10 Signs of a Master Manipulator

Do you marvel at how some people are always able to get their way? These are people who have extremely high manipulative tendencies. The reason they are hard to identify is that they employ rather innocent tactics. However, any innocent act when used with ill intent turns into a tool for manipulation.

DISCLAIMER: Please note this is for educational purposes. If you find yourself relating to one, two, or any of the following signs, it doesn’t automatically classify you as a master manipulator. Please note this is not meant to discredit anyone. This video is not a substitute for professional advice or self-diagnosis. We advise you to seek professional help if you can relate to any disorders mentioned.

Writer: Ria Parikh
Script Editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Aury
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References
DiValentino A (2017, Sept. 27). “6 Ways You’re Being Manipulative Without Even Knowing It”. Greatist. Retrieved from
Garis MG (2019, Oct. 07). “3 Ways to Spot the Under-the-Radar Manipulative People in Your Life”. Well + Good. Relationship tips. Retrieved from
Johnson EB (2020, Aug. 05). “The common tactics of master manipulators”. Medium. Retrieved from

[ComicalRealm]

"The true manipulator never has a reputation for manipulating" - Gill Bates

[hunterkiller]

Sounds like master manipulators would fit the role of bosses very well.

[basiamarszalek]

The silent treatment, being unable to say no to them or talking in circles are the most common signs I’ve experienced! They’re so painfully obvious, and yet so effective - these videos are extremely helpful with recognizing these manipulation tactics! Thank you!

[PinaCoco]

I used to speak my mind in the heat of the moment in most times just to quickly regret doing so.
Now I tend to do the "Silent treatment" not because I want to be passive aggressive but I don't want to speek before I think about it.
Great video!

[HaloJumper]

First sign:
His name is Light Yagami/Kira.

[k.b.]

From what I've noticed in real life, master manipulative people have a few very common traits :
1. Never say what they really think, they only say what they know you would like to hear
2. They come across as kind and good intentioned (it is the mask they wear)
3. They never get visibly angry and never argue directly

Master manipulators never show signs of ill intentions, this is what makes it even more insidious.

[SumiB]

I just saved myself from a 6 year intimate relationship with a MM. When I ended it, he told me he thought it was a great decision that I was ‘taking control of my life’. And, hoped we could still be friends. He always said we could talk about anything, that I could ask anything but we never did. This was so accurate on all 10 signs!

[budpzdd]

There's tons of people out here that are so thankful for this channel.. it's changing lives everyday. The insight to apply what is said to our daily lives is simply remarkable. Thank all of you who put your time and effort into this. Your amazing..thank you so much

[Muzanwithwings]

In short, if they act like Rashta, they're a God at manipulating.

From: The Remarried Empress

[Juggernautfitnes]

Manipulation is easy, the hard part is being a good person and not do it even though you know damn well it would save you problems.

[marzd]

Sometimes I come here just to listen to your voice 😂 it’s so warm and comforting. Thank you.

[Cera_ve]

Thank you Psych2go, this video was really helpful for me. I dated a diagnosed sociopath. He would always dodge my important questions about him, and always ignored me when i stated things i would like from him in the relationship, like communication, and i see that it was a sign of how he was very manipulative. He would even make me question my own beliefs and morals. Now i understand more.

[Nelrith]

I spent the last 8 years of my life believing I was manipulative, when in actuality I was gaslit by a narcissist into believing so. Nearly this entire video resonates with what I believe about myself, except that I wear my flaws on my sleeve and am VERY quick to apologize. I'm starting to feel this entire thing finally unravel itself backwards, and I can't even begin to describe how better off I am.

[Silencio]

I would like to point out that the act of ignoring someone is not always manipulative. If someone is verbally abusing you and you didn't do anything to antagonize them, then ignoring that person actually is a reasonable response to verbal abuse. On the other hand, if you did something to antagonize the person and then ignore their response to it, preventing them from healthy resolution of their feelings, then yes, that's manipulative abuse.

[Josef_]

These are great tips! I’ve been trying to become a better manipulator, and this video has been a big help. Great stuff!

[Beanz]

True manipulators don’t get caught for being a manipulator

If you find someone who is truly manipulating you (on purpose) they most likely wanted you to know.

[jessirrr]

Whoever is the animator, narrator, the people who run down this channel, etc. please know that ilyall <3

[prettyboylover]

Is- is that Rashta in the thumbnail or am I just imagining it? That's so fitting, I don't hate her but she definitely is a manipulator. I love this channel so much!
Edit: What I meant was I hate her actions not her as a person, though I'm starting to.With her past I can't blame her wanting to keep the safety she has, but her actions are still inexcusable. Sovieshu though-
Edit: 1K?! I'm famous now, hehe
Edit: 1.9K?? Jeez you all are inflating my non existent ego, ah thanks for the heart!

[Hiveatel]

The simple thing to do is to treat everyone based on how they act. Because at the end of the day, we'll never really know whether they were truly manipulative, or it's just their personality. So we act based on how they act. That way we won't make a mistake. We won't mistreat them. We won't hurt anyone. And we won't hurt ourselves either. That's the best way to resolve anything. Respond properly, correctly, and not overdo it.

[Dave]

The intro is a great way of manipulating viewers into subscribing. What a great example!