10 Signs A Man Is Struggling With Trauma From Childhood

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[OriginalWhiteDevil]

I used to convince myself I could change, but the older I get, the more I realize nothing really changes.

[jarhead]

Excellent point about mothers and their daughters in the modern age. A lot of women have warched their moms get divorced and listened to their mom complain about men for at least 40 years now.

Its wierd. Women will be wise enough to not humiliate themselves for male attention. But they will embarrass themselves for their moms approval.

[NickBingham]

I have been fighting the "I'm not good enough" voice in work, in relationships, and in life in general.
I have fucked up. In every role I have worked that didn't treat me like absolute disposable garbage, mostly because of that voice and the indecision and distraction the whole thing causes.

There's also the PTSD flashbacks... But those I have been dealing with for years, and yeah, seeing bodies, hearing voices, and smelling some of the scents of some of my most damaging moments, causes issues, but it doesn't make me feel completely void of any value.

[curtsstoesz]

After 36 years of rejection, you begin to believe the lies. Btainwashing goes deep. After getting free, i had panic attacks when something good or nice happens. Now two years out, with counceling, able to sleep without nightmares.

[gregprince]

That we won't be chosen and she will always be keeping her options open

[juliusrhoe]

I have been holding my tongue my entire adult life because of fear, so scared people will leave me if they know my truth. Been disrespected most of my life

[kiritosao]

Having come from a background of disorganized attachment disorder, where I received no affection and regular violence from my father, apathy or fear from my mother, isolated from people and generally distrusting of everyone throughout twelve years of schooling and beyond, 19 years of military service operating in a stand alone chaplaincy section, five failed relationships, two resulted in sexless marraiges, and then to find out at 47 that I am autistic. Yup, might have a few intimacy issues. Over 60 now, driven into being an INCEL and now in the MGTOW group, I have nothing left but God and my toolbox. Hope is an irrational concept. Yet I have finally crawled out of the depression I have been in for decades. And I find myself in a white space with limitless white horizons. There are only three people there, besides my counselor, and my life seems pretty devoid of any purpose. There are no more rewards, just marking time.

Thank you for being there. You have been the first person that has advocated for people like me, even though thyere is little that can be done. I know you are helping somany others. Keep up the good work.

[gsxr]

This will be an interesting topic for me. Hard to know what trauma effects people, current or past. Funny how many things we learn through the way people treat us.
Fathers play a huge roll to me, I didn’t really have a good one.
My bio Dad was an alcoholic that beat my mother in front of us, step father beat the crap outta me. None of it stopped till I was big enough to fight back which caused it’s own problems. I learned to solve all my problems through violence, not against women, but definitely against any other man who ever tried to stand over me or my family/ friends. Councillor told me, that unfortunately it had worked for me, until it didn’t. Scared myself when I almost killed a guy with one punch at a club, never again. Always felt horrible after fights too, got it sorted now, (I’m rambling…) anyway all the best guys for whatever your issues may be, I hope you find ways to sort it out.

[curtsstoesz]

Addictions form from trying to medicate the pain of tejection, unmet needs.

[noobsmoke]

Voice in my head tells me to go to sleep and not wake up.

[johnholland]

Great your back!!! I Was having detachment issues, Lol. Yeah, you've been very busy. Appreciate you.

[jonathans.]

Hello Sarah, While growing up as a child and teenager I had several thoughts that were brought up in my mind that I may not be good enough, smart enough, or had the correct personality to be appreciated. I was the small or skinny guy on the block, at elementary school, or with friends. I have had to grow out of this type of mindset, let almighty God give me confidence, grace, strength, love, care, compassion, and wisdom to deal with my thoughts, attitudes, and feelings about who I actually am as a young teenager and a young man. I thank Jesus Christ for the insights in my life.

[dionysiosdionou]

I was an orphan from birth and sold in a black market child trafficking ring, to two evil freaks that had no business near a child in any capacity. Sarah your videos are impressive. I've written a memoir of my life's traumas, struggles, tragedies and triumphs. It not a pleasant story very raw and unfiltered. I think my story would help many of the men you work with on your platform. Should you like to discuss this reply and we can chat off line.

[davehenderson]

I'm so happy to see your face. Welcome back! Only happy feelings.

[earlyburg]

Trauma is a normal part of the life experience. There is physical trauma to the brain - which a lot of men have if they have led a violent life, and psychological trauma. It's how we deal with these that makes us healthy.

[nojoy]

Trauma. Had to learn very early how to deal with it. Just recently realized I failed to deal with one incident. Sadly 99% of the trauma ive had to deal with has been inflicted by women

[Londoloza]

Thank you for this video but I really need a summary pls

[michaelparker]

I love your work. Btw, with more laid back, almost "fireside chats", like this, have you considered uploading the video at 1.25x's speed? So anyone tuning in would automatically hear you at 1.25 without doing any work? Because I've heard over half this video at 1.25 and it sounds GREAT. Very natural. It also shaves off minutes, obviously, so it may be less daunting to people "on the go" who check how long a vid is first, or are a little ADHD. For them slower talking can almost be painful. Anyway, just an idea. Listen to yourself in this vid at 1.25. You may love it..?

[yearstockcycle]

Have you been gone? Spending time with your new beau. Good for you.

[johnzukas]

Thanks Sarah. I really enjoy your point of view. Very detailed. I do question some things. Generally, everyone has some sense of trauma in life. How do you determine if it is a real issue as opposed to this just growing up.