How to stop being needy and getting attached too quickly #psychology #anxiousattachment

[arneallemeersch]

I try so hard not to get attached too soon but it somehow keeps happening and then when they decide to remove themselves out of my life all of the sudden, without telling me, I feel so lost and depressed. I'n trying my best to work on it but nothing seems to help to not get too attached too quickly. I don't like being needy and sensitive but I can't seem to change it.

[tanya_the_hat_girl]

Hmm... I don't have parents anymore. So... Nobody can love me that much. I think that's why i get so attached to... Almost everyone.

[OfficialDarkSoulMusic]

This is way easier said than done. Especially coming from a woman who can't possibly understand what it's like to be a guy in the dating world. Humans need love. And how do you show and receive love? By opening up, being vulnerable, and getting attached. It's a catch-22. There is no real answer to this problem. It's all just Russian Roulette at the end of the day.

[sushobhanghosh]

Pretty true Ma'am.Actually, we should not be addicted to anything and what's more important is we shouldn't devote much time to activities which doesn't brings value to our life.

[mgtow]

Thank you Francesca. You can say so much in so few minutes.

[sundance]

WOW! All the money I spent on therapists, only to discover during a tough phase currently, that someone explains this so I can understand it. As well as a solution.
Thanks, dear.🥰

[MrBurkistan]

It's easy to SAY these things, like going into a relationship being full instead of needing someone, but lonliness is at an all time high and it's difficult not to manifest an overly attached personality around a partner, if people who seem interested in you seem like a scarce resource and you're someone who's used to being alone.

[marcvincentvillapa]

I realized I was abandoned, not really but it was the kind of feeling I get when I was younger, now I will give lots of attention to myself

[lavatr]

Actually I won't kill my inner child because and as a Guy we basically are children, we just have to act strong because of the society...
Also hitting the gym really helps me ....I love and appreciate myself more instead of looking for validation.

[jasmin]

Very enlightening that being needy comes from not getting your needs met. That sound much less judging! 😊

[PutYourselfInLace]

Here’s my issue though, I feel like necessity and desire bring similar feelings. I feel like when you’re starving it’s because of the necessity to eat. But I feel when you desire something it can feel similar to starving without it. So even if I go into a relationship “full”, the second desire kicks in, I’m doomed anyways because I feel that same hunger.

[lolitabb]

Well, I pamper myself all the time and give myself good times, but I still crave love from another person.. It's just not something you can give to yourself.

[erickt]

God bless this gro, you the light 💡 of this world 🌎😎👍

[Oneorangejuice]

I agree with you. I do that.
We generally want, yet thats semantics we want someone to meet what we are and obviously what we also need, and say the reverse it's unreal. To want is to manifest a will, that comes from a decision yet the base its not always rational, its an animal ( and that's the more genuine ) not an idilical ultra rational projection of what others expect or want us to be or feel more confortable with, and all that is very subjective as out of nomenclatures.
What is to need ?
What is a inner child ?

[prateekshyadewasi]

Ever experienced having the least or no love of your own parents since childhood? Ig nothing will make you crave for love and attachments more than that!

[blackrook]

everything in life is easier said than done. all takes practice. im a bit clingy i get attached quickly. i guess its my up bringing of having things done for me too much.

[ReginaldJamalPettway]

God will Bless you all with the right Partner be patient.

[xxChacaronXX]

Our brains are so powerful that we can imagine the image of an orange in our head and it pops up.. we can imagine the taste and sent of it too..

Get yourself a pillow and imagine you’re hugging someone! It works! Imagination can be used in our favour or against us! :)

[surrealstr]

Can u please do a video about why although sometimes we don't get treated with respect we still want to be with that a person and even tho deep down we know its wrong our desire to have them makes it hard to move on

[anonymousgara]

Thank you, may God bless you and everyone. ❤