Jordan Peterson - What Nobody Tells You About Growing up

Carl jung talked about this phenomena. He cried phenomenon.
He described as a retrogressive restoration of the persona. And so it's a complicated idea. But basically what it means is that sometimes you take a leap forward and you learn some things but you can't catalyze a new identity.

So you try to go back and hide in your old identity and that actually doesn't work because well you things have changed and you've learned something and that isn't who you are anymore.

And so it's like you have to cut part parts of yourself off in a destructive manner to fit back into the person that you were now what happens here is that Pinocchio escapes from this tyrannical situation and undergoes this descent into chaos, but he tries to go back home...Jordan Peterson - Breaking Free Of Family Expectations

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🎓 ABOUT JORDAN PETERSON :

This audio clip was taken and edited from Jordan B. Peterson. Jordan Peterson is a Canadian clinical psychologist and a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto.

Psychology professor Jordan Peterson has become a controversial figure ever since speaking out against Bill C-16 (2016), a law that adds gender expression and gender identity to the Canadian Human Rights Act.

He has received both praise and criticism after the publication of his self-help book 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos (2018). His fans are thankful for the advice he’s given them to take responsibility for their lives. Peterson has become an important inspiration for various men’s groups, an influential voice.

Jordan Peterson gives an EXTREMELY POWERFUL motivational speech on becoming unstoppable in life, showing you the steps we need to take in order to achieve your true potential. If you enjoyed the wonderful life advice, be sure to support Jordan Peterson himself and purchase his latest book, it's a great read!

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[Neon_toaster]

One of the harsh realities of growing up is realising that your parents are just people at the end of the day..

[Maria-sewo]

I'm 16 now and my mother said:" you are old enough, I can't forbid you anything anymore, because if you really want to do it, you would find a way to do it anyway. The only thing I can do, is giving advice so that you won't make the same mistakes I did. You might do different ones, but everyone has to do mistakes and make their own experiences."

[preacherman]

My job as a parent is to raise my kids to not need us, but still want to be around us.

[loyalityone]

As young adults, when you lower your expectations of your parents, you might be surprised on how the relationship improves.

[Quodge]

The beauty is he tells you shit you already know and have felt but spells it out so plainly and logically.

[akhtaruzzamanjoy]

First time living alone ( I am 27 years old) and this is scary for me but I am free

[FelixSkura]

The one who walks alone, is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been.

[Freight_Train]

When my dad died, I did not cry. My relationship with him had died long before that. He never liked my life choices (my career, religious views, and focus on my wife and kids) and I knew at some point I had to choose his path or the path I truly believed. He never accepted that so I avoided him to avoid the insults.

On the other hand, I'm trying to encourage my sons to excel and also to choose their own path. I try to point out the successes they have and still motivate them to become better at things I think will help them. Not sure if I'm getting it right but I keep trying.

[jayraiya]

The moment you realize your parents aren't perfect human beings and they too feel down and need your help, that is when you grow as a person and your relationship becomes better.

[AlbertDeSisto]

I truly learned to be a man at the age of 21 when I took care of my dying father, he passed two days before I turned 22 and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through, I am now 24 and doing better than ever, more of a man than I ever have been, for anyone reading this- right on the other side of pain and trials and tribulations is success and happiness…stay strong

[hurricane]

I believe the sooner you emancipate yourself from your parents, the sooner you will find out whom you truly are.

[Nick-oyxp]

"No one can be a man unless his father had died" "Yes but that death can happen symbolically" and then you get me where it happened physically at the age of 16. If you have good parents that are still around, consider yourself lucky

[alexisbaliari]

A good parent teaches his children to resolve problems. So they do not need to come back for answers, but just for the pleasure of sharing time together.

[malik]

My parents kicked my out of the house earlier this year, leaving me homeless and really nowhere to go, had to figure out everything on my own. Probably one of the best things that happened in my life. You really become a different man when you don’t have your parents.

[privateequityguy]

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment

[Rinne_is_real]

Home no longer feels like home. Like I don't belong anymore. Physically my things are there but my heart is somewhere else.

[ultiumlabs]

I can really relate with this talk. I'm in my 30-ish and my parents still think like I'm just a child. They still think they know everything, actually that's still not that bad but they force their opinion to my life decision, that's really bad.

[achumileqezu]

This is exactly what i am going through, I come from a middle class family and i am trying to break the chain and become very successful through ecommerce and digital marketing and I feel like i don't need to go to college but My dad wants me to become a docter or lawyer . So i am deciding to disassociate myself from my family and friends and get out of my comfort zone, work and chase my dream

[johnnyofthesticks]

Things can turn pathological when your parents do not give up and always, at all costs, want to be over you, controlling, and not letting life go on, just stick to you as a child, not assuming you ve grown up, not letting you advance in your life. Its natural to some point, but it could be a nightmare if they are not sane.

[alexcortez]

When I started living alone for the first time, I was broke for a few years. But those were some of my happiest days because I was free.