10 Things Your Wife Will Stop Doing When You Get Married

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[HayseedHick]

The food that destroys a woman’s libido: wedding cake

[isiahwashington]

The truth of your wife not having fun and not wanting sex with you is you were not her first choice, nor her second or even her third. You were just the sucker who she conned and she has contempt for you.

[mihabukovsek]

What hurts me the most is that there is no physical touch. It's like I have the plague. But she spontanly touches the children and her parents with no problem.

[ronlugbill]

You forgot respect. Women stop respecting their husbands. And they stop trying to have a good relationship with their husbands. They do not seem to care that all they contribute to the relationship is negativity. They stop being committed. Like it doesn’t matter what their relationship is like. Everything else is a priority over the relationship.

[miriamhodges]

I'm a young woman who's going to be married soon, and this channel has been so eye-opening. I have a deep love and respect for men, and the behavior of wives I hear about in your videos and the stories I see in the comments absolutely break my heart. Thank you for bringing awareness to this issue. It has really helped me to steel my resolution to never mistreat or disrespect my future husband. I believe love is a decision, and I'm deciding now that no matter how hard things get, I will ALWAYS treat him well. I am praying for all men in loveless marriages. God bless you all.

[ozarkshark]

I've been married for 43 years and have not experienced any of this. We're still best friends and lovers who have fun together. Boy, did I luck out!

[emilytreu]

My mom is definitely one of these women. My parents are married for like 34 years or so and our entire childhood I actually wanted them to divorce because their relationship is so tumultuous. My mom is ocd and is never happy and my dad is a huge push over. She murdered his manhood.

[jjberg]

Luckily my live-in gf showed her cards too early and I avoided the divorce. She did all of these things so I slowly took back my autonomy and independence. Drove her up the wall until she ended it. Of course within weeks she was super fun, going out with guys and friends, dressing up, etc. Whatever. She'll repeat the process with every guy.

[KJ-pudw]

Many men listen to this and think how to get my wife back to how she was. But she was never who you thought she was.
If everything was a deception then there is no real relationship to save. The woman you fell in love with never existed.
Leave.

[MikeGT]

My "fun" ex wife bailed after 25 years and took over half my shit. Don't get married oh and she got fat, weighed more than me and I'm 6'2"

[rossie]

This woman is unique. Her messages, 98% of all women out there absolutely loathe. Conversely, 98% of men would lie down in traffic to be with a person like this. She is just so cool.

[Jaco]

I’ve passed most of this information along to my 3 (now early/mid 20s) boys. The naivety stops at their generation. I only wish I had been red-pilled by my own father before marrying.

[francoiskeulen]

Time stamps below:
Your wife will stop doing these things once you get married:

#1 00:37 having fun and instead becomes the fun police
#2 3:38 taking care of her own appearance
#3 5:52 being nice
#4 7:25 being independent
#5 8:46 having sex
#6 9:40 being affectionate
#7 10:27 doing things like hobbies with the husband
#8 11:17 being the nice girl around your friends and family
#9 12:04 being wifely and womanly (caring)
#10 13:49 being your best friend

Which # apply to you?

[naturematt]

Grandpa always said, "There's something in the wedding cake"

[robertphillips]

Mine maxed out 15 credit cards, I spent 15 years staring at her back as she slept with her back to me while she cuddled with the dog until she fell asleep . I spent years jumping through hoops and she said things will never be good until I change ….. then after I change I will have to prove it to her …. But it will take a long time . I never knew somebody could be that evil and manipulative .

[Bernadette-ip]

Your channel was so eye opening. I am a female that is older (64) and I have been married for 5 years now. I did not realize that women can be so nasty to their husbands. I love having fun still. In fact, I make it a point to have a "date night" on Wednesday because I know that we need to connect during the week, even though we both work. I still take care of myself (yes, a little more weight than when I was 25) but I have not let myself go. I still dress up for my husband and I have self respect and do not go out in sweats. I try hard to be nice to my husband and I do actually let some things go by but they are small things. There is no reason to start a fight because my husband leaves the dresser drawers slightly open. I just close them. No problem. I am independent and do things by myself and he does the same.
Anyway, I am shocked that women treat men so poorly. Thank you for all you do and I hope many couples can benefit from your advice.

[Mguitar]

Sums up my marriage of 37 years. However, I'm athletic and maybe gained 8 lbs in the last 40 years. She gained 100 pounds.

[MaskHysteria]

My ex wife immediately stopped doing everything she committed to do after the marriage. To me, that's called lying. As the lies piled up and her refusal to acknowledge and address her lies multiplied so did my frustration and lack of trust in anything she said. Eventually it ended the marriage.

[PatrickDuffy-us]

It was shocking to me how much my wife changed after marriage and children. Before we were married, we did all kinds of things together, but once we had our first child, everything changed. She never had any time for us. Throughout our marriage, the children came first, and then her friends. I was lonely and depressed and in a sexless marriage for 15 years. When I finally decided to have fun alone, she divorced me.

[MikeGT]

Thank you Karyn, my long term marriage is over but this helps me to move forward.