How I Became Confident (My Advice)

Confidence is a broad topic and something I could talk about for hours. In this video, I share some of my experience on confidence and some of the "methods" I use to keep myself balanced. Let me know if you would like a part two.

Confidence, how to be confident, how to become confident, why confidence is important

[myanis]

We become confident by doing things we are not confident with.

[amaltaher]

“Confidence is not saying ‘I know they will like me.’ It’s saying ‘I’ll be fine even if they don’t.” -Christina Grimmie (RIP)

[sabermaster]

"There is no growth in your comfort zone" Extremely powerful words right there.

[raneem]

How to be confident:
1- Evaluate your weaknesses and strengths. (Be honest with yourself)
2- Work hard on yourself (invest in yourself)
3- find comfort in discomfort (if you don't try you're not gonna get better at anything which leads to being unconfident)
4- acceptance (take responsibility for your actions as it is+ give yourself credit)

[teaandburitos]

Deleting social media helps especially instagram in my opinion. I've felt so much better since deleting it

[jedemesa]

"The act of confidence comes first, the feel of confidence comes later"

[coreytoomey]

Confidence is gained as you get older. You learn more about yourself and what you’re meant to do. You become okay with your shortcomings and weaknesses because they show you what your strengths are.

[Charlie-xikq]

1-self honesty
2-work hard
3-seeking discomfort (yes theory)
4-acceptence (realistic, basicly step 1)
(5-for me don t try to be something that you are not)

[miggs]

Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, failing is learning and since you are the master of your mind, as another Swedish YouTuber has said: "People can't shame you if you can't feel shame."

[Daisyflower]

What helped me a lot personally was to not base my confidence on any achievements at all, and to know that every human has as much worth as one another, even people in a vegetable state. In the end it's not that important what other people believe about you, but what you believe about yourself. It's important to love yourself, exactly as you are, and not try to be someone else to please others.

[repetitiveaffirmations]

*“Always be yourself and have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and try to duplicate it.” -Bruce Lee*

[dmb]

Lana, you're lucky you were confident as a child. To me, that's the main issue with insecurity: if you grow up in a toxic family, chances are you will not feel confident through life. Upbringing tells so much about we as human beings.

[OnlineLifeGuide]

5 Major Lessons I learned about Confidence through my life experiences:

1 - Even if you have nothing but you have confidence in yourself, you'll stand out of the crowd, earn respect and get ahead in life.

2 - Jealousy and insecurity from other people's progress is a sign of lack of self-confidence.

3 - There's a thin line between confidence and arrogance. The wise ones know the difference between confidence and arrogance. They catch themselves immediately if they find they're going towards the wrong side.

4 - Confidence doesn't require certainty. It's the knowing that you'll accept and handle whatever comes your way.
Many people's confidence relies too much upon how well and smooth things are going, their confidence relies upon certainty. But when they lose that certainty or when life's not going that smooth, their confidence suffers as well.

5 - It's important to base the foundation of your confidence on higher purpose and meaning, rather than temporary, superficial things.

[TheIntriguePost]

self-esteem is an internal feeling, confidence is its outer manifestation. They are really the two sides of the same coin.

[R.SaGaR.]

We loose confidence when we start comparing ours life with other. Every one has positive phrase of their life sooner or later jst wait for it. Positive mindset is first step toward confidence.

[MayasMission]

This is your sign, you are exactly where you need to be! Confidence is a journey, be patient ✨

[microwaveengineer]

If you measure your confidence with external standards such as your looks or clothes you will never be truly confident. Because there is no end to the list of things that could always be better. The very idea implies comparing yourself to other peoples standards. There will always be a cooler outfit, a straighter nose or a nicer body. But chasing that will always leave you empty handed once you do.
Real confidence has to come from within and be unconditional. You have to be able to walk outside looking like shit but feeling great. It's called SELF confidence because it has to come from you but not other people or their validation.

[arpankanungo]

"Its not I am and I can, I need to actually be and do"
So true. loved it.

[ossen]

Confidence stacks up over time, through different achievements and accomplishments.
The earned credibility in specific areas of your life boost your confidence in others, you know that you are competent.

[yatharthpandey]

Being consistent in your work makes you confident