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You'll Never Find the Perfect Partner
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You'll never find the perfect partner. Don't worry, it's more positive than you think!
We're obsessed with romanticism, believing that we must try find our soulmate, or "the one" destiny has in store for us. This rigid ideal of the perfect partner is damaging our dating lives.
00:00 The harsh truth
01:32 My old ideals
02:42 Why 'Perfect' isn't the best
03:06 Only friends can be flawed
04:57 When the flame goes out
05:57 Settling for less
07:27 Imperfection is positive
08:00 Love is hard work?
We should focus on self improvement and being a better partner instead of fitting someone else into our strict standards. Too much romanticism creates disappointment, heartbreak, frustration and higher rates of divorce. The perfect person for you might not have all the traits you expect - in fact, it's often true that opposites attract. We can't choose who we love at first, but when the initial spark and flame you first felt with your loved one starts to fade . . . that's when love is a choice. The perfect boyfriend or girlfriend isn't someone who fits your fantasies or ideals, they're someone who loves you despite your flaws and puts in effort to make the relationship work.
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I'm Emmy Hucker, a 19 year old Kiwi with an aim to capture honest stories, explore ideas through an impartial lens and cultivate a global community to share experiences with!
We're obsessed with romanticism, believing that we must try find our soulmate, or "the one" destiny has in store for us. This rigid ideal of the perfect partner is damaging our dating lives.
00:00 The harsh truth
01:32 My old ideals
02:42 Why 'Perfect' isn't the best
03:06 Only friends can be flawed
04:57 When the flame goes out
05:57 Settling for less
07:27 Imperfection is positive
08:00 Love is hard work?
We should focus on self improvement and being a better partner instead of fitting someone else into our strict standards. Too much romanticism creates disappointment, heartbreak, frustration and higher rates of divorce. The perfect person for you might not have all the traits you expect - in fact, it's often true that opposites attract. We can't choose who we love at first, but when the initial spark and flame you first felt with your loved one starts to fade . . . that's when love is a choice. The perfect boyfriend or girlfriend isn't someone who fits your fantasies or ideals, they're someone who loves you despite your flaws and puts in effort to make the relationship work.
🌹 INSTAGRAM:
🌹 SUPPORT ME ON KO-FI:
🌹 WHAT I'M ABOUT
I'm Emmy Hucker, a 19 year old Kiwi with an aim to capture honest stories, explore ideas through an impartial lens and cultivate a global community to share experiences with!
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