13 THINGS MENTALLY STRONG PEOPLE DON'T DO BY AMY MORIN - Animated Book Review

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13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do - Book by Amy Morin

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become more mentally strong.

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves
Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always so easy or fair.

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power
They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “Oh My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change
Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible.
They understand that change happens and believe in their abilities to adapt.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control
You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or long traffics. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone
Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks
They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.
Every action taken in our lives has risks involved; a mentally strong individual is not scared to take calculated risks even if it means that they might have a potential downside to their action. What they will however is that if they do fail they will use it as an opportunity to learn and grow from it.

7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past
Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it. However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over
Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success
Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others overtake them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure
Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.

11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time
Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive.
They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything
Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.
The world owes you nothing and doesn’t have to reward you anything for your effort; you could try your hardest at a task and still gain nothing from it. What’s important to know is that if you do fail at the task after trying your hardest you learn from your mistakes and focus on what you could do better next time.

13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results
Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.
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Great video. I am mentally strong but wasn't born that way. While taking care of my life, I was quite stupid in areas. I look at myself every day to be stronger, wiser & loving. Thank you for your words that help my day.

donnakelley
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This is very beneficial, having a strong mind is a great thing.

rachidsahraoui
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Love your explanations Mr Wong..Precise and Helpful !!!

nirajansapkota
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Wow, This is really interesting even tho it seems very hard to do but growing gradually and never giving up, you'll eventually get there, thanks brodah

MrBaws
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Thank you for this video. I liked, subscribed and shared it. This is awesome. Keep up the great work.

MathManH
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Put it in good way.Great presentation!!

YET
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LooOooOooOooOoove Life Changing Video... Thank You sooOoo much sir

friendsforever-bbwl
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From the video I understand I should consider myself as a mentally strong person instead I just think I hate stress so much that I always do my best to avoid it. I even felt ill years ago with a genetic muscle disorder and now I am disabled and still I am not stressed, what's really the point? Stress doesn't make things easier to handle for you and people around you, it actually makes everything worse

lilli
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Beautifully created the summary of the Book....Thank you

LailaAhmed
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I am trying to be trust me its hard there is something that pushes to the same routine

laylaschannel
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Thank you for the video, very interesting. You have a funny accent :D

annamagdalenawilckettebach
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you should mention the book you took that from

julieclergue
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the thing you said about shyness, the stronger you are, the more strong you are

reinerbraun
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thank you
great have done by author
ya it's a process and sudden and quick results are not going to happen
repeating mistake
feeling alone
need someone are basic qualities of humans but when we move on
there is something great
hope I will if I reach at dat position surely I will inform
thank you very much from the depth of my heart

rahilj
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I made great strides and plan the continue in that route!

PacinoXTC
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I am definitely not a robot.... As a human being I experience, I feel, I react...

garytravers
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that moment when you realize you dont do any of those 13 things right

melih
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thank u sir very good video make more videos on books take care :)

humerameraj
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Im lucky because in my family my two little brothers are emotional also my mom and dad but I'm the oldest and im
the only mentally strong one

xxx
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great work...bt less makes me feel bad

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