying

[thando_mvandaba]

I especially love the analogy of Echo and Narciss you used from the Greek Mythology💘💪🏼

[natural_free_spirit]

Wow “the person that they hate is themselves”.

[VenusianStarseed]

The covert narcissist l was with he did not love bomb me but tried to trauma bond. He hated himself but also felt he was better and smarter than people. When I left I am pretty sure the sadness was just about losing his supply.

[fenixrise]

My gosh I’ve been listening to videos on N for a year now but your explanation of Narcissus and us being the reflections of N really clicked. Thank you!

[Nicole-Faith]

I really appreciate the way you broke this down.
I also believe with time things can reveal themselves, like how we can feel someone is just off but after some time has passed and we come back and interact with the person it clicks as to why...
This happened to me when I realised on a few seperate occasions that the person was potentially a narc and it was a moment that sent a chill down my spine!😬
These things you mentioned are not always apparent in the moment though.
Thankyou.

[wms]

I told him to knock off the praise, that I'm just an average girl. I also said, "Stop saying you love me. You know it's not true."

[PhantomWanderer]

Yea, at first, my husband would go everywhere with me. I first took this as because he didn’t know anyone and he was too nervous to be alone with my mom. So he would literally go to work with me and wait around for me to get off(I am a gig worker so my events were a couple hours at a time)

[upclosesneakers]

LOL.. truth.."don't ever stop look gin at me the way you do".. I heard that one COPIOUS amounts of time.. she loved how I looked at her and made her feel... she won't be seeing my eyes anymore thats for sure

[kutasarri]

Oh the reflection/ghosting bit. Yes! That makes so much sense! Thank you!