9 Positive Autistic Traits (that you may not already know!) | Patrons Choice

There are character traits that are not usually seen as common behaviours of people with autism. In this video, we'll discuss 9 autistic traits that are actually positive character traits and are very common in autistic adults. Some autistic traits are often misunderstood but you will see from this video that they can be an asset in autistic adults.

TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Intro
1:19 - Attention to detail
2:41 - Being Persistent
4:10 - Being Creative
4:58 - Being Honest
7:16 - Being Non-Judgemental
9:18 - Being Loyal
10:25 - Being Highly Empathic
13:09 - Extremely Flexible
14:43 - Strong Sense of Justice
15:58 - The Most Important Lesson

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// WELCOME TO ASPERGERS FROM THE INSIDE!!

My name is Paul and I discovered I have Aspergers at age 30.

Yes, I know, I don't look autistic. That's exactly why I started this blog, because if I didn't show you, you would never know.

As the name suggests, this channel is devoted to giving you insight into the world of Aspergers.
This blog started off being just my story, but I've learned SO MUCH about my own condition
from meeting others on the Autism Spectrum that now I make sure to feature their stories as well.

I've come a long way in my own personal journey.
Now I'm sharing what I've found so you don't have to learn it the hard way too.

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// WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THIS BLOG

You can expect me to get to the point with concise useful information.
I focus on what is most important and don't shy away from difficult topics.

The best way to learn about Autism is to see it in real life ( i.e. via the stories of many, many people on the spectrum).

In this channel I endeavour to show you what Autism and Aspergers look like in real people and to also give you some insight as to what's happening on the inside.
I upload a new video every weekend with some bonus content thrown in mid-week too.
There's always new stuff coming through so be sure to check back and see what you've missed. (Is this where I'm supposed to tell you to hit that subscribe button?)

Topics Include:
- What is Aspergers/Autism?
- Aspie Tips, coping strategies, and advice on common issues
- Learning Emotional Intelligence (this is my special interest!)
- Autism in real life: stories from special guests

Everything I do is and endeavour to go deeper and take you 'behind the scenes' to understand what may, at first glance, seem 'odd'.
oh, and I love busting stereotypes and turning preconceptions upsidedown :)

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// ABOUT ME

I discovered I have aspergers at the age of thrity.
It has been my life's mission to understand these funny creatures we call humans.
My special interest is a combination of emotional intelligence, psychology, neuroscience, thinking styles, behaviour, and motivation. (I.e. what makes people tick)
My background is in engineering and I see the world in systems to be analysed.
My passion is for taking the incredibly complex, deciphering the pattern, and explaining it very simply.
My philosophy is that blogging is an adventure best shared.

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// EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE TRAINING

I also run autism friendly online emotional intelligence training. So if you like my direct, systematic style, and would like to improve your own emotional intelligence skills, check it out here:

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// CONTACT

Blogging is an adventure best shared which means I'd love to hear from you!
Feel free to leave me a comment or send me and email at any time and I'll do my best to respond promptly.

Thanks for reading and I hope you enjoy this channel!
I look forward to hearing from you!

Peace,

~Paul

[tickledcynic]

"I often forget to respect hierarchical power structures" . . . I ought to have that printed on all my T-shirts xD

[tris]

The empathy trait is how I figured out I'm autistic. I used to think I was horrible at reading people because how I Felt them feeling didn't match the words they would say. It took me nearly 30 years to figure out that I should trust my gut because people frequently lie. It still boggles my mind. If I say I'm fine, I mean it. If someone asks me if I'm angry, and I am, I answer truthfully. It doesn't really make sense to me that socially I'm the one being weird.

[traceycrawford]

“I actually NAME the elephant in the room that everyone else knew wasn’t supposed to be talked about”. Well said!! 👍👍🐘

[Blackpink_kpop_lover]

1. Attention to detail
2. Being persistent
3. Being creative
4. Being honest
5. Being non-judgemental
6. Being loyal
7. Being highly empathetic
8. Extremely flexible
9. Strong sense of justice

[hamzahargrave]

I love it when the silver linings of autism get discussed, it's such a confidence boost.

