4 Issues That Drive Narcissists Crazy

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Life does not fight neatly into grooves. Right? But try telling that to a narcissist. With their high need for control, narcissists struggle to come to terms with the uniqueness of each person. Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter pinpoints 4 unique issues that keep narcissists off their game, driving them deeper into their manipulative patterns. He also highlights ways for you to maintain your freedom as you choose a healthier alternative path, maintaining a deep appreciation for the uniqueness of each individual.

Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas. Tx. In the past 39 years he has conducted over 60,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars.

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[karinpewe]

Knowledge about personality disorders should be taught at school, it would prevent so much misery and suffering.

[galeretacco]

I’ve lived with a narcissist for over forty years and it wasn’t until I “didn’t care” what they thought, that I was able to free myself.

[kimlarsson]

A narcissist demands loyalty, but shows absolutely no loyalty to you.

[Crow-sjsf]

If you break a narcissist, It seems they begin to fear you because you become a threat to them which they can not beat, scare, intimidate or control. They absolutely hate that.

[jamiecosenza]

I have one more:
Just because you don’t value me, in no way means I’m worthless.

[nikoknightpuppetproduction]

4 things narcissistic lack: kindness, peace, compassion and love.

[danielfinch]

When I finally built up the courage to leave a narcissist, I had to figure out who I was again.

[pierreklee]

We have a serious breakdown in morals when we have so many narcissists in our society.

[honeybee]

My calmness in all situations drove him absolutely insane. He'd get livid.

[tbd]

If you want someone to stop playing with you, stop playing.
Don’t engage.

[nancyfralick]

Someone told me "Observe, don't Obsorb" go quiet, don't fight....when you finally decide to leave they don't know what hit them. Plan a good plan. But they look for a new source of energy in a hurry, because they constantly need their ego stroked. Get out, don't walk, run. It takes at least 5 years of mental healing, to get back to rights. Just so you don't meet another Narc, and go though that crazy again. Don't be a victim be a warrior, it's your life live it.

[christinabryant]

narcissists don't compromise, at all, while complaining about having to compromise, or work as a team. They think everyone should accommodate THEM.

The only way to handle a narcassist is to run and disappear out of their lives.

[grahamstoney]

I love: “I will define myself from the inside out”

[carolynfranklin]

I was married to a narcissist and almost went, literally, crazy. Everything I did was wrong. He'd tell me to do something and the vehemently deny he did. Eventually he divorced me for a younger woman and then wanted me back...on, NO! I was FREE, and loving every second of it!!

[djrdjr]

The longer you go "no contact", the more you will see the narc for who they are. Their mask has slipped, which is why you are on this page. But when you go NC, the narc will resort to the only thing they know. Their mask will come completely off and you will see them as the poisonous, unreasonable, and disturbed person they are. The person you thought they were initially never existed. Accept it and reward yourself. You slayed the beast by going no contact. It is the only solution and deep down we all know it.

[ewie]

4 issues to drive the narcissist crazy: Strong boundaries.Taking the focus off them. Discarding them before they could get new supply. Real love and care.

[loripeters]

I used to say, "I don't play games." But now I have realized I'm in the game whether I like it or not. Now I have tools and strategies to stand firm against being pulled onto their stage.
Thank you Dr Carter, you are making the world a better place for so many of us on the path to becoming fuller, richer people, anchoring down in calm firmness and peace. God bless you.

[toonu]

No joke. It's as if they're demonically possessed. The closest I can describe it.

[TheWuwucela]

It’s unbelievable how a person is able to willingly deal this amount of soul destroying damage.