Everyone Pressuring Me To Marry Her 🥺💔 Reddit Stories

[JigsawSaysHello]

Run, don't walk. Abuse always starts as small acts and only escalates.

[ladylarson]

Yeah. This is a huge red flag. My father has been stuck in a 25 year abusive relationship with my step mother that started just like this. Don’t do it. She will defeat you slowly.

[addisoningham]

Domestic abuse is never okay no matter what gender roles are involved

[MafiaKing-ot]

What hurts more is that if a man will do this kind of thing to a women, people would have supported her and accused tye man for domestic violence and women could even seek legal help to. BUT, if a women does this to a man, then people say things like "what did you did that made her do this?" "You were must be in the wrong" or "you should be rhe one to apologize" like dude thats straight up unfair!

[bellasmom]

Not an over reaction. She thinks she has you locked down now showing her real self. She is an abuser

[koiaj]

Red flag! If she does that now then it will be harder (and more expensive) later. Leave her! A violent relationship is just that; no matter if you are male or female.

[jeannetteerrett]

This was me in the very early years of our marriage. When we got into arguments, I would lash out & slap my husband’s face. But for the grace of God, we will be celebrating our 37 wedding anniversary next month. Please don’t let anyone pressure you into marriage. I don’t know how my husband stayed married to me during those years. If you do move forward, please get premarital counseling, nip this in the bud before it escalates. Wishing you all the best!!!

[AnnieKJA]

If they hit you once, They’ll do it again.

[midorinasuna]

What the- don’t get married to someone who ever hit you even during an argument !

[fecchlz]

Abuse can go both ways. Don’t take it. Get out while you can.

[amittens]

its a huge red flag, if ur partner slaps you once they would do it again . the people around you are wrong and don’t see it from your perspective, which means they don’t find it that big of a deal so they are wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

[tomascamilotorresmedinaguz]

It's not like you're too nice, it's that she's not nice enough to you, you deserve smth better

[cocokises]

Don't do it! It's going to get worse...

[SmoothCode]

NTA - she thinks she controls the relationship. She. Does. Not.

[alainanovak]

No. Leave her. Women can be abusers too. Trust me I know. Happened to my father and sister and I. Run.

[omaralkhatib]

If your forced to marrie her, but dont want to then dont do it you will never be happy because you know you wanted to end things. And never listen to others thats the biggest mistake you can do, i heard some many Storys about people listening to there
Friends and other People and at the end they always regretted it!!

[Locallysourcedboolworm]

Dude people aways look past domestic abuse when is a man

[atlus]

Don't Ever tolerate Abuse.... Block those People as well

[anthonyhargis]

Over reaction? No. Giant red flag? Yes.

"Everyone else" has nothing to say about who you marry. Stand up for yourself.

[GirlWthGlasses]

Run my dude she's abusive and you are grown enough to stand up for yourself... Everyone who's telling you to marry her already know how trashy she is and they don't want her around so they are trying to force you to make her your problem.