How To Stop Being Insecure

Do you find yourself feeling insecure at times?

Insecurity can be a major roadblock in our lives and it can hold us back from achieving our goals. In this video, I share four tips for how to stop being insecure and start living a more confident life!

[samuelvance]

So true. The confident people own their securities. Self improvement should be a lifetime thing.

[Emvevo]

Exactly... Everyone has insecurity until you meet that partner that will trigger your insecurity, you won't know you have it.

[cgortz]

"No, not arrogant, but sure of himself." Well said! A lot of men don't realize how arrogant they act.

I'm thankful my guy is confident without being arrogant.

[krishnLve]

I am a 19-year-old boy who was very popular among girls in my school days. My family members, friends, and girls all praised me for my well-defined face, smooth brown skin, handsomeness, and personality, even though I was skinny as f. I was beautiful and confident.
But
1.5 years ago, I got into kpop stuff, and since then, I've started losing confidence. I've become more insecure about my looks, and those fake beauty standards of the K-pop idols and their abusive, toxic fans have made me feel like trash.

The real insecure ones are those K-pop idols and their beauty standards.

Now that I've stopped getting along with K-pop things, I feel like I've become more confident and attractive. I get attention from girls like I used to in my school days. I am happy.

Insecurities are like viruses; they are contagious. If you want to find the beauty inside you, first stay away from those fake people and their beauty standards. Believe in yourself.

And the most important thing is that your insecurities are what make you different from others and distinguishable; be proud of that and make those insecurities your own beauty trait, style, standard, and the true you.

You're not ugly; you just lack confidence.

[yuqis_confirmed_wife]

Just be confident and be yourself, if you know you can't change you're insecurity, accept it!! You'll realize how lucky you are.

[t_beezy]

Agreed jus gotta work on them, won’t be easy, but anything that’s great not easy to accomplish

[Introvertedalpha]

It's helpful to remember that everyone has insecurities. Love the advice to own it, and not let it define you!

[heros_harpik]

Working on it, brah I can't work on weird ass hairline

[quckwbft]

Here's a step, I'm going from my face down my body which my mind I opening back up bc I LOVEEE MY FRIZZY HAIR AND MY ACNE! Then my eyes, nose, etc! And work down your body, dw ignore everyone else who is giving you negative vibes of your body.

[markcollins]

Golden advice. We’re all perfectly imperfect.

[the_phantom_nova]

Let's also make it known that if a girl calls you insecure for asking a question then you should call her single.

If a girl or guy completely avoids the question they have something to hide, they use "Your insecure" to try and throw you off.

[Slidesolos]

It’s not just like oh my face has acne or my nose is too big for me… I have lots of scars from the past and one from personal harm that I can’t ever get over and i can’t stop thinking about how I hate myself so much everyday because of it.

[urfavv_jay]

That's nice 4 people who find it easy to let ur insecurities slide but for me it's hard I get bullied for my colour😔😔

[Jaygeeod]

No longee n i owned it all and its really great ur thst worried about me ty

[luchshiya]

I was having suicidal thoughts but thx for letting me know I can’t change it and I’m ugly and unattractive forever

[Gretsch]

Love the wall painting behind her (you). Did you paint it?

[ILovePencilSharpeners]

Ah shit now I’m insecure about being insecure

[thesmithfamily]

Thank u. That’s really helpful. God bless u. ❤

[bunniemochi]

I’m convinced this is a bait question, literally. No one, and I mean no one who is a girl would want to be tall. I’m 5′9 and that is the low end of the tall spectrum and I’ve hated it with a passion from when I was young. Constant questions and comments of “do you play *insert sport, *” “wow you’re so huge/big/tall, ” “I didn’t expect you to be that tall, ” “you’re shoulders are kinda broad, ” “you’re lanky, ” etc. I fucking hate it. I don’t feel like I’ll ever be cute, dainty, and small. I desperately wish I could be easily picked up and feel small when hugged. I am looked at like a weirdo if I wear lolita (alternative fashion), or if I dress more goth (which I am) I’m looked at like a freak or scary. I only can comfortably wear baggy sweatshirts or sweaters, if I even feel like going outside. Yes, I have been asked to model, but that’s just because the clothes sit right on my body type and my legs. Outside the industry, those standards fade right away. They’re disappearing now because shorter models are desired, and we’ll have nothing that will make us feel slightly better about ourselves. No, you wouldn’t want to be taller, it’s ostracizing and everyone thinks they can say whatever you want to you about it, you can’t express yourself without looking weird like someone average or shorter can. The constant little jabs and rude comments add up and weigh on you every day. Just accept that your height will always be the most desired in society, everywhere.

[Arisbe_obasmoqweef]

You shouldn’t be insecure. God have you this, and if your not thankful, you should not be worthy of this body that you are in.