7 Things Narcissists Do When They're Alone

From social media obsession to scheming strategies, discover 7 behaviours that narcissists engage in behind the scenes.

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Introduction (0:00)
Supply is Like Oxygen (1:15)
#1: Self-Admiration (2:30)
#2 Social Media (3:18)
#3: Plan & Scheme (4:59)
#4: Ruminating (7:19)
#5: Triangulation (8:20)
#6: Recklessness & Impulsivity (9:27)
#7: Hoovering (9:59)
What They AREN'T Doing (11:12)

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[Rabswood]

They also snoop and go through your stuff when you are not home looking for evidence or things they can use against you in the future

[anamaria]

they're able to hold lifetime grudges and belittling memories of others

[drvee]

My favorite line about a Narcissist I read...." They will give you the shirt off their back. They'll just make sure everyone is looking when they do it. "

[MisterMusic]

It took me about 30 seconds of listening to this video 2 acknowledge how awesome being happily single is.

[adougher]

It sounds like the narcissist constantly searches for ATTENTION, ATTENTION,

[rnupnorthbrrrsm]

I wish I would have known about all this 40 yrs ago, would have saved me a lot of pain and the destruction of my soul !!!!

[stuartr]

Drink, do drugs, send nasty texts, over eat, watch porn, send messages on dating apps, play out hero/ victim fantasies in their minds… never a dull moment for miserable narcissists 😢

[TruthSeeking]

Oh oh oh ✋, I know what they’re not doing …self reflection.

[Bibleinformationandhelp]

Being a narcissist seems like a "full-time" job. Seems to be very emotionally draining. Torment.

[marinelalarsen]

Covert narcissist is the worst of all. Everything what's said in this video they will do on covert way. They will search for supply but not openly, so it will not look like they are searching for it. Usually they look like innocent, sweet, little victims.

[JohnSmith-wons]

Excessive shopping, not paying their bills cos theyve no money left. Creating chaos they somehow arent at fault for. 🤯

[maxinedavieds]

Totally accurate on all points! You can’t even gently disagree with them! It’s always NO, you’re wrong, I’m right. The manipulation and scheming, conniving is unbelievable.,

[rashkehof]

It's sad that narcissists when they were very young, never got the chance to properly grow and develop their emotional abilities; they will always be a (sometimes very mean) toddler in a grown body...

[carolentringer]

1. Self admiration
2.social media
3. Plan and scheme
4. ruminating
5. Triangulating
6. reckless behavior
7. Hoovering
7. Not facing reality- maintain delusional fantasies

[Bibleinformationandhelp]

Criticism can be like acid to some narcissists.

[ddoperations]

Just ignore them at all costs. Drive them insane. 😂

[mariobryant]

Snooping around your things and social media are a given. They’re stalk your post and pics and find something to bash you on.

[MARGO-zeer]

planning the chaos, destruction & character-smearing of their target ... who is an innocent victim of their insane jealousy & ill-placed hatred.

[juanderuano]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[kendogrimrick]

Wow! This video completely describes my last girlfriend! I caught her cheating, and confronted her, told her I was leaving... She then waited about 20 minutes, went to her room and called the police. She told them that I threatened her with an axe, and shoved her. (completely made up, I don't even own an axe). They took her word and arrested me for Domestic Battery and Assault with a deadly weapon. The assault charge was dropped, no evidence, but I spent three weeks in jail, and now have 2 years of probation. Nothing I could do... she even wrote a statement that she lied, the State picked it up and charged me anyway. My reputation is ruined, cannot find a place to rent or a job now, as my name and charges were printed in the local newspaper. Be very careful with these people! They can be evil!