How Does The Attachment Theory Affect Your Childhood Life?

According to attachment theory, the things we have gone through as a child, and our childhood trauma can tremendously affect our love styles, attachment styles, and relationships. This video talks about the four attachment styles, as well as how you can spot them at work or school, in relationships, and in a crisis.

#attachmentstyles #childhood #psych2go

Related Videos:
What Your Love Style Says About Your Childhood

9 Signs You're Dealing with Childhood Trauma

How Your Childhood Affects Your Love Styles

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Credits
Script Writer: Amy (Spicevicous)
Script Editor: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Music & Sound Design - Urban Goose Studios
Animator: Nayeli Meneses
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:
Yerkovich, M., & Yerkovich, K. (2017). How We Love. Retrieved September 28, 201

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[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.”
― James Baldwin

[evefleischer]

I swear this woman has the most relaxing voice on the planet

[anjalimane]

Parents really need to get some counselling on how to raise up children before planning babies. They have their presumed messed up theories, philosophies and the stupid societal norms, which most likely they themselves are all confused about.

[ladyfibonaccii]

I've tried having talks with my mom about this stuff... and she tells me that it's not her fault I turned out a certain way... and then she asks...I raised your brother too and he's nothing like didn't realize my 50 year old mother needed me to explain what individualism is and that people perceive life through their mind, not the mind of others... so yes, I should not be like my brother, nor should you want me to be. I am me. I also believe I have two attachment styles.

[valentinarogel]

Anyone else feel anxious while watching these videos because most times it’s forcing you to think about past trauma / current issues you have that you don’t want to come to terms with? Same

[AmandaConover]

I feel like so many people have kids and end up ruining them emotionally. Like why did you want kids if you don’t want to care for them properly? makes me so mad

[wisdom-for-all]

Childhood is like being drunk. Everyone remembers what you did, except you. It is never too late to have a happy childhood 🖖

[itzmeh]

Types of attachment styles
1. Secure (type B) 2:00
2. Insecure avoidant (type A) 2:11
3. Insecure ambivalent/resistant (type C) 2:24
4. Disorganized 2:40
How they act in environments
1. Secure (type B) 3:21
2. Insecure avoidant (type A) 4:05
3. Insecure ambivalent/resistant (type C) 5:00
4. Disorganized 5:55

[aaaaaaaafjjdjs]

her voice makes me feel loved and safe.

[cassandrathomas]

It bugged me so much that 1 was type B and 2 was type A...

anyways I'm type A

[kschapters]

Alright but her voice just makes me feel so Loved I-

[Blackbutterflyt]

I'm an insecure avoidant I relate to that. Sometimes I'm seen as a loner other times I just absent. I just don't like mixing with others. Edit: There's only one person who interact with and that's Aurora Snow

[rainadatkween]

I got an ad about attachment styles before I watched this...

[ophelia]

I feel like these “attachment styles” are more of a spectrums.

[abbieamavi]

*where’s the “I was alone for all of my teens and went through multiple disorders alone and now never tell anyone my real feelings except i turn all my feelings into jokes” one??* 🤔🤔

[addy-ilqc]

Me explaining to my parents I have depression and there's this awesome channel on yt which helps me understand it better.

My parents: 𝗶𝗧 𝗶𝗦 𝗯𝗘𝗰𝗔𝘂𝗦𝗲 𝗢𝗳 𝗧𝗵𝗔𝘁 𝗗𝗮𝗠𝗻 𝗣𝗵𝗢𝗻𝗘!!

Me: goes back to being on my own and not sharing anything with them

[donnajoseph-barford]

I'm #2. I was neglected as a child and learned to everything on my own.

[APerson-qbpo]

It’s amazing how something you have no control over affects your entire life. What’s even more amazing is how parents seem to forget that.

[Imtoobusyslayingrn]

I like how it said "how you bonded with your family" but you never bonded with your family