Why am I still obsessed?

Are you obsessed with getting your romance back on track? Here’s why your partner is frustrating you so, and how to handle the desperate need to try over and over to recapture the first blissful days of togetherness.

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[nunya]

I'm going to listen to this one many times until I accept reality.

[homeworldmusic]

"you can literally be chasing them for years" So good to hear someone else say that: so, it isn't just me?!

[veronicasimone]

"some people can only dance in the fantasy" a hard pill to swallow but hey, I'm just very grateful to experience that unique feeling at that moment of time.

[gauravkhanna]

You understand human emotions so well...

[danherrin]

It's a battle between the mind (logic, reality) and heart (emotions, fantasy). Ugh!

[dd-pwtw]

Thinking “it was a moment in time” makes it easier to move on and stop obsessing, ,,
Especially appreciate you mentioning people who’ve passed over good potential partners to obsess over someone who can’t get past phase one~it’s that simple and life is short, ,,my dear fellow listeners we do NOT want to be that person!
I wish you great peace.

[Glock_Doc]

we always seem to want what we can’t have

[emerald]

Oh god I just want him out of my head it's breaking me

[ameerahrashada]

Hang in there all she is speaking truth you may feel hooked now but it gets better with time you will wake up one day and say l have got to let this shit go because it's blocking the blessings that are trying to come into my life LET THEM GO

[CorporateQueen]

'Can't do it, doesn't want to do it, failed me, hurt me, kind of came in like they would, failed me again' - Yep.

[timheidel]

I think that we have all gone through this. But until we get past that person you are obsessing about, you are not emotionally-available...to yourself, or others.

[AngryDutch]

I am going through a obssesion now for almost a year and all the things come with it. And I can tell one thing it's hard and it's horrible to go through it every day

[redkisses]

“Infatuation” is the hook/addiction. My heart still hurts, though, because I lost him

[sebsebseb]

I got over my obssesion when I realised there is nothing left from the person I was in love with. Everything changed about her, even the way sje looked. Having realised that I felt such a relief that I can not explain. The only sad thing is that moment in time was the best moment of my life and by that moment I mean 3 days.

[honeybucket]

I am in this. There's a term for it: euphoric recall! I feel insane sometimes. Thank you for your words. 💕

[DONTGET_SUNSCREEN]

I wrote down my Pros and Cons about the person I was crazy over and when Cons outweighed the Pros, I thought to myself:" Girl, What the eff were you obsessing over"? 😉
It hurts but you only got one go round in this life, live it and be happy and healthy!😘
Happy Holiday and if you don't celebrate the holiday or there's no holiday in your part of the world, sending love and health your way.💞

[vampireslayer]

"An unsustainable moment in time" is a good mental image. Thanks.

[shellenec]

Ive been suffering for a while now over a breakup, trying to figure out what I did wrong... I found your channel.... thank you. I did nothing wrong. The emotions and feelings Ive been having are normal, and I thank you so much. You have been very eye opening and my heart feels lighter and I feel as if your words were exactly what I needed.

[pracheechaudhary]

I never thought I would ever watch this video AGAIN. After getting my heart broke 2 years ago, I promised myself to not fall in love again. But this man came into my life and he was so promising, I decided to put down my guard and gave him a chance. And guess what? He abandoned me after the honeymoon phase. He said that his emotional baggage was too much to get in a relationship with me (and other excuses men give) and asked me to stay just friends.
I have cut off ties with him but I am still obsessed with him. Still hoping he would come because of the sake of good times.
After hearing this video, I know I should stop hoping and move on.

[mikeandmom]

Susan your videos are SO helpful! Instead of crying myself to sleep over him, I watch your videos and sleep more soundly..