Why Men Want Multiple Wives: ANSWERED Vid 01

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Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla 13 years ago and their polygynous journey began.

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[GiftsAndGratitude]

“…Not my fault…”

I used to be staunchly against polygyny, but the more I learn and the older I get, the more I see it as not such a bad thing anymore. The maturity and willingness of all parties involved makes the difference between comfort and community versus conflict and chaos. Besides, if a man has got to have one of us and we want him, it’s GOT TO BE under the conditions of honor, decency and faith…or not at all.

[NIMa]

I never "wanted" multiple wives. Multiple women have been approaching Me since 3rd grade. My Mother (MIM) told Me I didnt have to devalue one woman to value another. She told Me not to lie. She and My co Mother both had this conversation with Me. My uncle told Me He loved all his wives He just loved them differently for different reasons and sex did not predominate. Thankfully I was never shamed into Judeo Christian guilt and "the main woman" concepts

[FuerstenbergE]

I am a man, and I just have a strong desire for more!
More variety, more love, more children, more of a legacy

[zakariyyamccullin]

I’ll be blunt, I want more variety. I’ll do it in an honorable way no matter what. Thanks for the video! Gives me hope!

[Kimkungfuy]

Thank you for saying it. I wish more husbands would be honest with their wives. Just tell me up front that I'm not enough for you. Instead of this contradictory message of "Oh you're enough for me, I just need *more* than you." Mothers should teach their daughters to be much more pragmatic about marriage, and to think about it as the business and survival tactic that it is. Instead naively falling deep in love with a man and making him your world to end up with a bruised heart and crying over his actions, you should assess him for what type of lifestyle he can provide, and maintain impenetrable boundaries around your heart. Give him your body, but keep your heart to spare yourself from the pain. The only ones who should be able to access the depths of your heart should be the children you birth, because they'll only ever have one mother.

[simonebrown]

Greed greed greed !! No matter how you give men they will never be satisfied ..

[naa]

Getting a better understanding but still variety is crazy 😅

[fahadabdul]

Line up a 100 women and ask them do u prefer to be with one solid man or more? Most if not all will say 1!!! Line up 100 men do u prefer having 1woman or more? Most if not all will say they prefer more than 1. Thats the reality.

[TN-kglv]

Order of precedence for me
1) Variety
2) Children (if you're able to raise them religious insha Allah, subhan Allah imagine the sadaqatul jariyah)
3) Empire

[gwendolynnorton]

This one is VERY easy. WE ALL men and women alike, have desires that come from the creator and desires that come from the father of lies. How do you know the difference? By their fruit you shall know them. Polygamy has 0% good fruit. Rotten fruit all over the place. There’s your answer

[muhjm]

Abraham had three wives, David had four wives and God said if he wanted more he would have given him more, Jacob had four wives, Solomon had seven thousand and many other women, people need to read their Bible if they believe in it. God approved this arrangement. Why they don’t condemned God and the prophets in the Bible.

[fransvanriessen]

What does it make sense? We are living in the end times and last days and most women have been covid vaccinated

[MichaelEllisYT]

To build a multigenerational kingdom and leave a lasting legacy that will change the world for the better.

[mziane]

What are the advantages of a woman in polygyny ?

[TheBlackGentlemanGeek]

Ma sha' Allah brother! Good explanation. Also to the sister, because men are not the same as women, this means your understanding of love cannot be imposed on men. The biggest mistake that women do is that they project the fact that women can only love 1 man, on men; or that we should be "in touch" with our emotions, but then get angry that men don't act according to their projection. They have a hard time understanding that men can love multiple women at once. And... we can! Basically, women project their female nature on men, and they don't even know it.

Then they use the excuse of "But if he has multiple wives, he's bound to love 1 more than the other...". Let me burst your bubble ladies, YOU think like that as a female, as men we don't. We can love all of you together without problem.

It's amazing how women have little knowledge of their female nature and how they project it on men, which leads to them believing that men should think like them; it's unbelievable... "If I can't do it, why should he...?" And that's where their disappointment comes from, when it comes to men's behaviour.

Keep up the good work guys, spread the message, wa Barakallahu feekum.

[victoriasigal]

Idk I felt like I wanted two husbands before, yet I don’t think it is completely desirable because most likely there will always be one person you like more. So if people in general find a partner who has everything you need and want, then you could stick to one partner. That’s my honest view. Idc what you say. I want multiple husbands so explain this?

[frencheleerving]

How can it work ? Man in a home a women feels safe ! How does these women feel safe when a man is back and forth from homes .

[Marwadear]

Great topic thank you. I just wish I could understand what actually happens in men’s minds.

[mziane]

Thanks for your honesty coach Nazir. Although man are polygamous by nature, they can’t take multiple wives in Islam. If for instance they can’t provide for each one of them. So if polygyny was inevitable, why would it be a privilege for the wealthiest ? Also, what are the benefits of a woman in polygyny ? Because it’s a hard for a woman to feel that she is just ”one among many”, just “another woman”.

[aasalaam]

I want to become more, it has to do with legacy