WHY DO NARCISSISTS WANT TO HURT YOU?

#narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissisticrage Why do narcissists want to hurt you? Why do they hurt the people that love them and care about them? There are many layers to this and more than one reason that they feel justified in destroying the very people that would do anything for them.

Here is contact information for when immediate help with abuse or self harm is needed. It is recommended that you use a computer or phone that your abuser cannot monitor:

Emergency: 911
National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone]
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
National Hopeline Network: 1-800-SUICIDE (800-784-2433)
Crisis Text Line: Text "DESERVE" TO 741-741
Self-Harm Hotline: 1-800-DONT CUT (1-800-366-8288)
YWCA - 202-467-0801
Canadian Assaulted Women's Helpline: 1-866-863-0511
UK National Domestic Abuse Hotline: [phone]
South Africa POWA: 011 642 434/6
Australia: 1-800-RESPECT

[theresamorello]

The trouble with narcissists is that they believe everything they think.

[deedee]

They can’t control their tempers, anger and emotions..

[normatobin]

Its evil...I think they are possessed.

[deedee]

Exactly, no matter what they’ll still harass

[MrRodQ]

Problem with narcissists, they'll pursue you to dump their shit on. So you've got to kick them to the curb till they find something else shiny to pursue.

[PeterShaw-neyq]

Clearly we are dealing with a young child in an adult body🤔

[emmarae]

We broke the promise to be an never ending emotional punching bag, a way station for them to dump their toxicity onto.

[lisarochwarg]

They're actually mad at their own narcissistic parents. And they hate themselves.

Well, the hate has to go somewhere (besides to themselves or to their parents; that's a little too close to the bone). It goes to a partner or child.

[lacherub]

Everyone says "hurt people hurt people" and for narcs to be the way they are, they've probably been very badly hurt in the past. And while I know we should try to be sympathetic, I can never understand how you can inflict pain on a person when you yourself know what it feels like. So as much as I try, I can never be completely sympathetic towards them. Thanks for another informative video.

[Susan-Phoenix]

Clearly, Ive seen him throw my phone and break it. He also broke my dinning room chair. F that narc. Glad he’s out of my house.

[andreeavulpe]

I’ve watched everything narcissism related, from Dr. Ramani to Sam Vankin, but what you are saying in this video is the most relatable to my experience.

[jmfs]

It's sadly a self-fulfilling prophecy of a narcissist. You behave like an autonomous human, this upsets their entitlement, which makes them feel insecure, which makes them lash out to reclaim what "belongs" to them, and then you push back, which upsets their entitlement, which makes them feel insecure, and so on.

[rosalynjolly]

They want to be remembered nobody want them around want a be somebody important

[NewCreationInGod]

Absolutely- everything you said is correct

[Inkironnrum]

Described what I went through word for word. How you articulate narcissistic behavior is spot ok.

[GlitteranGold]

It just surprises me so much that narcissists are created by abuse. It’s literally so shocking that since a person got abused over and over again they now turn to zero empathy they turn cold toxic and they repeat an abusive cycle onto others. It’s so messed up and wrong. Can anyone make it make sense I don’t think anyone truly can.

[kingsagenda]

I try to explain this even to myself and I can't find the words.

[funkymonk]

Believe what they do and not what they say

[Lovewood]

Reactive abuse & a deliberate effort to cause any reaction for their behaviour is sick.

[PeterShaw-neyq]

A very good point you made that their disorder started early in their life and has become their illogical life script, so to speak🤔