How To Attract An INTJ (Romantic Deep Dive)

This video explains the top 3 things to know when attracting an INTJ for a romantic relationship.

INTJ Explains 5 Reasons Why We're Single:

INTJ Cognitive Function Love Story:

00:00 Introduction
01:17 Does Looks Matter?
03:43 Video Outline
04:13 Section 1: Show Us The Real You
11:33 Section 2: Persistence & Patience
24:43 Section 3: Be Understanding
31:03 Conclusion

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[sirid]

A video of how to attract an INTJ and most audience are INTJ themselves trying to figure out why anyone would want to date us😂

[MrRager]

I've ghosted more people than I can count for being fake and/or predicting red flags. Sure, I hate being lonely, who doesn't. But it's pointless to let myself get into a situation that I'm not comfortable in or can't see the potential.

[PaleGhost]

21:00
"Huh... That was a weird interaction..."
3 Days Later...
"OMFG SHE WAS FLIRTING"

[knnorman]

I married an INTJ. The first few months in the relationship he already proposed to me, I'm an ENTP. We are in our 15th year of our relationship now 💕

[hn]

Wow, as a female INTJ, I can say you really nailed it from the female INTJ perspective as well. Really well done.

[bruschetta]

As an INTJ woman, I feel naked. This is too true and accurate. And my alarm bell in my head is screaming now: "this can be used against you!!!"

[RobinHWebb-pdlw]

INTJs must be able to foresee a sustainable future with someone before they'll commit. Patience & persistence are key. Don't press before they're ready. Once in, they're all in.

[coalscribe]

I’m an ENFP and I met an INTJ, sure he likes his space but he’s not emotionally distant.
It takes an evolved ENFP to understand that they appreciate being told what you like and don’t and if you don’t mind asking for affection, you’ll love INTJs cuz they learn all about you and if they’re into you, you’d be surprised about how much they care and the smallest of gestures. They express through everything but words so you have to be super observant and you’ll melt like butter.

[falstaff]

As an INTJ I suffered from the usual social awkwardness and a lack of confidence in social situations. In order to overcome feeling or appearing vulnerable in public, I studied body language and acting for several years. I was able to develop a friendlier, open public persona which I employed to attract and evaluate potential mates (and friends) while revealing little. The chosen few who were perceptive enough to notice and patient enough to find out more were my people. This method was highly effective in vetting others with minimal drama and emotional risk. I successfully married and have a wonderful family as a result.

[jimmywoolever]

In case you're wondering how oblivious INTJ's can be when it comes to someone showing interest in us, I present to you:
My coworker, referring to someone i was working next to for two hours: "OMG, she was SO flirting with you!"
Me, an INTJ: "Who?"

[svncerity]

Hi I’m an INTJ and I almost cried twice during this video because I feel seen. I ended a long term relationship because the trust was completely broken, and the worst part was how violated I felt because I had opened myself up emotionally to them, only to have them betray me in the end. It has prevented me from being able to even entertain dating since, and it’s been almost 3 years. Ok, so I did end up crying. It’s just nice to hear my internalized thoughts properly voiced.

[karebear]

As an INFJ the "not responding right away" i can relate so much, it feels like a chore when we arent in our right mindset to answer. We don't do it on purpose but being social is work, we get tired after, we need to mentally recharge and can totally relate to not answering right away.

[cl]

INTJ’s seem cold and aloof externally, but nothing could be further from the truth..although they may not show their emotions they can be quite emotional because of their Fi (heart of gold).

[kennethheres]

As an INTJ, I stare mostly at people and analyze them to know their personality. Just like Sun Tzu says "Know yourself and the enemy". (By meaning of "enemy" doesn't mean the root of conflict, but to understand the other person)

[markr]

Agreed, fake will get you ignored. People dont realize how transparent they are, please dont do that, just be you. I can be ok with lots of traits, just not hiding things from me, and nothing goes deeper than who you rely are.

[grinningdarling]

I married one and have 3 INTJ best friends and close friends. I feel like they are the one who chase and trap me lol. I dunno why since I am very flawed and have a lot of personal tasks to overcome. However, I really appreciate it. They always wanna help and they are very fluffy. But not to other people. When an INTJ wants you around, they are smooth. Everything is accelerated but in a way that is stealthy. One time they are cool and distant, some time in your life, you spend most days with them and you's be like "Wait... when did this happen?"

[Brandon-ioyj]

I (a Hispanic male ISFJ) have been courting a INTJ black girl for almost a year now dear lord is this accurate to the T. Besides one part with my INTJ she wanted to break up with me not because anything I did but she felt the code of honor I gave to her was better used on other women, I talked to her and we immediately got back together . I love this woman drearily and she has put me through a lot to get to this point with her. We had a powerful moment one night and it was the heaven I was looking for with her she was FAR MORE interested than I had thought, that night I had never felt so complete before in my life. Everything was perfect, for a few hours I was the center of her universe and she was mine. I reply that night over and over again and want more. But she has fears about fully committing because of the unknowns of becoming a wife, mom etc... THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO IT HELPS ME SO MUCH!!!! I will keep enduring because she is the best and I will not settle for less

[eena_na_ve]

Only one advice from an intj: JUST BE YOURSELF

[justcallmejon]

Hi Everyone!

It's only been a day since I released this video and it's one of the better performing videos on my channel! I'm so glad to see that you are all enjoying it because I was afraid that nobody would want to watch a video at this length. My original edit was over an hour long so I had to remove a few content which I'll probably address in later videos. It's also always nerve wrecking talking about INTJ and emotions because each person feels emotions differently that I hope I didn't alienate anyone for saying something that is unrelatable. I hope you all know that my content is based mostly on my personal truth and it's okay if it's different from yours.

Thanks you all for the support! I really appreciate it ❤
- Jon

[DiscordOfDave]

I found out midway through our relationship that my ex would completely change her opinions to suit whoever was around her, while simultaneously looking down on most people as sheep. I’ve never been more turned off in my entire life.