6 Signs You're NOT An INFJ

Previously, we made a video on the signs you're an INFJ. But what are the signs you're NOT an INFJ? What makes someone an INFJ– the rarest personality type in the world? Out of the groups of personality types, the two most similar and mistyped are INFJ and INTJ. They are both reserved, intuitive, goal-oriented, and big-picture thinkers. However, the difference lies in how each approaches the world. Here are a few signs you're not an INFJ.

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Disclaimer: This video is based on the Myer-Briggs personality inventory, which has little scientific backing. All traits are theoretical. Traits mentioned in this article are rough tendencies, not strict classifications.

Writer: Sara Del Villar
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Karen Fong
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[Psychgo]

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[angiedominique]

I first tested as an INFJ in middle school. My mom told me that it meant i was going to cry a lot as I got older. She wasnt wrong.

[yasminechoerryscherry]

Literally all the INFJs came here because they were overthinking "wait what if I'm not an INFJ?!"


Edit: suddenly I got like 3k likes(? 😂😂😂 thnx, I was honestly talking about myself but I guess I really exposed y'all

In conclusion, INFJs world domination ✋

[GiantGeekGuy]

"For some INFJ's, confilct is distressing"

That hit home. I do everything I can to avoid fighting or arguing, but I procrastinate a lot and tend to bottle up emotions, which at times lead to unwanted conflict, haha.

[Bookwormtalksabout]

“As a child they might’ve felt different or like they didn’t fit in.”
YES EXACTLY HOW I FEEL 90% OF THE TIME

[moncarateez]

me: you can say anything to me, i’m open to criticism
someone: * gives criticism *
me: * starts overthinking it for a few days *

[shekiweki]

me, an infj: I just need someone to talk to...
someone: I'm right here for you, do you wanna get something out of your chest?
me: *shakes head* i got nothing wrong, how about you? are you alright-

[xbtxxti]

Okay but this art in this video is so cute

[khairat]

1. You make decisions easily
2. You do not shy away from a challenge
3. You love being surrounded by people
4. You are not super attracted to humanitarian acts
5. You love testing theories in real life
6. You are in tune with your emotions and have no trouble voicing your emotions

[seal]

Being an INFJ, in my opinion, is absolute hell. I always felt completely isolated from others, especially in my childhood to the point I started to believe I was just "weird." I fell into deep depression early into my teenage years with frequent bouts of anxiety. Now, as an adult, things have definitely become easier, but the depression lingers on.

[hannahtelevised]

Me, and INFJ who has taken the test multiple times with the same result but still watching the video: *interesting*

Edit: I know some tests are inaccurate, you can stop telling me now lol.
Edit again: Guys, it's a test to learn something more about yourself for fun. Let people enjoy things. It's not that deep.

[matcha]

Despite all the attention infjs get about being rare and whatever their emotional hardships seem so overlooked. To all the infjs you've been working hard for others its okay to rest and take breaks :) -infp

[coralsylph]

As an INFJ it's causes me so much frustration when I am sick and people just treat me casually even the ones I am very close with... As an INFJ I am very leftout when this happens cause I put everyone's need before me and have a high sense of what the other person wants... But doing this everyday 24/7 exhausts me alot I need some of this attention as well from specific peoples, I am totally drained out :'(

[ZainabKhan-wrug]

Me who uses both logic & feelings once in a while.

[maria-vzls]

1- You make decisions using impersonal choices
2- You do not shy away from a challenge
3- You love being surrounded by people
4- You’re not super attracted to humanitarian jobs
5- You love to test theories in real life
6- You’re in tune with your emotions and have no trouble voicing your emotional needs

[SuperSegaScrub]

I wish they explained what a matured INFJ looks like in all the other contexts. I’m definitely an INFJ, but therapy has helped me learn boundaries that may “take away” from my people pleasing.

[morningrosie]

I'm an INFJ, but I have been trying to push myself to not shy away from challenges. Mostly because I know that doing the same thing over and over isn't going to get me anywhere in life anymore.
I'm not as attracted to humanitarian jobs because I like peace and quiet and really enjoy the weather so I want to be a meteorologist. I'm still in the emotional support part for my friends and random other people but it's not something I'd do professionally. Partially because I don't like the thought of charging people money for emotional support, or just to have someone to go to.

[sanatsor]

I dont want to be INFJ
I want to be extrovert
They look like having fun

[nineplustentwentyone]

I am an INFJ who taught myself to voice out my concerns because I realised that keeping/bottling on too much affects the people around me :<

[IsaiahINRI]

Me: *loves debating ideas and philosophies*
Also me: *hates arguing, gets stressed out over the possibility of arguing, internalizes criticism for the rest of my life*