He Wants To Take Things Slow | 3 Reasons Why!

Are you realizing that he wants to take his time? Do you want to know how to handle a relationship that seems like it’s developing too slowly?

I know that you want a relationship and you’re ready for things to take the next step, but the guy you’ve been seeing wants to take things slow. So what does this mean for you?

Perhaps you’re not used to the guy wanting to take things so slowly with you so you’re wondering how to handle the situation… First things first, this is not your fault!

Men who are confident in knowing what they want from a relationship know that they need to take their time if they want the attraction process to last. Sometimes when things move too fast, the attraction process is killed, there is no more exciting challenge, and the flame in the relationship dies out.

You have to enjoy the moment and the process of taking your time. This guy knows the you can fall in love so he wants to make sure that he maintains the attraction period between you. This is actually what gives the relationship a stronger foundation.

So here are the three things that you can do:

1. Make sure you never make the first move

Always let him reach out to you when he wants to see you. This gives you the power and control over the situation.

2. Always be positive

Pay attention to your energy, your smile, stand up straight and present yourself well. Make sure you’re always feeling confident. This maintains attraction and gets him more involved!

3. Show him that your life is still exciting

A man who wants to take his time usually has his own thing going on, he might have his own business, perhaps he doesn’t want to lose his freedom… so he wants to make sure that you’ve got your own thing going on. This is more attractive to a man and he wants to share this with you.

He doesn’t want you to change your personal life.

So every moment you spend together should be special and fun! He doesn’t want to move too fast and be in a short lived relationship because the flame burned out too fast!

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[nowellebarnhoorn]

I think it's a good sign when they want to take things slow.. they see in you something for longterm, no need to rush. I am in this situation right now and I feel very much appreciated and respected because we are taking our time.

[Mamilicious]

Men usually want to take the commitment part of the relationship slow, but want the sex fast. Wrong tree! I will not take care of a man that isn't taking care of me

[chrissylater]

Time is precious, don't waste my time. You either know or you don't know

[luzbaez]

Thank you for you advice. We get anxious and want things to happen immediately but when you wait the rewards are more meaningful. Good things are worth waiting for!!

[lizgoldstein]

It’s almost driving me insane that he’s taking things slow but I know it’s not because of a lack of feelings, he just wants the relationship to last. He’s communicated this right away and he hasn’t been contradictory at all. I, too, prefer to take my time, because I’m hoping for the reward.

[learningasigo]

I was in a toxic relationship for 10years.
Looking back I am thankful. I am learning to be patient. He's polite, does not pressure for sex, ect.

[blancarosasmusica]

I think just let him take his time if he is sure about you, he will want you.

[katharina]

Hm🙄 I disagree. He is either involved with another woman OR 40(and older) having experienced a horrible breakup/ divorce OR he isn't really interested in you. Usually men want to secure you as soon as they identify you as valuable! I also had men with attachment traumas- don't bother with them!!!! All of them are still single now after years of me worrying why I'm not good enough for them😂😘❤

[iam]

I don’t wanna waste time taking it slow and it goes no where that’s my fear

[mariadanae]

There is taking things slow, then there's taking things REAL slow. Dudes been hurt by past relationships now I feel like I'm paying for it in time. Hes the Best towards me SUPER patience, Kind and fun but I just dont want to wait anymore for a relationship. We are both celebate until marriage.

[newyorke]

This can be confusing because he’s seems very interested but isn’t really pursuing me.

[vivianeehui]

It is important to take your time and specially to be yourself during the process of attraction. This allows to discover the other and see the point on which to harmonize for a common happiness.

[ifejaykob]

Well, until he makes it official, I choose to believe it's because he's with someone else.

[flowergirl]

I have been talking to this guy for months and we’ve gone on multiple dates we even went to homecoming together. Since the first day of school we realized we were attracted to each other and it’s almost November now and although we’ve been on multiple dates, we went to homecoming together, we talk all the time, and even at night he calls me every night and talks to me for sometimes even hours. The other day randomly he told me that he wants to be exclusive, but not label it because he doesn’t know if he wants to date me yet or not, but obviously the end goal would be a relationship he just didn’t want to rush into a relationship like he did with his last girlfriend and screw things up. I completely understand what he’s saying, I do, except I kindve feel like I’m an option that at any moment he could decide he wants me but he’s not sure yet. I just don’t know how long I’m expected to wait for him, and there is still a possibility he might decide he doesn’t want me at all, since I think that if he truly wanted to he would.

[fabulouslyhealthylife]

I usually bounce after 4-5 months. Seeing eachother 3-4 times a week . If you not ready for commitment then your not the one.

[ms.sunshinehooks]

I am so grateful for this message. Thank you so much, Brother.🙏🏾

[almalopez]

Me and my ex always rushed into relationship then kept breaking up, we recently reconnected after 8 months of no contact and we’re speaking again and we agreed on taking things slow. Hopefully it will develop and we both grow.

[nathalie]

Je is damn right 😊 how can we dive in a relationship with someone we barely know 🤦🏼‍♀️

[Blisschild]

I’ve had men tell me they almost got married and rushed into a relationship after a couple weeks but yet with me I’m 6months in and he still hitting me with taking things slow. no sex btw cause I’m not gonna put out the goods for a guy who seems to be unsure of what he wants. Same men don’t know how to plan for dates or take initiative on seeing me.

[DandelionSpring]

This makes me feel at ease :’) thank you. I’ll try to be more positive now hhehe