5 Reasons A Good Man Should Not Be Honest with His Wife

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[RonHarrisMuscle]

Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of Wife

[FredHarvey-wpqy]

We once had a basement water leak during heavy rains. I noticed that the ground near the foundation was sloping towards the house. When my wife got home, I explained my idea to remove some shrubbery and bring in some fill dirt. She reacted angrily as though I had already done all of this without talking to her first. She was adamantly opposed to it. The kicker was when she said, "How can I trust you when you are sneaking around behind my back making all these plans?" So, I did nothing, and we had water in the basement during heavy rains.

A few years later, we had a termite inspection done. My wife walked around the outside of the house with the inspector. He pointed out that we needed to bring in some fill dirt in one area, otherwise we would have water leaking into the basement. When I got home that day, she was so excited because she knew how to fix the problem! Someone she had never seen before told her something, and that was a fact. When I tell her the same thing, she gets very angry and accuses me of being sneaky and untrustworthy!

[IronJoe_Florida]

If you punish the truth, you’re asking to be lied to.

[justinlancaster]

I once shared with my ex that I’d been arrested 20 years earlier for public intoxication and that the policeman had falsified the police report to say I’d taken a swing at him. And that all the charges had been dismissed and the record expunged.
When she perjured herself on an affidavit to get a one-year TRO to remove me from our home 10 years later (I was stay-at-home Dad), she added that I’d been arrested previously for assaulting a police officer. The judge immediately granted the TRO and I didn’t see my 8-yr old daughter for many months and then for 1 1/2 years only 2-hour visits with attending supervisor.
Nasty, nasty business when the misandristic family courts are the frequent torture chamber for men.

[charlessmarr]

When a man tells a woman about the private and personal hurdles he has dealt with all she hears is his flaw. She entirely ignores that you are telling her about your victories.

[frankconley]

A woman gets mad when told the truth. A man gets mad when told a lie.
And almost all women will use a man's weaknesses against him as a weapon.
Men don't ever tell your wife your vulnerabilities, ever. Big odds she will throw it in your face one day. You've been warned.

[craigslater]

Whatever you say or do WILL be held against you for the rest of your life.

[jamesstevens]

The biggest reason women are not happy is because he is not her first pick

[MikefromTexas-tl]

In 45 years I never lied to my wife. I told her for 35 years I wanted sex and she said I am too tired tonight. I told her one day I would leave and she never believed me.

[mgratk]

Men: NEVER EVER SHOW ANY WEAKNESS. You might be able to get away with a tear or two at your mom or dad's funeral. Other than that, don't admit to ever being afraid, or sad, or anything. Be stoic.
Also, when your wife complains about some problem she is having, just validate her feelings("Oh, yeah, I can see why you feel that way, that sucks.") and don't bother offering a solution unless she asks for one.

[francoiskeulen]

5 reasons a man should not be honest with his wife
#1 02:44 women weaponize the truth and vulnerabilities of their husband
#2 04:14 honesty perceived as hurtful by wife for who she is
#3 06:05 women conflate what you do and associate it with something unrelated
#4 08:30 the truth makes you a liar in her eyes
#5 09:53 wife twists your truth into a victim story

11:54 disclaimer

[acerhillfarm]

A man is much better off working through hard subjects with other trust worthy men. One ounce of anything that resembles insecurity will turn off a woman’s attraction to her husband like none other.

WOMEN DO NOT CARE ABOUT MENS STRUGGLES.

[Lex_Koncord]

Told my wife some personal struggles, nothing to do with her or women or anything like that. But it immediately became something about her, how it affects her, and how she's now struggling because of what I told her...

Women are not created to carry men's burdens. Do not force that on them - it's not lying, it's loving.

[P.M.O.S.]

Being single is so much more peaceful, but I wouldn't know if I didn't experience the chaos.

[SantiagoVeraLoor]

If you want to make a woman angry then tell her the truth. It's like kryptonite to them. If you want to make a man angry, tell him a lie.

[Rift]

This is why I just got divorced. She could not handle the truth and she lived on a different planet. No matter how constructive I tried to be she wouldn’t listen. If truth isn’t where we live then I’m done.

[outyomind]

It's a lot easier to talk to women when you see none of them as a potential mate

[flyingfluffyhockey]

In regards to to the conflating... In March one of my last 2 dogs passed, and then my last dog passed away in July this year. For the final two months of his life, I slept on the floor with him, to comfort him in hopes that he would pass on his own. I got maybe 1-2 hours sleep each night for those two months until he did go albeit with help from the vet. Next morning my ex GF and I were sitting and having our morning coffee together for the first time in months since Fluffy had gotten sick. She said to me, " I was impressed by your stamina, and your ability to care for him 24/7 for such a long time". I paused before replying, because knowing her the way I did, I knew that whatever response I gave had the potential that it would be used against me, and because compliments like that were very VERY rare coming from her during the 6 years we were together.. I ended up saying, " well, I love the things that I love very deeply"... She immediately took it as an attack on her as if I was saying she did not have deep feelings or that she was not capable of loving as deeply as I am. She left 2 weeks later.

[a.modestproposal]

Literally the very first words out of my (ex) wife's mouth upon her disclosing her clandestine 4 year affair: "I never lied to you!" Uttered with 100% self-righteous conviction. It's like a reflex: (1) dodge responsibility by reframing bad behavior as a virtue -- no matter how ridiculous; (2) hope your man is so brainf*cked by the emotionality of the moment it gets a pass. If she's trying this with you it's because your self-esteem is so low she knows there's a chance it will work. Fix that! You will no longer find yourself allowing such women in your life.

[bradjtrains]

The gaslighting in my relationship is so intense, it burns shadows into sidewalks. Thank God I found this channel. It has helped me recognize it for what it is and in a much faster timeframe than before.