The Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear on You (and What You Can Do) [Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy]

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It’s so annoying.

You finally decide you like a guy. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine him as “future husband” material.

And then suddenly...he starts fading out.

He stops calling…

He becomes colder in conversation…

He doesn’t step up and commit…

It’s like the universe knows when you’ve met an amazing guy, and decides to dangle him just out of reach.

Whyyyyy?

In this week’s video, I reveal the top 5 reasons men disappear so you never have to wonder why he pulls away again...

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[lochtessmonsterxoxo]

"It's easy to have standards when you don't care if somebody leaves." DANG

[Barbie-ggfx]

Let him go if he disappears. Ghost you once, he'll ghost you again. Show him the door 🚪

[springfauna]

"No amount of effort with the wrong man is gonna lead to your happiness" ....thank you, Matthew! I needed to hear this!!

[iranramezanipour]

“Disinterest is closure”, I keep telling myself that but still find myself waiting for his text deep down

[klulouis]

4:17 is my favorite: "stop thinking about this shit, send the text & go & live your life." 👏🏽 Sick of obsessing & over analyzing.✌🏽

[msdemeanour]

Stay single, calm, stress free & far away from clowns 🤡

[TrinaTat]

1. Instead of falling for a real person, you fall for the ideal
2. You don’t keep up the standards with the guy you like
3. You obsess over your behavior
4. Move to quickly (over invest)
5. Choosing unavailable man

[viktoriagal]

"Disinterest is closure." - Matthew Hussey
That's it. Always keep that in mind and you'll be just fine.

[keva]

Does anyone ever watch his videos, and half way through is just Like
I give up. 😂😂😂

[curtistinemiller]

When a person Ghosts you, you just experienced who they are, (A

[debrawis]

What ever happened to two people just being honest with each other. And Committing to a future!?!?
The older we get the less Bull shit I put up with.

[yazialmarzooqi]

“NO AMOUNT OF EFFORT IS GONNA MAKE THE WRONG GUY A RIGHT ONE FOR YOU”

[rowmccoy]

"Choose long-term happiness with someone who's gonna give you the world, not short term graphication with someone just sees you as a chapter in thier life"

[tammylee]

Dating is too much of a game! Ugh. I give up, bruh! Y’all can have these dudes. I’m too mellow for all this! Lol. Seriously

[LUMALuxuryMatchmaking]

Spot on with #1! We become so infatuated with the idea of someone! We are quick to fall in lust because we're so blinded by the idea of love.. So quickly that we ignore red flags.

[Lovely.Rodriguez]

In my experience, men who disappear without letting you know what's going on and how he's feeling... it's because he isn't the one for you. None of the guys that pulled away had good intentions, but they all came back after a long time like nothing happened, one of them made a big excuse and asking for forgiveness, I let him in my life again and after a week started to ignore me once again. What I've learned is that a man who really wants to stay with you won't make you go through these mind games. It's okay if someone needs space to think and spend time for himself, but ignoring and acting different after being sweet and caring? He knows he's pulling away at the worst way. A man that really likes you won't like you to feel hurt or rejected, no matter how much someone wants to justify this behavior I will not tolerate it. Quit being afraid of losing someone when it's not your fault and you gave your best, they can feel you're weak and allow him to drive you crazy. This is why you should focus on one guy while dating, you create a big obsession, he becomes a priority and to fix things you didn't ruin

[accidentallyglammakeup]

"no amount of effort with the wrong man, is gonna lead to ur happiness" whoa! that's an amazing quote. damn that's true!

[syndisue]

Happiness starts within you, being ghosted is so cowardly! I will never lower my standards ❤️

[swedishgirl]

People today are so insecure. Scared to approach people, date or commit to anything, especially since there's so much miscommunication, mixed signals. People don't put forth the same effort anymore in relationships since Facebook. We're losing social skills and appreciation for things that require a little work, and stepping out of our comfort zone.

[marcus.guitarist]

0:29 Instead of falling for the real person you've fallen for an ideal
1:17 You don't keep up your standards with the guys you like
2:55 You obsess over your behavior too much
4:20 You move to quickly
4:48 You're choosing unavailable men