6 Real Signs That Your Ex Is Over You For Good

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6 Real Signs That Your Ex Is Over You For Good
In this video we’re going to discuss;
Sign #1 – Permanent Behavior Changes
Sign #2 – Ignoring You For 66 Days In A Row
Sign #3 – They Have Been With Someone Else For More Than 8 months
Sign #4 – They Take All Of Their Things Back
Sign #5 – Shallow Conversations
Sign #6 – Their Words And Actions Align

Sign #1 – Permanent Behavior Changes
So, if you were speaking to your ex daily and all of a sudden it stops and spying on your ex on Facebook maybe they liked some things online and because of the break up they’re no longer doing things like that. After the break up you may find your ex is on a pendulum swing from one extreme behavior to another. What you need to look for in an ex who is over you for good their behavior will be consistent. If they do not go back to how they used to do things regarding communication with your family friends and you. How they remain uninterested after the break up that’s a bad sign.

Sign #2 – Ignoring You For 66 Days In A Row
Have you ever wondered to yourself how long it takes to make or break a habit?

A simple search on google will tell you something like 21 days, but it’s actually 66 days where you can form or break a habit. So, when we explain to clients that they need to do a No Contact straight after the break up and we recommend that you don’t speak to your ex for a maximum of 45 days. If you reach out to your ex and they ignore you for 66 days they will be out of the habit of talking to you. If you don’t speak to your ex, for average 30 days that’s ok because it’s still within that 66 day rule. So, when was the last time you spoke to your ex?

Sign #3 – They Have Been With Someone Else For More Than 8 months
Not so long ago I did a video about rebounds and how long they last, now on average a rebound relationship will last anywhere between 4 to 6 months. Now anything that is over the 8 month mark is where you will find that your ex is getting over you and moving on with this new person.

Sign #4 – They Take All Of Their Things Back
We all know that the item exchange is the stereotypical interaction you are bound to have with your ex after the break up. Now what we find is that an ex will sometimes hold on to something of yours or they’ll leave something behind that is an excuse for another meet up. Where if they take all things and give all your items back they are making sure there is not a reason to meet up again.

Sign #5 – Shallow Conversations
Not all conversations are going to have an in-depth conversation, but when we’re talking with an ex not all conversations are going to be like that. When you’re looking at situations where an ex is over it and doesn’t want to deal with you anymore, doesn’t want a relationship with you anymore you will find that shallow conversations become consistent. When you're texting your ex and they're giving you one-word answers, not responding quickly or at all.

Sign #6 – Their Words And Actions Align
I am a big believer in how people’s words and actions need to align. I can’t tell you how many people I have worked with that exes have said things in the heat of the moment said things, such as I don’t love you anymore, we are never getting back together. Only for their actions to prove they didn’t mean those words. What matters most is a personas actions, what they do. If their actions align with their words. If their words and actions done align, their actions tend to show what they are really thinkikng.

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It’s been 2 months of no contact. He didn’t reach out, so I’m moving on. Otherwise I will go crazy.

margaritam.
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Update: the new girl he left me for is now engaged with him. Going on 4months with them together and now their engaged. NC did not work at all. The day when we broke it off I did NC. Now the results...4 months later still with the chick he left me for and their "happily engaged" and getting married in July. Hes a dog. Went from being with me for 4 yeaes to His ex wife. Than years later back to me for 6months than to the new chick right after the break up and engaged after 4months with her. I dont want him back just mad I wasted my time

katiehostetler
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I no longer want my ex back. I want someone new

moonlightstargem
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You had my attention tonight Chris this is a good one that you did

angelasperanza
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quick acting like an ex is the only option you have. stop saying not a good sign if an ex is over you. there are over 3.3 billion women on this earth. find a new one and try to make it work. better treat an ex like an old piece of junk that needs to go to the junkyard and go get a new car. everyone is happy with new things in their lives.

marksmusicplace
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he is split right down the middle. half his actions indicate he still wants me, the other half show that he loved his new girl, half his words say that he wishes he never broke up with me (exact words: I wish I never broke up with you) but the other half say that he wants to continue his new relationship. and ideas on what to do? anyone?

psychoticdarkangel
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What about if they are in a rebound. Do we do no contact for a specific time???

seanking
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He broke up with me getting to two month now, he doesn't call unless he saw my missed calls. And didn't block me

soniathomas
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Why my ex said "THANK YOU for making me realize that money is important"? Any one who can explain please.. Thank you

seheiah
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She cheated on me. And I assume she left me for that person.but for some reason I still want her to come back... Who's responsibility is it to try and fix things

artysmotorsports
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Is it still possible to get them back even if they’re over you for good?

peppermintcookie
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hi chris what if he moved on with someone else..? Its not a rebound and is real..? He loves her quirks..
he said she's better then me..and he's happier..he even blocked me for her..please help
Also we're lomg distance..and they're there physically together
He took things slow with her and our past relationship is like 90% fights..his actions are aligned..he even think its cute that she gets insecure..what shoulf i do..can i even win him back..? (Sorry if you saw my spam i'm just panicking a bit here)

mari-qlon
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My ex takes 1-2 months then texts me and is with someone else they been together since 11-30-19 so its gonna be 5 months going on 6 so why does he keep me there smh hes so dumb abd always told me he would get back with me in the future smh..

lexxi
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also if an ex reaches this point if I continue with UG and Holy Trinity would there be anyway of attracting them back?

jodypatstone
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Hey Chris, I like your videos a lot. Me and my ex have a long history we were together for 7 months but I made a mistake it was all my fault just talking to another guy on instagram. I didn’t mean anything by it but I do take full responsibility. My ex did leave stuff at my house and I gave him stuff that he has at his house he kept them for all I know, and he still talks to me also his actions are not the same as what he says, he says he’s still in Love with me he just doesn’t trust me

MsLinzoo
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What about a birthday gift from her, should I return it ?... please share your opinion on this

felixvega
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Doesn't make any sense in my situation. Long distance and with an avoided.

DancinqtheDream
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Just had an advert for George Michael song freedom before this video started the irony of it all 😂🤣😂🤣😂

cuteandfluffypikachu
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Chris if I have had mini talks such as we got back together then broke up again within 2 weeks of the first break up then I started NC and this was Broken once at 10 days but preceved negativly how does that fall in on the 66 days? I know i have one of my ex's movies but he hasn't pushed for it is this a good thing? when he demanded i come get my stuff he gave me back more stuff than what was mine.. When we were wroking things out he woldn't answer texts, i would take that as a bad thing on his part? what does it mean if he starts deleting me off social netwroks?

jodypatstone
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104 days not anything. LDR unblocked a couple of hours to block again. He sent my rings back but not the things I asked for. He said he had no trust in me. And that was it! Dumped and blocked. I have no closure and I am finally letting go. Will he EVER talk to me?

carrieberry