How to get an INTJ to open up: 5 ways ENFPs do it naturally! | MBTI dating and relationships

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[maneli]

Totally agree with all points. INTJ here who luckily has several ENFPs in my life.

[belindahb]

INTJ here, yes I’m very warm and I despise small talk, and ENFPs are smart and knwo how to engage in a conversation and keep you interested. ENFPs are attractive for being easy to talk to and share anything they have with you, and that’s amazing. Especially past experiences and that’s something I like.

[rb]

Female ENFP and I met the love of my life INTJ. We were just friends for 9 months and then it hit me what an amazing man he is. We’ve been dating for 3 weeks and it’s incredible: we are so determined to make our love take us to marriage. Today I helped me let me in. He told me about his deepest fears and we both cried. I was holding his heart. It was so beautiful. I love that he deems me trustworthy. I will be loyal to him till I die. He’s my hero and best friend. INTJ are best for ENFP.

[doughull]

The more you talk, more curious I am as an INTJ, you get us like no other personality, and it's wholesome and true, no lies just be honest truth. That is so cool, to know somebody like you is out there, bravo 🦉💜💚🧐🤔

[darkrebel]

Very good point about INTJs needing a sound board. I find that a lot of the things I say are half-baked thoughts that I'm still working through, and it really helps to have someone to bounce the ideas off of. getting some external input is always helpful. I think this is related to the Te function primarily.

[aweeawee]

I totally I had this girl really really really really pretty, and we started talking and we bonded so good, and then she took the test and she was ENFP.. so, it's the perfect match indeed. It's sad she lives in another country though

[ceecee]

I’m an INTJ female and your 2nd point spoke to my soul haha. Men have quickly given up on pursuing me because I put up barriers and probably look cold, unapproachable etc. so I cannot blame them. However, I recently found out that one guy that has been in and out of my life for 6 years, who has managed to defy all odds and bust down any barrier that I have put up before him, is an ENFP 🥳🥳🤣🤣

[hersheykisseys]

OMG all spot on! I always get people to open up by telling them something important and personal about myself. I love listening to my INTJ's thoughts and I told him that. He said he seldom shares these thoughts to anyone else.

[firespawnie]

I'm an ENFP guy and a very good friend of mine is an INTJ. He has told me that he really enjoys listening to me and finds interesting what I'm saying and the way I'm saying it.He has stated that he admires my beliefs and passions.
Another friend of mine is dating an INTJ girl and he introduced her to me, and after some minutes talking she started feeling at ease with me and even found me cool as well and we exchange a lot of philosophy and random chit chats.

INTJ are cool people and I always get along with em.I've never dated one to be honest, but as friends at least they're wonderful.

[chongwenqi]

I am an ENFP, INTJ is very interesting. They look cool at first, but then when you know them more and more they become more talkative and fun. But INTJ is really reserve, they like to discuss about facts and data. And is like every time will discuss on something, they just like to search on internet for facts to Prove it 😂. Is like need verification code to proceed to the next step. It's is hard to know the inner feeling of INTJ as they don't show up to the people that they doesn't trust. But I will feel very proud and honour, if the INTJ tell me more about it. Thats accurate, ENFP is quite naive and would like to try for new things, even the probability to success is low, as everything is possible!

[NaturallyHigh]

Ooooh there's so much for me to catch up on!

[nafisesh]

I'm INTJ, yes it's all true

[dr.hebagadallahclinicalpha]

I love ExFP and NPs, they entertain and educate me .
ENFJs are cool .
I love every MBTI type for who they are. But for me the interaction had to serve education or entertainment, or I prefer my own company, not out of being selfish . It is out of maximizing the use of our time . That is a sort of respect .
INTJ-A

[daduhd]

Me, an INTJ watching it to be sure I don't open up next time. Also, it would be much better with a list in description ☹️

[mayidoyourmakeup]

Great video! I love the background :) Where is it?

[mattblom]

I'm an ENFP and just met an INTJ girl I really felt I vibed with. Now to consider when/how to ask her out.

[johnterbrock]

Your background environment open up me/intj

[IlmarKiisk]

Just one: show interest in something. I, and I think many other INTJs would agree, is that we are actually quite open. But we don't choose to interact when we don't see any point in it. So it has to be either other person's interest or that of our own. In an INTJ isn't interested in something then that's that. End of story.

[reinstern]

I'm an INTJ and have problems open up, even with the guy I like. And this is because of he is "friends dependent", he talks everything with them even the time I told him I like him. Then gossips start and I don't like being the center of attention, I wish he was a little more reserved, I have a lot of doubts about this. What if we date and I do or said something 'wrong', he have many friends that can make my life miserable and even know were I live, I have nobody 🤔🤔
But I want to give him an opportunity, I looks to be good on the surface but I find hard to trust him.

[growin]

How do I get my ENFP wife of 28 years to open up. Signed desperate INTJ