Hidden Signs Of Manipulation

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[leslie-annepepin]

Absolutely bang on. My first husband did EXACTLY all 6! Took me 9 years, but I finally got out. Now celebrating 42 years with a wonderful man, 2 beautiful daughters and 9 amazing grandkids!

[youknow]

You don’t see it until the damage is done. thank you Dr Julie.

[MrShromer]

All of this is absolutely true. I endured 30 years of this. In the end I was penniless and alone. But once I got out, everything got better, like that was the way it was meant to be all along. Don't let yourself feel trapped. Believe in yourself above all else!

[akshayaramachandran]

I was exactly in such a relationship. He cut me off totally from outside perspective so that I cannot leave him. He used to compare me with someone else to break my confidence. When we fight, he acts to hurt himself and make me feel guilty for it. When I thought of leaving him, he cried and told that I am his whole world.
It was a lot of emotional turmoil during these 4 yrs. Finally, when I broke free, I felt the world was mine again to explore. He came back in between telling he is in depression because I left him. I felt guilty but never went back.
Now I am married to another person who is wonderfully supportive and with him beside, I am reaching great heights in my career and personal life. I have never been happier.
Love to all those who are going through this. ❤

[DocSnipes]

I completely agree with all these. I think Keeping the Score is another way of manipulation. When they are holding past mistakes over your head, even after you've apologized, to guilt you into doing what they want.

[danbrooks]

7. They get rid of their own support system, alienating their own friends and family, so that you're all they have left. So if you leave, you feel guilty.

[liraguerrero]

This has been happening in my life. My heart says one thing, and my mind another. It's time for breaking free!Thank you🙏

[maniizz]

All of them!! So true...wish these videos were available 20 years ago😢

[BonesofStarlight]

Listen to me. As a survivor myself. They will NOT change and you DO deserve love and you DO deserve better. I know how hard it can be to accept that and to immediately think "no, not me" and I know how deep your pain runs if that's your first thought when seeing this. Keep going, keep fighting, and keep your distance from those who would treat you the way Dr. Julie is speaking of.

[maddi-ni]

i can’t relate to these but my heart hurts for those that go through this ❤

[vickimcburney]

So true. Take some time to rest, breathe, connect to your feelings and your loved ones, and follow your gut.

[ashnishah]

So on point. I experienced each one of this in a narcissistically abusive close friendship. Took me very long but I could finally leave and went no contact.

I appreciate this. I am proud of my courage.
I now help other survivors of abuse heal and it's the best thing ever❤

[AkuSihManusia]

Dr Julie I like your psychology content. I am 14 years old and come from Indonesia. Finding psychology content like yours is a bit difficult here. I learned a lot from you. I hope I can become a great psychologist who helps many people like you.

Thank you very much dr Julie.

[carmentututa]

OMG, hi did all this things, I was a mess, every cell în my body was sick because of The fear and all that sh*t he served me. 13 years of pain. But now I have a beautiful relationship, found the love of my life. I am almost healed, I am stronger that I've ever was, and I thank universe for every day I live. Thanks for sharing this ❤

[kristina]

Yes, I'm going through this. I don't fall for the lies anymore but I have 0 options now.
I left once (with a small child too) and basically the only people who I have to help me told me I should go back and "as long as he's not hitting me I shouldn't be dramatic". And now I'm completely out of options. But I stay positive. One day I too will be free. Along with my baby as well.

[kierlak]

Great video. But the saddest part is that often people end up in this sort of abusive relationships and think that it's normal 😔

[mirabel]

Thank you, I hope some one who needs this sees it and start thinking. And leave before its too late

[brendajones]

No 4.financal abuse. That was new to me.

[gjinkalla]

So accurate. I would like to share as someone who has been in that situation, don't loose to much time understanding it on an intellectual level, it doesn't make sense that's why it is abuse, emotional one. Spent that time to plan the exit plan and be careful with whom you share your experience, thank God we have virtual friends who open our eyes. I was surrounded by not good people and confesing to them would be determinant to prolong my escape. Choose you❤ trust you and feel you in your own body. How you feel is how it is!!!! Don't be fooled by words, outside fakeness. Stay safe❤