Never Chase A Man Who's Not Contacting You, Acting Distant Or Pulling Away. Do THIS Instead...

Discover three ways to stay high-value and make a man chase you again (even if he's acting distant or pulling away) in this video with Helena Hart.

[hunny]

"The right man does not need convincing. I promise " Needed this

[Diana-qxsp]

I’m not chasing him 3days he didn’t text me or called me... Life continues without them. Thank you, Helena. 💕

[MsAvenger]

This is so true. Once I learned to just focus on healing and building myself he started coming to me even more. A bit a distance really helps

[patriciabrown]

I’m putting my masculine energy on me by working out on the gym, working extra shifts at work as a nursing assistant, hiking with the meet up group, attending Zoom meetings with ladies from church.

[kimgordon]

"don't have to
Figure him out!
Don't have to
Be something you're not;
Don't have to
get his attention" 2:22

[xuxabelle]

I expressed my feelings to my boyfriend about boundaries. 1.) more daily communication 2.) following each other on Instagram and he hasn’t contacted me in a week. I text him yesterday to see if we can talk and he still ignored me. I feel numb and I’m grateful for these types of videos. I am enough and I am worthy of true love. Going to step back and see what unfolds.

[claire-ukef]

I put my masculine energy into changing careers and going back to school, connecting and caring for my family, and meditating. Thank you for everything Helena. You’re healing your community through wisdom and allowing us to shift the conversation and attitude toward love to be positive and enlightening rather than it being full of fear. We all deserve to experience this!! I can’t thank you enough!!

[Pamela_Lopezs]

I like this type of videos. We women need to be reminded constantly that we should never chase a man who is pulling away from us no matter how strongly we feel about him. When we chase we are loosing our dignity and self respect.

[staceyrhodewalt]

I feel I show high value in all my actions, texts, talks, etc with guys. I find that they are always looking for the next one. Is it just me? They seem to be so distracted, worried they will miss out on something better? I just haven’t met the right one I guess? I sometimes can’t help but feel inadequate even tho I work on my inner self all the time, great job and personal life. I get compliments from so many on how great I look. I feel great too. Best I’ve felt and looked in years. I am humble and blessed with where I am in life. Why can’t I find the guy that sees the real me and values me? So disheartening in the dating scene. Been dating for over 2 years and I’m trying not to be jaded but it is soooo hard Helena. Thank you for all your positive influences. You always hit right at home and keep me staying positive. Please keep doing what you do!! Take care.

[kristinb]

You are so right! I have just been kind of ghosted, and it did make me little sad - not gonna lie - but i keep reminding myself, that it won't happen with the right guy, one day ❤

[iknowwhatsup]

Trusting the right man will come will help you not waste time with the wrong men. Be yourself, because eventually he'll meet you anyway. You cannot make a real man do anything. They lead, they choose where relationship goes, but you choose whether you want to go. Love your advice Helena. Merry Christmas!

[luminousbeingsemily]

Love this video! I have been super focused on learning to love myself as well as when I’m feeling super masculine energy- figuring out what I need! I’ve been doing puzzles, painting, making crafts, watching a show, dancing....I’ve stopped chasing completely- when I feel the need to chase, I go straight to my feminine energy strategies 😍

[liahknowsbest]

💡This just happened to me after 2 days my text wasn't replied to and I was the only one reaching out . I sent him a positive message told him I pray he finds a women he wants to give his attention to. Be blessed✌🏽I blocked and delete. I felt great after😁 Next 👏🏽🙏🏽She values herself👏🏽👏🏽

[SimplypaperDIY]

We ladies tend to give too much in a relationship and end up being taken for granted.
I loved that you said to put the focus and energy back to ourselves. I did this too recently. And the moment I brought my attention towards my internal self, I realised that I was so scared of losing my boyfriend that my life started revolving around him. And the only way I can stop all this is to become a kind of person who cannot be taken for granted. Not even for a single day!

And this mindset will naturally let you pull away from a man and be in your feminine energy, rather than playing mind games with him. I wish happiness to all the ladies out there! 🎉❤
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[lindatoscano]

I’m super lonely right now during this dark winter lockdown. Trying to be strong and find interesting projects. My favorite thing you’ve been saying lately is this. My hot and cold guy (he works in my building so I see him a lot) is starting to BORE ME. I’ve tried to be a supportive friend to him if nothing else, but he becomes less attractive and more annoying by the day.

[dianepopnick]

I value myself so much after cutting off all communication with a guy who played me. I invested in myself and after a long time realized I am so much happier without a man. Most of them are more trouble than it is worth. Lots of great things make life rich. You don't need a man.to be happy.

[newbeginnings]

I love that you validate masculine energy in a woman. We have both elements in ourselves. I think I was hesitant to pair up because I was scared of losing what my masculine energy could create for me. I mean, women can do anything including become president 💯 I like how you make it clear that we can use that masculine energy to take care of our feminine side and refocus on ourselves. So many femininity channels advise women to be damsels in distress. But when you consider a woman like, for example J Lo, it’s clears she’s used her masculine energy to be a success on many levels without losing her femininity.

[milasalinas]

Thank you for i am enjoying and learning so much from you. This year my relationship with my husband is getting healthier and healthier and getting juicy because I see so much changes in his action like today He asked me if I want to go with him to buy his tools to fix his car which he never ask me before. Yes, since the day that I started watching and listening your YouTube channel, my relationship with myself is totally changed and my relationship with my husband.Everything is going so well for me and my relationship . Yes loving myself is the most important that I am doing and it is works. I feel like we are starting a new relationship just like when he was courting me for the first time that I can’t believe that it is really happening. I can’t explain my feelings at this time. My feminine energy is at work and I love it. Yes, I am putting all the attention to myself at this moment. Eager to wake up in the morning to do the things I love to do and I feel so good. Once again thank you, thank you.😘😘😘❤️❤️🌲🎄

[deannawillet]

I struggle with self love and valuing myself, i have always put others ahead of myself. I am having a hard time changing these habits

[maytayable]

Great advice, Helena! I've struggled with anxious attachment since a really brutal heartbreak, and it's been a long journey to embodying the mindsets you're explaining here. It's been teachers like you who have totally turned my dating life around so thank you! I've been focussing my masculine energy into my spiritual journey, doing lots of courses and journalling and spoiling myself with the love I used to think I needed to get from a partner. I can't wait to check out your podcast!