Womens Emotioms #dating #lovemarriage #cheated #lovemarriage #wife #love #relationship

[dgn]

Women high emotional intelligence = not risking upsetting you by upsetting you.

[ladyofspa]

Its often not safe to be that vulnerable to express the whole truth of whats wrong. Make it safe she will open, and handle the good the bad the ugly of that level of intimacy.

[thisisntallowed]

Sometimes when you say what's wrong people gaslight you or get upset. While it's true some women are bad communicator, men also have to create a welcoming space for a woman to express herself fully.

Some people also need time to find the right words to express something. If she's not talking it's because she's scared of some consequence

[nb]

When something is wrong I like to process it in the first place. I won’t tell you right away. I need to analyze the situation first and to put words on why I am really upset. Also sometimes I feel like the person won’t understand or will find it silly that I am upset for that. It depends. But usually I will come to you when I am ready to talk. But yeah when something hurt me I shut down first bc I really need to analyze what I am feeling and why.

[oda]

Thats not emotional intelligence, thats childish and lack of communication skills

[petervanhoorn]

His reaction when she said: if you cared about us, you'd know... 'Women are emotionally intelligent.' But not intelligent enough to realize men process emotions different than women... I always love it when people contradict themselves, especially when they don't even realise it.

[spacecowboy]

Emotional intelligence is an oxymoron. You don’t get to do something stupid then claim any type of intelligence. You don’t get to claim you’re intelligent then have the unreasonable expectation that someone can read your mind. Words (like intelligence)have definitions. Stop being assholes by trying to change their meanings with absurd twisting and manipulation in some feeble attempt to change a negative attribute into one that appears to be positive.

[tomlambkin]

Emotional intelligence? But then closes off turning their issues into problems for others isn't intelligence

[goldenchambers]

I think it also has something to do with the differences in how the genders love. Good women are emotionally intelligent and thus are subsequently more attentive to the emotions around them that show up in others. Being that attentive to someone elses emotions while yours are in distress can be overwhelming and hard to navigate- if i already know youll get upset or feel a certain away about my already complicated feelings, should i even bring them up? I would argue yes, and would help bridge the gap between women and men more often then not but that is why choosing the right partner matters- the person for you wont make you feel unsafe to share your thoughts.

[NazninHussain-ry]

Thats so sweet he’s asking ten times what’s wrong alot of men don’t even talk or ask what’s wrong just ignore or silent treatment or don’t care what’s wrong.

[gchavb]

clear communication safes lot of problems

[reneewhittinghill]

Just tell him the truth. He's the kind of guy who makes us feel worse when we tell him. His frustration is already a red flag. Make us feel safe and we'll tell you. ✨️ It's not women in general. It's women with you.

[jessicagardner]

It’s hard for a woman who has been abused to openly express what’s wrong because she’s used to being told she’s wrong or too sensitive any time she did open up in the past.

[mco]

That s narcissim not emotional intelligence.

[r.a.]

That's a lack of communicational skills. It is the same for men, expecting women to understand sometimes the most basic rational conclusions. Communicate it clearly, don't assume or expect!

Men need to function regardless their feelings and emotions. It's not a matter of a lack of emotional intelligence, it's just not important from a masculine point of view. But it is important for the feminine part

[NickI-ji]

That woman tries so hard to be Jordan Peterson but is not even close and she spews nonsense

[anonymous]

It took 2 weeks of sleepless night and almost burning down the whole house. Because she kept pushing me to find out why she is not happy. And it was just because she came across an elder family friend some where in the public and he gave her an advice that both of us should consider do some life long planning, building our career and wealth before jumping into a marriage and getting a baby. Which i have totally no idea they had that conversation and she kept on insisting that I'm telling people we are in a serious relationship who is that some one... I was like huh...

I couldn't take the constant instigation and interrogation on those nonsenses destroy peace for petty things. So I gaveup the toxic relationship.

[mariannasantorinaiou]

True💯💯💯
Women are emotionally intelligent❤💯💯💯

[wolfymewmew]

we also like to hide our emotions because we don't wanna seem weak. atleast that's true for me. sometimes im scared of being vulnerable or being a burden.

[victoriakiteley]

No, we're just used to be shut down when ever we have a problem. Dismissed when we are physically in pain and sick. It's all, "oh it's just your period, oh you just need to loose weight" and my personal favourite " what do you have to be stressed about, it's all in your head"