How To Make My Ex Miss Me Like Crazy

If your question is, "How do I make my ex miss me after they dumped me?" in this video, Coach Lee will show you how to make your ex miss you like crazy during no contact so that they want to come back to you and give your relationship another chance.

In this video, Coach Lee, shows and tells you how you can make your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend miss you like crazy so that they want to get back together with you.

Most people don't realize how important it is in getting an ex back that they actually miss you.

That's why most of the time, when people are dumped, they act in ways that do the opposite of making their ex miss them. They do things that make their ex want to get away from them and stay away.

Here's the real deal:

Your ex has to miss you in order to want to come back to you. By overwhelming your ex with your presence, you repel them and prevent them from wanting to come back (because there's no "room" to come back). That's where no contact can make your ex miss you.

Your ex wouldn't have broken up with you if they wanted more of you. For whatever reason (we can talk about that on a coaching call) their attraction for you dropped. It could have been because you didn't give them any space.

That means that by giving them space now (stopping all contact), you can bring your ex back to you (because they will miss you).

It might seem crazy to give them that freedom because you want to control the situation. That's because you feel you have lost footing. So your first instinct is to try to reclaim control by pulling your ex back toward you.

But that will almost certainly push them away.

You must let your ex experience time without you. They must experience their phone vibrating but the text being from someone else rather than you.

Your ex must experience separation anxiety because you aren't there. IF you don't leave your ex completely alone, you don't allow them to experience this.

Your ex can't know that they don't like the breakup if you don't allow them to truly experience the breakup. If you let them experience the breakup and the consequences, the odds are good that your ex will see that he/she doesn't like it.

This is how you make your ex miss you. Coach Lee discusses this and offers more advanced techniques on coaching calls.

The bottom line is, if you try to force yourself back into your ex's life, you will almost certainly push him/her away. You must respect their wishes and gracefully bow out if you want your ex to miss you and want to get back together with you.

[doublea]

One of my favorite lessons from you is this:
If they feel like they could get you back still, they will not reach out. Only once they think they don't have you anymore will they begin searching for you.

[ajhayes]

4 weeks into NC, A friend of hers decided to break the news that my ex was dating someone. That's her prerogative. Meanwhile, I'm recording music, working extra hours, meeting new people, and finding my smile. Sure it's hard, but it gets easier every day. Coach Lee, these videos have helped me, everyday, to stay strong. Bless you

[eirip]

Six weeks with no contact. She called me the 7th week. No contact does work!

[ryme]

As badly as it hurts disappearing is probably one of the most effective but most painful strategies in life

[Bowman]

My ex reached out on the 28th day. I wasn’t even expecting it but no contact does work! He sent the biggest message about what he’s been up to and asking me if I’m okay. He even thanked me for giving him space to help him reflect and process things.. but guess what? He never even asked for space in the first place! He is now hoping for a chat soon. If anyone is reading this, it might be just a case of them needing a break or taking time to appreciate what they had before. Don’t lose hope :)

[jessteubner]

“If you want them to miss you, you have to go missing”. Best sentence 👍🏻 Hope it will turn out true in my situation but will likely take a while until he might not be in the relief stage anymore (in case that will actually happen)

[sunray]

3 months no contact.. I refuse to reach out thanks to Coach Lee. When times get really hard I listen to these videos! Thank You so much Coach Lee!!! You are a lifesaver

[Satisfyingtoday]

Day 5 of no contact here. The sorrow and anxiety is so bad I couldn’t sleep or eat properly. Up for 56hours crying. Didn’t eat for the first 4 days. Dropped 12lbs, trying to focus on improving myself. She hasn’t reached out at all yet. 8 years of constant texts showing our love, then bam she’s leaving. Big event in her life causing her to cutoff all relations with her parents who had a good relationship all their lives. This sparked the “I need space” move out. I’ve been watching all your videos. Thanks so much. I feel like a stronger person for using no contact but it sure is difficult. The sorrow is really bad.

[nova]

1. No contact rule
2. Give your ex the breakup
3. Dont be dramatic or make things hard on them
4. Dont act fake like you moved on already and post like everything is alright already. No mutual friend help!
5. When they reach out to you, important to not give them you back all at once. Be reserved. Make them earn you back

[starkkiller]

Day 24 in no contact and radio silence. Thank you coach for keeping me accountable with these videos.

[MalitesZA]

Honestly it is a marathon and not a sprint unfortunately. I have been in NC for a year now and never hear from her again but I know she is in a new relationship which was hard at first but I managed to get over it. I have been working on myself and I must say I feel better about myself now and currently I have someone else who appreciates me more. Make yourself feel good about you and do not seek that validation from anyone else is what I learned from all these vids from coach Lee. Some day it will hit them when they least expect it when things go wrong and it goes not how they expected it to go.

[AdamBenamati]

This works. Got her back by not talking to her. She decided to do her own thinking and came back. I didn't stop there. I no longer am the one reaching out. I took control back and am the one making her come to me in this relationship. And for anyone hurt. It does I promise you get better. It took me months but I'm a much better person because of the loneliness and depression I experienced. Work on yourself and you'd be amazed of the things that will happen with or without this person in your life. Thanks coach!

[muhammedusama]

Coach you're literally giving me strength and make me think rational :") 😭

[michaelbooth]

Got my ex back using no contact, we stayed together for 2 weeks and she asked to break up again, this time by text. I said 'ok' as a response. Was just shocked. It was the night before valentines day. She then deleted and removed me on everything. Not sure why, haven't reached out, didn't chase etc. Trying to be classy and not clingy. Moving on but I watch these for strength.

[nateb]

All of us are different. 1 year ago I was cheated on and for some reason I wanted her back. Followed all of coach Lee’s advice, and eventually after a long 6-7 month wait of complete no contact with her…. BOOM still no text or call from her.. In the meantime I’ve been working out, I got a puppy, focusing on reading, podcasts, playing guitar, spending time with my family and furthering my career. I am so grateful to come where I have so far, true happiness comes from within, be somebody that is simple and easy to love as possible as you can. I ended up meeting somebody that is so good for me, doesn’t let me stray from my hobbies or going to the gym, and I return the same to her. Focus on yourself and good things will happen. Do not give up on yourself.

[Frederick]

Coach Lee may be the most relaxed dude on planet earth

[elimars]

Day 38 of no contact....am getting a whole lot stronger each don't think of him that often anymore, n I am starting to feel like I don't need him anymore

[chrissams]

Coach Lee's; a real nice source of logic/sense. My wife had a bit of drama at the start of last year and went her own way... I watched CL's videos, along with working on myself (mind and body) and a few months later my wife was heading home. I followed Lee's perspective on life, became totally chilled, calm, and became the bigger person. It really worked.

[lanideguzmandotcom]

In order to support this channel, also watched the adds. Thank you for the relevant words to be resilient to those who felt unwanted and were feeling down. It's just a matter of time able to get use being appreciative and happy in everything that comes to you, upgrade being you and be the best to feel good. Soon when you can't no longer miss the old self, maybe the criteria finding a good match will no longer be relevant to exes.

[selenaG]

12 years together I thought he was the best person for me now we are separated because of trust issues I’m fighting to do NC it’s so hard I cry sometimes when I remember the memories we shared I miss him so much, it’s not easy but I’m pushing . I’m writing and listening with tears in my eyes . Thank you very much coach Lee