Why Men Want Multiple Wives: She's Too Fat? Vid 03

There are two main reasons that men want to practice polygyny;
1. The reason(s) have NOTHING to do with his current wife/wives
OR
2. He feels there is a lack of fulfillment

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[aisham]

"Physical Fitness Matters"! I think men want women to be fit more than they are, because when men gain weight, women are not too concerned. They're thinking "ain't no women gonna want them looking like that"! Think again women, some women love "dad bods"! 🏋️🧘 "Everyone needs to work on themselves physically" Men and Women! May الله help us all! اللهم امين 🤸‍♀️🏋️‍♀️

[BlackLion]

Fit, friendly, feminine, submissive.

Those were Kevin's main points.

Physical fitness matters

[victoriasigal]

Idk I love men with abs and a cute face with nice hair. Idc what you say I love to look at a nice looking man and is a requirement for me and that’s one reason why I choose to take such good care of myself.

[jasenomade]

Ouch, but true... Physical fitness matters

[felicial.]

I appreciate the honesty, Physical fitness matters...Being smaller helps to attract more suiters for sure...However personal preference matters too, Lizzo isnt for everyone but neither is Cardi B or Beyonce...some men want full figured women, that's what they are into. You have to know the man that you're with, if you met him small chances are you need to keep your weight down and keep him interested, if you met him big and he's into bigger women, doesn't mean you don't need to be fit, doesn't mean you don't need to focus on being healthy, but may very well mean he's not interested in somebody who's smaller...Know the man that you're with but also always put your health first no matter what his preferences are, and that's not just physical fitness, that's being financially fit, emotionally fit and spiritually fit without a man so with him you are whole and without him you are whole and being whole will help you to be a partner in every way.

We also have to stop assuming that small means healthy because it absolutely does not. There are a lot of small women who don't have half the stamina that Lizzo has either, so maybe focus more on a person's health overall than just if they're big or small because there's a lot of small people who are seriously unhealthy.

[Marwa-]

Salam alykom coach Nazir
I have a question pleaze.
Do men accept women who had earlier seriuos surgery like kidney transplantation or heart surgery, knowing that the women is so fit now?

[glynisrobertson]

Maybe the husband is fat and his wife is no longer attracted to him sexually and she doesn’t want to intimate with him. Could this cause the husband to seek another wife?