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What are some romantic things to do for your wife? My name is Coach Adrian. And welcome to HAPPILY COMMITTED.

As a relationship coach, having worked with both men and women over the last decade, I have kind of learned what women want and how men can be romantic without being cheesy. And romance is a very important component to love and to relationships and so if you want to create a happy marriage or relationship you definitely need to understand the different little ways by which you can be romantic with your wife or with your girlfriend.

The first tip that I have for you today is to make sure that you are actively listening to her. Nothing can be more romantic than you being engaged and being present in your marriage and in your relationship. I've seen so many couples talk past each other and be so consumed by their own needs and desires that they start to ignore their significant other's requests and bids for attention and so if your wife - if you don't listen to your wife, you will not know what makes her tick and you will not know what she expects from you. And so in order to be romantic the first thing that you're gonna need to learn how to do is to be an active listener and to really listen without judgment - to listen to understand

The second thing that you have to think about when trying to be romantic is the element of surprise. You need to be able to surprise your wife or your girlfriend in order to come off as romantic. Women love to be surprised, especially when you show that you've put some thought behind an action or an activity. And it doesn't take much, it just takes a level of creativity and for you to give it some thought in order for her to feel special and that you actually care about her

The third thing that I want you to think about is that I want you to think about creating romantic memories, moments. Life is all about moments and I want you to be focused on creating those moments with her. Things that she can then talk about with her friends, with her children, with her parents, and sometimes we get too caught up in trying to plan for a grandiose gesture and we forget that life is about moments and connecting and experiencing things together

Physical touch is also a very, very important element of the romantic man's repertoire. So make sure that you give prolonged hugs or massages or that you lightly touch your wife to make her feel you, to make her see that you are present in her life. And I'm not talking about a quick caress or a 10-second massage. Really put your time and effort in building and developing that physical chemistry. It can go a very, very long way to building romance. You need to be physically into each other and it starts with your ability to touch the right places and to show love in the right ways through your physical touch

Also it's very important for you to be spontaneous. Don't try to plan everything. Everything cannot seem like it was basically choreographed. Okay? Spontaneity. Being able to just, on a whim, on a Friday night, take her out to dinner, or you know, on a weekend just get in the car and go on a getaway, or to bring her back to a place where you shared a memory, can go a long, long way in creating a romance and building chemistry in your relationship

You of course also have to be selfless. It is very difficult for a man to be romantic if you're just consumed by your needs and if you are unable to understand your partner's needs. And that's why I urge you to really, really try to develop this quality, this virtue of being selfless, not just with your wife, but with other people around you, other people in your life. It's difficult to just flip the light switch on and it's a lot easier to develop the right habits, to nurture the right patterns of behavior in all these different aspects of your life, in order to be the most romantic man that you can be

Lastly, and most importantly, you have to speak your wife's love language. You can be very romantic and do all of these things, but if you don't truly understand in a profound way, what our expectations are, how she wants to be loved it's gonna fall flat. And Gary Chapman wrote an amazing book called, "The Five Love Languages," helping many people to understand what makes their partner tick and how to show love to your significant other. And if you've never checked it out I highly encourage you to do so.
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Hello everyone! Welcome to HAPPILY COMMITTED. Thank you for watching our video. We really appreciate you stopping by our page and committing to your relationship with your partner or spouse. Be sure to subscribe to our channel and like this video about romantic things to do for your wife! - Coach Adrian

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I’ve been with my partner for 20 years, since we were just 14. I know he loves me but he has stopped dating me. In fact he hasn’t really made any effort for quite some time. When I bring this up he says that I should just be content with the fact he’s been committed for 20 years. But I don’t think I can live a life without those little moments, without romance or evenings out.
I’m a romantic person and I do romantic things for him. Apart from splitting up with him and finding someone else, how do I go about convincing him that it’s important so that I can still experience a relationship fully? I have started to think about leaving him and I don’t want that.

Sarah-ftjr
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I hear you, your absolutely right! Thank you so much for the tips!

thegbks
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Dear coaches, thank you for your love and support. This channel is great. And I think it would be really nice if you can do a video on how to maintain a healthy relationship / not to develop codependency on your partner, because I am really struggling on that 💔.

shuaichuchen
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Thank you for the advice I'm going to take it heart. Been married for 7 years three I am not trying to destroy something that we created

Michael-xbc
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I want to be more romantic but a lot of this doesn't seem like romance to me. Based on this, romance is not what media makes it out to be. This type of romance I get bored with quickly and often find tedious. I'm not sure what to do about that other than changing my feelings toward it.

steventyler
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I love my wife unconditionally, I understand all of that romance, however my wife doesn’t give me the chance to wow her or surprise her. When I do get close to thinking I can surprise her she comes up with some pretty messed up ways to deny herself and me with such treatment and thinks I am doing it to shut her up about whatever it was that she is feeling at the moment. She can not get passed her own image and she does not except any compliments from me because she thinks I am not being serious. Also it hurts my feelings when she clamps on to everyone else but me. She is really trying to push me away and it’s kind of working. I don’t know what I did to her but she has become a serious pain in my Ass, but I do love her and will always love her. She says I don’t find her attractive. That’s now is true because of the way she is now, with me. She goes on about how I don’t show her any romance. So I started doing some research and everything you mention in this video, the romance doesn’t work on every woman, I’ve tried it all on her. She is leaving in a fantasy world of romance novels and the kind of romance you see on TV not the realistic kind do you have any advice on that? If you have something let me know please. Thank you for the video.

Whispers.Of.Thoughts
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Looking for some romantic ideas for my wife who's love language is acts of service. Mine is gifts as I like to have little momentous for memories and such. I wasn't shown a good model growing up of how a relationship should be and it has been a long and very hard road to be the man she deserves instead of a low love IQ, awkward man. Lol

jasoncaywood
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I love My Wife ... a lot of. ... Unconditionally...

thinkpositive
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I struggle being spontaneous and keeping surprises from her, and I'd like to figure out how to put together more moments than grand gestures, how do you suggest to do that

markirwin
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How will i show her all the love she deserves, most especially now she's expecting?

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