ENFJ vs INFJ | Can you be an ENFJ and also relate to the INFJ?

In this video I review a comment that asked the question about leading with ENFJ and relating to the INFJ. Let me know what you think in the comments below. I look forward to all of them and how you bring your experience and views of MBTI to the debate. - Marty

[zeldafaninnocentgangster]

This makes a lot of sense. I'm an INFJ and some people see me as extrovert others introverted. My mother is ENFP and wondered if she could be more introverted. This video answers that's question.

[infjintegrityvsnarcissism]

As an INFJ I find that ENFJ types understand me the best, and I tend to be drawn to them when seeking a romantic partner. This probably because we face many similar challenges in our lives, which I discuss on my channel.

[lbere]

Initially I thought I was INFJ because that’s how I’m currently feeling or have been feeling for the longest time but I maybe in reality I’m ENFJ. I have ADHD and anxiety and I wonder if like with the cronical pain both of them could have changed my first external response because of fear of failure/external disharmony. Or maybe the other way? Could ADHD mask the I and make me look like/ feel more E?

[cindyc]

Something I wrote elsewhere. Thought you might like.

Maybe things are more cubic than straight lined or single axis. There are more factors in who we are and who we are becoming than the mbti has access to. We are uniquely individual due to our experiences overlaid on our nature. Like each of us is a mere point amongst all the axis. Take that image and multiply in complexity. There is not merely height and width, but an unknown complexity of depth beyond what we can even define.

Know sometimes we have difficulty explaining things particularly when they come from intuition. Most people expect us to reverse engineer our intuition into understandable, bite sized information. We are telling them the constellation exists, but they expect us to identify every star in the constellation and describe its placement and how it connects to every other star.