If You're DATING an ENFP... (3 tips)

A relationship with an ENFP is...awesome? Frustrating as hell? Loads of fun? Yes, this is a multiple choice test. Us ENFPs are a complicated bunch which is probably not news to you if you're already dating an ENFP. In this video I share 3 tips for dating an ENFP to help us be our best and for you to have a great relationship.

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[cfiocco]

ENFPs want to be recognized as the superhero they truly are but they are also absolutely amazing at seeing their partner as a superhero. You are truly loyal people (when you decide to be loyal haha!!). I feel so lucky to be married to an ENFP. Love your channel !

[omarkul]

Conclusion from intj
1. Enfps dream a lot about what they want (may not jump into action right away) (dont interrupt them)
2. Enfps change their mind quickly. Especially hard for male enfps since they get harder judged by society
3. Enfps are highly skilled at talking about others emotions, but their own are their blackspot.

[debs]

“Love to talk about other people’s feelings but don’t like talking about their own”….sir you just drew me OUT

[candicefloyd]

I’m dating an ENFP and I am an ENFP. This helps me understand what we need from each other to be successful.

[GermaineNimundel]

I'm an ENTJ who always find myself being attracted to or dating ENFPs but have never been brave enough to commit due to their very playful and charming personality. I can't take them seriously and feel like I'm getting love bombed everytime so I always run before anything gets too serious and now I'm taking a moment to study what these ENFPs are all about 😂

[gutsygoddess]

1- We love to dream
2- Understand that we change our minds a lot
3- We are incredibile discussing feelings and emotions, as long as they are not our own

[nolasmith]

Can you do a video explaining why ENFPS have such a hard time communicating their own feelings? It's strange that I'm like this. I could talk to my close friends about their feelings for hours, but the second they ask me how I've really been feeling or doing I freeze up and barely know how to answer.

[maggied]

Intj-t woman here, who is married to a male enfp. 15 years together, yes we argue, but he is such a dreamer, I have to pull him back down to earth sometimes. He gets me for the most part. He is super emotional and loves hugs, and changes his mind a lot. I'm more a realist he tends to be an optimist. He pulls me to social gatherings, but we both like anime, games, etc. I enjoy home time, he likes going out. We are kind of opposites, but we do both struggle with our own emotions. He expresses them better than me, but we try to understand each other's difficulties. I love him and can't see myself without him, even if he gets on my nerves sometimes 😏

[sandraspeery]

About emotions: I get literally attacked for sharing my emotions/experiences with. I’ve been labeled “a trauma dumper “for relating to other’s emotional struggles and sharing an example /what something like DBT did for me. Don’t ask me how I am or ask if I can relate to what you’re feeling if you don’t want an authentic answer. When I am authentic-teaching history at a university or helping recovering addicts (lost a kidney & became a statistic of the “Opioid Crisis”. ) I get labeled a trauma dumper when I’m being my most vulnerable authentic compassionate self. Don’t ask an ENFP who thrive on authenticity how they feel or how they do something only to shame them for not being afraid of appearing weak for understanding our connection to being our real selves.

[janella]

I am an ENFP, dating an ENFP, its a deeper connection, a philosophical and more passionate one than with ENFJ, but they are also a perfect match :) with both I understand much better and faster, without explaining much!

[dominicstarr]

Hiiii from an INFP looking up ways to become even closer to my Lovely ENFP Significant Other! Ya'll ROCK and I Love you all SO MUCH, ENFPs are AWESOME!!! Keep on being the Cool People You are!!!!

[Valentinfj]

As an INFJ, I find that advice easy to follow.

[melshortir]

ENFP dating another ENFP! Its the best relationship I've ever had in my life, I've felt so understood and accepted and we connect so deeply, having just found out we are the same type is interesting. We're both in stressful demanding careers (Lawyer and Doctor) so that may be another layer of understanding as well, but I was shocked we were both ENFP's since he's a self proclaimed introvert. 2 of my best friends are INFP's as well, so I love the _NFP's apparently <3

[samanthalourdesbillones]

I can totally agree with #1. My sister told me I am just all talk and no actions toward the things I want to do, and that really hurt me to the core.

[DerKommendePark]

Hey, I'm an ENFP who was together with an ISTJ for 10 years - he regularly "cut" me off at the knees when it came to my dreams, ideas and aspirations. It was indeed crippling and soul-crushing. It was like running against a wall. So, now I'm dating an ENFP, and we're both... well... airheads. We have a great time together and it's amazing to FINALLY be understood (for both of us) - but how on earth do we get any work done?!?

[darcycardinal]

INFP here… thanks for the tips. Wish me luck!

[TheFuschiaDragonfly]

I'm being DEADASS these days I was like "damn, maybe I should date an ENFP since I'm an ENFP and so we would understand each other better"
And now I got this video in my home lmao 😅💗

[Adoreabl]

This video was 100 percent accurate with everything!. He is very true about ruining the relationship too. Very accurate on that as

[maris]

My Gf is a ENFP like me. It is beautiful and frustrating at the same time. Thx for the video.

[jeffwhite]

Those who have given up their dreams will discourage yours.