The Woman You Married Is Not Who You Divorced

Are you struggling to come to terms with the fact that the woman you married is not the same person you're now divorcing? This profound realization can lead to an identity crisis, making you question everything about your relationship and personal growth. In this video, we'll explore how understanding archetypes, such as the feminine and masculine frames, can be the key to a mindset shift and personal breakthroughs. Join John Griffin as he shares his insights on how to navigate this challenging journey, and discover the success strategies you need to achieve personal development and self-improvement. Whether you're seeking marriage advice or simply looking for a deeper understanding of yourself and your partner, this video will provide you with the relationship advice and guidance you need to move forward.

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00:00 Why Did You Marry Her?
01:20 The Same Old Stories
04:35 The Disney Archetypal Stories
07:54 The Truth You Need To Hear
11:24 Insecurities Will Ruin You
14:15 Slow and Steady Wins The Race
15:20 Stress Reveals Everything
18:34 Stess Accumulates In Marriage
21:10 Maybe I Married The Wrong Woman?

© John Griffin, Health Coach & Personal Trainer

[wppw]

You don't fall in love with a woman. You fall in love with a vision you have of her. Then over time you wake up to the reality of who she is.

[greener]

Once you take the Red Pill, you see things that you can't unsee.

[plasmaarmelund]

Why do we all have the same experience in marriage and divorce? Simple: female nature is universal.

[davidpbcivil]

You think she's "special". Fast forward after marriage and kids, she thinks she deserves better, because of the attention she gets at work or because of what she thinks other women have. She divorces you. They always do this after you give them what they wanted, and your leverage is gone.

[ENIGMAXII]

Many a years ago, in the past. My father told me that "all women are the same, do'nt think they are different, in the end, they are all the same"..
I did not know what he meant by that...
But I certanly do know now...
And he was right..

[Job.Well.Done_]

Never give them leverage. They will use it 100% of the time - millions of m e n
have learned the hard way.

[texasrancher]

I can speak from experience how fooled a guy can be when a jaw dropping gorgeous woman walks into your life. She was like a goddess to me. Even my friends, both men and women, could not get past her overall loveliness. I had just recently lost my mom to cancer and two other family members passed plus longtime friends. My dad then passed less than a year later. The grief was awful and I had so much farm and ranch work to deal with. Couldn't take much time off. Thought this lovely gal would be loving and understanding about the grief. Instead, it was like expecting empathy and compassion from a cold, brick wall. It was so difficult to understand how someone so beautiful and who speaks so softly and feminine could be so mean. The brain had a hard time accepting this as fact.

When she wanted and needed my help and compassion, I was there for her in every way possible. But when the shoe was on the other foot, it became apparent real quick that it was not a two way street. There would be no or very little compassion or interest on her part. It was as though this beautiful woman was questioning what was in it for her. Why should she care at all for anyone or anything that wasn't all about her? Thankful I didn't stay blinded and put a ring on it. Some people are actually actors in real life. They just don't advertise or list it as a profession. That was a hard truth to accept.

[lscmaro]

Men marry women assuming she'll never change.
Women marry men assuming she can change him.

[Madosatoshist]

"If you want to help someone, you tell them the truth. If you want someone to like you, you tell them what they want to hear."

Wise words.

[timizo]

I overlooked so many character flaws in my ex wife. She was someone who made life much more stressful. I work in law enforcement. I see and deal with the worst things in society. It got to the point where going to work was less stressful than being home . Having children was also a huge stressor. We were opposite with how we raised our son. Honestly if she hadn’t cheated and divorced me, she probably would have ended up killing me with the endless stress.

[MrBBaron]

We men marry the cute little puppy. Then we men divorced a raging werewolf.

[rattington]

I thought I was marrying a shy, hard working, family oriented woman that had a tough past of abuse and was just looking for someone to believe in her. I'm about to divorce a social media addicted narcissist who sees enemies everywhere and abuses her son and husband while forcing them to watch her treat strangers and coworkers like gold. Nearly 20 years of marriage, most of it spent watching this woman destroy any happy occasion out of jealousy or need for drama. I have no idea who this person is any more.

[billthebutcher]

Finally, a video on YouTube WORTH WATCHING.

[jakesdekker]

The first time you will truly know who your wife is, is the day you see her in divorce court.

[andrewgrove]

John Griffin for the win again!!💯💯 accurate. You will never know your wife until you see her in divorce court and the woman you marry will never be the women you are married to.

[biggertrees]

Strange, the way you started the video remind me of a conversation I had with a female friend who recently divorced her husband. I'm the second month in on my separation and so she wants to talk. I invited her over and the conversation began. She would ask the questions and I would answer. As she was about to leave she asked if I had talked to her husband. Truth is I've never met him. I asked her why and she replied " Everything you told me is what he said of me, it's like you were prepared for all my questions." She finished off my say "I now wonder if I made the right decision." I appreciate your videos John Thank you.

[ryanpoll]

I dont think women necessarily change, they just understand that they have more leverage over the man the longer shes with him.

[Daire-xr]

There's something interesting about most of these stories when a man gets the princess - "they lived happily ever after." He got her and now he can be at peace because she now loves him forever. Unfortunately, he doesn't know there will be a sequel to the movie.

[stevenc]

Trust your gut. Always. It’s never ever wrong. Have courage to leave early and often. Don’t come back.

[PhilipTikka]

I would say, “the woman you thought you married is not the woman you married”… divorce comes much later.