How To Take Things Slow in Relationships

Taking things slow in a relationship is something that many of us claim to want and few us are able to follow through with. So what is “taking things slow”? In this video we talk about why we should or shouldn’t want it, and, most importantly, how can we effectively take things slow in a relationship without ruining all the fun parts!

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[georgeelder]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder...

[mattfox]

As a guy I would rather have this conversation than not.

[samuellong]

Wow this is so on point and perfect timing.
My girlfriend and I started off like a tornado making out in the restaurant parking lot for an hour after our first meeting. Now we did talk and text a lot and learned so much about each other in a short time. Many things in common.
We jokingly asked each other will you marry me of course not meaning it seriously.
The following weekend we told each other we’re not having sex and 20 minutes into her arriving at my house we were in bed.
And sex every weekend after for 2-1/2 months.
She sent loving cards in the mail that blew my mind. This woman is head over heels for me.
Then around Easter after her spending the weekend with family things changed. She became a little distant. But I kept on it and that became pressure for her.
So last night she called and we spoke about slowing down. I knew this call was coming and frankly I welcomed it because it everything out in the open.
I learned how much pressure she was putting in herself to be that person she was at first.
Every weekend we were together took away from her family and she felt bad because she felt she was neglecting me.
Anyway thanks for that video.
It described our situation perfectly.

[hunzren]

This video deserves so much love. As someone who has always rushed, i needed this.

[kerious]

Taking it slow is giving me severe anxiety, but I'm trying. I'm trying 😢
I'm male, btw.

[mandyj]

This was by far the best video I've watched on this topic

[Ionic]

I just thought she was dumping me... I'll keep pursuing her. I wont give up now.. great video.

[shinobly]

No exaggeration this is actually the best video on this topic I've ever seen, ty so much im finally ready to lear this skill

[iihabibaii]

I really need to stick to my boundaries. I told him this but he pushed the relationship till we found out we were a bad match.

[whatsupbudbud]

Just as I'm finding out and admitting to myself and those around me that I'm falling in love, I am simultaneously realizing that, even though I and my potential partner both have verbalized to each other that we want to take it slow, both also realize that we have this pull toward each other that we cannot seem to resist. And, indeed, it is the amount of time spent physically together as well as it is time texting, voice messaging and just thinking about each other. And then there is the fact that she has a 1.5 year old daughter. It is a fine line to think about minimizing contact since it is early and both of us are curious to the extent the other views us. Then again, the other becoming the whole world of one is risky and potentially a cause of hurt for both. In any case, I will for sure have this conversation as, if she is who I think she is, it will only make us stronger should we delve deeper. Thank you for your very mature advise, really appreciate it.

[QCDoggies]

This video is so informative, clear, and entertaining (finding all those hilarious clips!!) Please keep making content! Thank you for doing this, I have always taken things too quickly and it's one reason I'm single after being serially monogamous.

[IllTaco]

This is really comprehensive and hugely underrated

[savi_illustrate]

I'm glad I found this video, I'm the one who always really slow in getting know someone but everyone else seems always moves fast and fall in to fast...it makes me anxious and forced

[jeremebonesaw]

This video was slow, but concise. Very well put.

[spiritofhonuguidanceforlife]

This was a well put together message, thanks for sharing!
After ending a 15 year marriage in 2017, then being discarded by a covert narcissist in 2018, I've spent the last few years healing, growing, and learning my worth. There is a new person in my life who I am developing a beautiful friendship with who has been through similar life circumstances. He told me is only interested in friendship at the moment as he feels he is not quite ready to jump into another committment yet. Because of his character, morals, and values...I believe he is being sincere. So I am learning how to take things slow, and videos like this are very helpful ❤

[vinnii]

This was so well said!! Thank you for outlining both the why and the how so well! Watching this again whenever I start to find myself wanting to move to fast

[FierySpiritMaury]

The roller skating turtle was hilarious

[jackiewynn]

Thank you so much. I needed this. I am a hopeless romantic and have met someone I really connect with but I’m scared out of my mind.

[dean]

I’m watching this because I’m really trying to take things slow because I said that I’m ok with it but tbh I don’t think I am, I’ve never done this before and it feels as though she doesn’t want to be with me. I know I’m overthinking things but why “play these games” if we make each other happy. The way I see it is if we don’t end up working out we will have figured it out much faster than dragging things along and ending up in the same situation and on the other hand if we do end up loving each other/wanting to stay together then we would have also figured it out faster. I am trying really hard to not mess this up because I really like this girl and I think she’s amazing we have a ton in common and I just can’t help but think of new date ideas for us to do but I’m afraid if I mention anything about our possible future then I’m going to be punished with either feeling rejection or even possibly breaking up. I’m kind of venting rn tbh but if anyone reads this feel free to try and help me figure it out because I could honestly use ether advice

[adriansepulveda]

I have 2 questions;
1st- what does a "take it slow" timeframe look like? I know there isnt set numbers but are we talking a year before things get serious?
2nd- if you both decided to take it slow but in talking stage is exclusivity apart of the "take it slow" package?