How to Get Dates from Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Etc.

📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
00:35 - The algorithm
03:24 - Iterating
05:48 - Photos
08:35 - Apps
11:00 - Your bio
13:40 - Standing out
15:05 - Texting
16:00 - Bad habits
18:00 - Should you pay for dating apps?
19:40 - Setting up the date
22:20 - Do you have a plan?
24:24 - Consistency
26:50 - Playing to win

#ToddVDating #Dates #OnlineGame

[jvyeknom]

Does anyone else get exhausted just thinking about having to do all this stuff just to try and get one match? 😂

[danbee]

There's something genuinely insane in our society if we have to battle algorithims to meet people. It feels massively fucked up.

[Paul-ykds]

Todd, if you can manage it, I think the most powerful form of content you could release about online dating would be case studies of guys who are not conventionally good-looking, but by implementing your advice, they start getting results. That could really help give some guys hope that it could actually work for them, despite the fact that it hasn't yet.

[ernestbuckley]

Guys, if a woman truly likes you, it’ll be easy. She will respond to your texts immediately, she will want to spend time with you, get to know you, etc… you will not have to spend $ on her or put on an act. If she plays hard to get, don’t play, just move on. Know your worth.

[iAMAM]

Everyone knows how to get dates on dating apps. If you're male: Be attractive or rich. If your female: Log in.

[derekrequiem]

I'm 6 minutes through the video and I'm already exhausted 😂 I'm gonna have to take a break and continue this tomorrow

[painexotic]

As an attractive guy who gets alot of likes, bio doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is your looks and how well you take photos. Tinder is all looks and aesthetics. You could literally only have "lol" as you bio and you'd still get a ton of matches if you're attractive with good photos. So the best way to get more matches is by hitting the gym and "looksmaxxing". Get a haircut that suites your face, get a solid skincare routine, wear lifts if you're on the shorter side. Do all that and take good pics and you'll instantly start getting more likes, matches, and dates.

[jasonrocksvegas]

Problem I found that 95% of matches wont reply. Scammers always do.

[Harold-fcli]

Been on Tinder and Bumble for several months, with a grand total of one match that was a real person.

[alexanderwindh]

In my experience. The more complicated it is to get the girl out-the worse she is.

The best women I've ever met have been very receptive. Good communicators and easy to get out. In other words: no texting technique or micro steps.

Just ask.

Stop wasting time on the other ones.

[fuzzypanda]

I've been on dating apps since almost their inception. I had some pretty good results in the beginning, when the apps were fairly new, but very quickly my results tanked until eventually, it was taking me an average of one month to get a date, and that's spending an average of an hour a day between 4 or 5 apps. So 30ish hours for one date. One date that would stand me up, cancel on me, or just say "sorry, I'm actually not interested in meeting you" more often than not.

I deleted and made new accounts many times, constantly swapped out photos, changed bios, changed locations etc. Nothing helped. It felt like looking for a job prior to the 2008 collapse vs after. When the apps were new, it was like pre 2008, just throw a resume in any direction and someone's gonna call you and offer you a job. After 2008...you're sending out resumes after resume for days, weeks and months without a single reply.

I honestly don't know how guys get any matches, let alone replies, let alone dates, let alone dates that actually show up on dating apps these days.

[ZarinaMedia]

As a woman let me share my opinion and I'm sure it will help someone.
So if you are a man on a dating app,
1. Use different nice photos. Close up to show your face, smile. Full-size photo to show your height etc. Don't use group photos, or photos with other women or children. Especially if they are not yours. It gives us the wrong impression about you.
2. If you have advantages, show them. Mention of you have a great job, 6 packs etc. Especially if you are not handsome, you need to use other things to impress at once. No need to hide your talents etc.
3. It's better to be certain. Mention what you want - marriage, hookup etc. Rather than “I'm figuring out my goals”.
4. Put some effort into your bio.
5. Do text first. Be active. Initiate a call and meet up.
6. Be nice and polite.

Good luck!

[jjberg]

I have to get over the fact that the whole online dating experience for guys is a whole "dance, monkey, DANCE" thing. I don't want to change anything for the matriarchy. Though sticking to my principles will only lead to a life of abject loneliness. What a time to be alive.

[datra]

I had much better success when on-line dating was new. As I got older and less good looking, the fewer results I had. I no longer bother; it just takes too much time and effort for the results.

[bakionigeri]

Todd seems to be the only dating coach left, who doesn't inject christianity, or high vibration meditation energy, or just straight up anger. Todd teaches how to actually get the girl

[johnnybravo]

I like what Todd told about consistency and swiping while doing other things.

[TIMG]

Blimey!!!! Feeling SO overwhelmed now. I though I was going to do ok but now feel like giving up.

[yywmcqb]

As a female who started using Tinder a few months ago. . . Bio's are VERY important unless you are a super hottie! And if you want to receive a reply to your first message, do not say "Hi. How are you?". . Or "Wow! You are gorgeous"

[krizo]

One of Todd's videos on this a couple years ago was the tipping point that took me from rarely matching with unattractive girls to regularly matching and dating girls I was attracted to and saw potential in.

Getting married this year.

He's worth listening to on this stuff.

[chrstaki]

Todd still delivering 💎s from an CIA interrogation room