How To Be A Man - Part 2 (Advanced Version)

How To Be A Man -- This counter-intuitive technique will take you deeper into becoming an authentic man than simply trying to act macho.

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[sambhattarai]

If I had a dollar for every women that found me unattractive, they would eventually find me attractive

[Blackflame-jlpf]

Waiting for How To Be a Man Part 3(God Mode)

[kalter]

Some guys in he comment section didn't get Leo's message here, so let me share my perspective:

Being emotional has nothing to do with being beta or feminine or weak, it's the single most important trait a psychologically healthy individual can have. Guys as emotional as girls, thinking overwise is very dangerous stereotype. If you're not in touch with your emotions, not aware of them, than you are a ticking bomb, unstable, ready to explode every second.

Leo is basically saying, that in order to become more masculine, you have to get rid of your neurotic clinging to be masculine. Because that idea of masculinity is a set of simplistic artificial rules you are trying to live up to, ROBBING yourself from freedom of expression. Girls are not looking for *perfect* guy, they are looking for a guy who is *perfectly fine* with himself. So self-acceptance, including your feminine side, is mandatory.
If you care about being "masculine", it's already a huge sign of your insecurity -ask yourself why aren't you enough already? Perhaps the reason for relationship fails is not your lack of masculinity, but your self-doubting insecure attitude?

[kirilspasov]

"A real man brings the man into whatever he's doing. The activity doesn't define the man, the man defines the activity" - truer words haven't been spoken. Also a summary for those tl;dr type of people lol. Great one Leo, as always.

[TheDiamondNet]

Great perspective on this. Personally, as someone who's highly interested in Yin and Yang and the unique masculine/feminine signatures that ebb and flow within individuals, societies, and other living and non-living systems; I think this is great advice to release resistance to the contrapositive energy. You can't fake this masculine/feminine signature or change it, so it's imperative to embrace it. It's a bit harder for a man to do this because our culture doesn't really value the feminine beyond the appearances of feminine sexuality. A man risks being seen as lowering himself to be more like a woman. A man sees many boons to abandoning his feminine side and learns to do so as a child, most times. Many women (including myself at one point) also decide to repress their femininity as children, as everyone wants to be seen as valuable to society. To meet a man without this feminine resistance is rare and wonderful and when the chemistry is there it's amazingly appealing. The "alpha male" caricature has never done anything for me at all and the culture surrounding it is toxic and a bit sad to watch a man try to write over his personality with a hollow ideal. It's always the uniqueness of the man and the way that he makes me feel that wins me over. You can't make a real connection with a picture of G.I. Joe. XD I think this caricature only works for picking up women, in general, because society collectively buys into this false masculinity.

[franklinelectro]

who else uses this guy's videos to fall asleep

[williamng]

I learnt more about being a real man and being more myself from watching this one video than watching 100 dating advice ones

[arratiugonaipPR]

Damn, embracing and behaving in a feminine way honestly felt extremely liberating, and all I did was dance alone in private with some music. I can't believe all the suffering I created for myself from "trying" to be macho, fuckk.

If you don't understand what Leo is saying here, then you probably never will, he is totally right!

[allanblack]

"Feminine energy is aware, all knowing, and confident. It is calm and is sure of what it wants. It’s honest, it seeks the truth and is okay with whatever answer because it’s secure. It is not dumb, weak, bitchy, or chaotic"

[fliu]

"When you are trying to do Alpha, it actually makes you Beta". Yes, it is so true. It is "inclusive" in a FULL spectrum of masculinity. "Your neediness comes from deep in-authenticity in you" - definition of nice guy. "If you are authentic, you would not be needy, the needy be fixed" - character of a good guy. Oh wow such a revelation "the activities does not defined the man, the man defines the activities".

[randomboyify]

Omg Leo this video came out the night before i start high school, thank you so much, i need all these man videos, keep up the awesome job.

[haripatel]

Just got my nails done with my brother girlfriend - felt great haha

[lazygeniuzs]

oh... my... god.... thats exactly what i needed, i cryed right after this video and im so thankful leo ! i was tired of trying to be that alpha male :( i was being direspectful to my parents and thinking 'im the shit' all the time and that wasnt making me happy, so i been aware of it and i thought that my problem is that i just feed my ego too much so i was trying to be a 'nobody'' these last 2 days and completely trying to kill me (my ego) but now everything is clear, thank you so much leo !

[skoluh]

Thank you Voldemort. I'm a huge fan!

[sebby]

So awesome! I was watching the original part 1 and after it felt as though the content wasn't really wise and i could tell a sence of confusion in you, once I watched this version instantly you can feel the truth and certainty in it. Once again unconditional acceptance is the solution, the power and unflappable groundedness that arises from unconditional acceptance is far more "manly" that the Hollywood ideal of machismo. Love your vids keep em coming.

[antonitescaro]

I realized after a few breakups that you can't make the woman your number 1 priority. If you say to her "My number 1 priority in life is to make you happy", your relationship will be over soon. Focus on your career and dreams first, thats what keeps her interested in you, thats how the female brain works

[MikeyHansen]

Always been the sensitive type and this is hands down one of the best tips you've ever given. Since not being afraid of saying what I feel and showing it as well, I've not only had success, but my self esteem has also improved a lot!

[hossemadian]

Seeing some of your videos from 2014 then 2016 and now 2019 and beyond I can see you getting so much more confident. There's totally a character shift from your old videos to the newer ones. I am a huge fan of your videos Leo. I have purchased the life purpose course and your book list. I am so excited for my future self. Love you brother.

[rishi]

how to be a man? go your own way... simple