This Stops 95% Of PEOPLE PLEASERS From Being Confident

People pleasing isn't nice... It's FAKE! This video will teach you how to cure the disease to please.

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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This Stops 95% Of PEOPLE PLEASERS From Being Confident

Stop people pleasing! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) exposes the disease to please... Discover how to be real and how to be authentic!

#authenticity #bereal #peoplepleaser

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[JulienHimself]

Comment your biggest takeaway below! (I personally read through EVERY single comment)

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[davidthomasla]

“People like fakeness more than authenticity. But they will never love fakeness. And fakeness will destroy you inside.” This pretty much summed up my life experience. Needed to hear it.

[Gloriaglo]

Imagine having a communications teacher like Julien in college to help with presentations, and class speeches in front of your whole class that would be awesome.

[derhaas]

impressive how the guys body language changed after he spoke out and was honest. he looked up a lot more and fidgeted less with his arms

[pewcfpv]

My new therapist made me realize that I'm a people pleaser. I already knew that I had severe anxiety for other things but she pointed out that trying to please everyone has been adding to my anxiety. Thanks for your work!

[comicnerd]

I'm a nice guy bcoz I'm very polite and respectful with everyone. But I'm not a people pleaser as I'm very comfortable in my own skin. I always mind my own business and I don't seek others approval to make myself feel better.

So my point is, you can still be a nice guy without being a people pleaser. Be nice, but also set your boundaries at the same time.

[tifikoLoco]

Thanks for your work, Julien! I'm tired of being a people pleaser and always struggling to have my family and friend's approval. I opened up about this to my closest friend and he told me the same thing as you: I don't need to chase people's approval, first love and say to myself that I'm good enough.

[tonywright]

This guy has thrown all other self help and phycology out the door. For me anyway. Keep doing what you do, our world is screaming for realness.🌟

[cfalcon]

The day you are liked by everyone is the day you are the most fake person alive.

This is the best part...

[waveexistence]

I get the most intense anxiety when he calls people out 😅 💀 I’d probably pass out if that was me.

[awawaw]

Thank you Julien. I've never seen anyone tackle anxiety, insecurity and especially AUTHENTICITY the way you do. Your voice is one that is more needed than ever in this world.

[jaynewoffenden]

"We are all equal, but we are all different " WORD !

[dameanvil]

00:00 🚪 Create a safe space to drop the facade and be authentic.
01:35 🎭 De-validate the fake front and embrace realness.
04:47 💡 Trying to maintain a perfect facade creates anxiety and pressure.
07:47 💔 Authenticity may repel some, but it's crucial for self-fulfillment.
10:21 🤥 Seeking universal approval leads to a fake persona.
12:24 💎 Authenticity is valued because it's rare in a world of fakeness.
16:30 🧒 Honor your inner child and prioritize self-validation over pleasing others.
18:30 🔄 Redefine "cool" as authenticity, owning everything about yourself.
20:40 🙅‍♂ Don't shy away from uncomfortable truths about your past experiences.
22:34 🎭 Validate authenticity, even if it means revealing insecurities or vulnerabilities.
24:14 😌 Acknowledging and owning your truths can alleviate anxiety and lighten your emotional load.
25:18 🤔 Practice social intelligence by discerning when and how to share personal truths appropriately.

[vikingvisigoth]

Being Loud Obnoxious and opinionated has got me into a lot of trouble in the past. I used to be worried about everything, everyone and have reached the point to where I don't care anymore and it feels wonderful.

[joleedaae]

I learned this the hard way with a job. I do awesome
at interviews. Got the job. I went in the first day and put my “best foot forward.” Every one was like….. she is AMAZING! Then when I finally showed my regular daily self …everyone thought something was wrong with me. They thought I was sick or something. It actually sabotaged my job. My next job, I purposely was rather bland in my interview. My first few days, I just acted like my average self. Then when I did something cool… everyone was pleasantly surprised but didn’t hold me to an impossible standard.

[jessicapinto]

For me helping to be me is to accept that I myself must also stop judging others just like I fear they will judge me.
Also, who are afraid of authentic people? Narcissists. Who love to controle people pleasers? Narcissists.

[Ja_Skulli]

With children nowadays, we need seminars in the schools or as events for the kids to hear this.

As a 17-year old senior at a high school, I’ve certainly dealt with/ am still dealing with these kinds of issues.

[JBDuncan]

I definitely see myself in you Julien. I was so shy and now I'm a public speaker too. It's what makes me feel so alive. I still struggle with wanting to be liked but I am not inauthentic to get approval. I watch these videos because it's so satisfying to see the transformation in people. You are amazing at what you do. Kind but strong enough to battle ego.

[Gealamusic]

I was thinking Stefan was very kind for not letting his inner child say 'this guy is cocky, huh?' ..

[cvkffgz]

This is the first time julian has popped up on my feed in years... glad to see you doing well.

Your speaches helped me find "the real me" after 30 years of masking autism and adhd... and you were right. MFs be jello as hell.

I might not have a lot of friends right now... that just means my schedule has opened up to finding real friends that appreciate me for me.