When Narcissists Provoke Anger Within You, (Reacting To The Narcissist.)#narcissism

When narcissists provoke anger within you, what Can you do?

0:57 how do narcissists bait you?

4:10 How do you handle a
Narcissist provoking you?

7:25 How to stop reacting.

8:15 Ways to lose the
feelings of resentment.

10:38 dealing with your anger

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[AKUBARIKI]

Has anyone noticed certain words that a narcissist uses toward you and then you later find out that they were explaining their own behavior?

Absolutely. These were his go to phrases every single time we had a conversation that he did not want to engage in. Whenever I would ask him if we could talk about something he did that hurt me, or bothered me, he would get extremely upset and angry and say…”I'm not talking serious”. Everything he did was swept under the rug like it never happened. He refused to talk about anything he did. If I continued to try and talk “serious”, he went through the roof and flew into a narcissist rage. He had the most unreasonable reactions to a mature and reasonable request to just have a conversation. It was bizarre and scary.
He would never have a conversation about anything, unless it was about something that I had done that bothered or hurt him! Always the victim. And then it was a long, drawn out conversation about all of my flaws, character defects, mistakes, or anything else that I had done. He would go back ten years, like it just happened yesterday and it was always blown way out of proportion the second, third, tenth time around.
He also made sure that I knew that I had caused him to do whatever he did.
He blamed me for everything that was wrong with him. If he had a bad day at work, it was my fault. If he was sick, it was my fault. If he lied, my fault. When he cheated, it was my fault. He got a DUI while we were separated, yup, my fault. He drank so much one weekend that he had to go to the ER, for alcohol poisoning, while I was working in another State, he blamed me for that! When there was a poor relationship between him and his parents, due to his bad decisions, it was my fault.
Here were his favorite phrases…..

You are so immature, I can't talk to you.

You are so insecure, I can't deal with you.

You are bi-polar, you need help.

You don't believe me, you don't trust me. I can't be with someone who doesn't believe me or trust me.

You are acting just like your mother (his mother was a narcissist also)

You need to be on medication, there is something very wrong with you.

I do everything for you, and you never appreciate it.

I have never been treated this way by any other woman. You are trying to control me.

I can't trust you, I can't believe anything you tell me. You are a manipulator.

You are so unreasonable. I have never been with any other woman with such unreasonable expectations as you.

You need therapy. Something is very wrong with you.

I can't make you happy, no matter what I do. You're never satisfied.

You need to be with a man who can meet your needs. I can't make you happy.

You have a drinking problem. You should get help.

You need to have your own social group of friends and not rely on me so much.

You need to be more independent.

You need to be more responsible with money.

You don't act like you love me anymore

You left me. I can't believe that you left me after everything I've done for you and your family.

You blame me for everything. You never look in the mirror to see what you do.

I can't talk to you. You are talking in circles and not making any sense.

You're a hypocrite.

You're so dishonest. You omit information all the time. Omission is a lie.

I know that you were cheating on me. You didn't answer the phone all night. Hope it was good.

You think that you are something special, but you're not. You are a miserable al

[Indiana_Blue]

Anger is my biggest reaction now. Its not who i am. And im labelled an abuser

[joycethompson]

Thank you! I needed to hear this today!

[roseglasses]

This should have a million views. Thank you.

[julietamalo]

Thank you so much for the insightful explanation and advice, Ms. Shaw. It comes exactly at the time I need it. The truth of the matter is almost none of the communication I tried to have would come across. So, save time to love myself more which I had neglected for a long time. Have a wonderful day and blessings to you.