[spbmezzo]

I just found out I'm on the spectrum; watching videos like this makes me feel like I've found my equals, my lost family. I feel a lot less lonely, and everything's making sense now. Thank you so much

[johncartwright]

My grandson was diagnosed as autistic about 14 years ago. My daughter once told me he got it from me which annoyed me at the time. Since then I think my son also has autism but, like me, he hasn't been diagnosed. When I first realised I fitted 90%of the criteria for autism I rang the autistic association for help. I was told that I've lived with it for more than 60 years and have obviously learned coping mechanisms and it was too late for help. Once I accepted I was probably atheistic many things in my life fell into place. Of all the things you mentioned in the video I can relate to al but one. My pet peeves are injustice, dishonesty and needless secrecy! Keep up the good work for poor 72 year old folks like me.

[shasita]

I've noticed my co-workers tend to tell me things they're not comfortable telling others. Sometimes even on first meeting someone we are talking about heavy subjects such as their childhood trauma's or their struggle with having a loved one who is dying of cancer. I think my honesty and me being non-judgmental helps people open up to me. I like being open and honest with people.

[JeanieD]

The “weakness” side of all of those traits sounds EXACTLY like a list of my faults according to everyone who I’ve had difficulty dealing with in my life, especially in workplaces.

[SusanCallHutchison]

You have just described the exact things I love about my autistic husband. We have been married since 1978 - and I respect and admire him, though there are things I have had to learn to accept about his unique way of communicating and behaving. I was originally attracted to his honesty and sense of justice, and that integrity has made a wonderful difference in our life path together. I don't expect him to be "like everyone else." With him, I know who I'm with, and I know that what he says, he means. We make a good team, because I can be the one who sees the big picture and picks up on social cues - but he can incisively identify the basic truth that so often remains unspoken, unless he speaks it.

[lisalonge]

I almost started crying at Wrong Planet Syndrome. I actually asked my mom if I was an alien when I was a kid. I even had an alien themed birthday party to make me feel "more at home."

[daphniefarkas]

Having no filter, being brutally honest, and not understanding that I can't talk to my boss the same way that I would talk to a coworker has never ended well for me.

[raindropsonroses]

People tell me I can’t be autistic because I’m not blunt and I’m empathetic. I’m also a nurse. It upsets me that this is a stereotype

[outdoorlovecookinggf]

YES! Im told how if someone says “how are you?” they aren’t asking you to tell them how you are they want you to just say “fine” thats a social norm. If you say “I dont feel good today” that is not the right answer socially

[jrbp]

That point about "being stubborn" because I dont accept answers of "because i said so" "thats how the world works" "you have to do ____ in life" makes sense to me now. I never knew why i was such a "stubborn child" until now/recently that ive realized i am very very likely autistic. Thank you Paul.

[gabriellahardy]

My favourite autistic trait is to be able to think in images. With the right music, I can almost get emotional with what my mind sees. I think it is absolutely beautiful.

[mysticr]

I'm 38 and until I saw a couple of your vids last week I have never heard anyone talk about the small things that make me who I am. I thought I was alone and weird.

[qmachado]

Whoa! Everything you described was dead center. What I didn’t expect you to say was “Strong Sense of Justice” WOWED by that! I’ve always hated people getting away for mistreatment of others and the way injustice is in today’s society. I always thought that was just the way I felt. I never imagined this was an actual autistic trait. Good video thanks 🙏

[anitajohnson]

We should all concentrate on everyone’s positives instead of kicking them for their negatives. No one is perfect. Everyone is needed. Everyone has a place in this world.
❤️

[indoorgirlgoescamping]

My teen son was diagnosed last year. I see all of these positive traits in him. Such a good kid, trustworthy with a great sense of judgement and empathy. Thank you for sharing!