Re-Parenting - Part 24 - Failure

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Every child fails. Failure is part of life and learning. But for people who grew up in Complex Trauma, failure was never a good thing. Nothing good came out of failure. So, re-parenting oneself requires learning to respond to their own failures in healthy ways, so that they become positive learning experiences.

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[kathy]

I feel very grateful and blessed that I am getting all this help from this extraordinary man. God bless you, Tim. 🙏❤️

[charlysteenstevens]

My cousin Ed and I lived in different households but both were highly dysfunctional. He felt like such a failure, a no good person, that by the age of 18 he killed himself. He couldn't stand the notion of failing as an adult as well.

I chose a different route. I got involved with men who didn't care about me. I had nothing to lose, or so I thought. If they didn't love me then it just didn't matter like it would have if they had. That was the strategy (on an unconscious level) and of course it wasn't a winning one. There's been decades upon decades of pain.

[dianeorr]

Life Saving content for those of. CPTSD. Grateful of Tim and Team. Y'all help us into.our authenticity.

[rebeccaconn]

I so love all of these videos … each one of them brings me more understanding and more healing. I especially love the “Christian parts” … Tim’s explanations of these biblical stories truly help me see and feel more of Gods heart.❤️
Thank you Tim !!!!

[jeanetjensen]

Hi Tim 🙏🇩🇰👍 thanks for all the good videos. Its hard lisining, but very valubale. Thank you! And hello from copenhagen, denmark 🌍❣️😍

[lanishortsunshine]

Wow....Thank. You...Tim F.
This was very eye opening...for me...i appreciate these friday
Blessings to you and your family!

[dorismuggler]

I love how you explain everything in a way to understand easily. I just had a deep process after listening to your shame videos.
And this one is so eye opening too.
I did a lot of therapy and beeing trained in Biodynamic Breathwork and Trauma Release, but since I started understanding Narcissistic abuse and listening to your videos, more and more protecting defense layers can go.
Thank you so much for all this valuable information. 🙏

[createdpassion]

Wow learning about my righteousness IN CHRIST help me understand forgiveness

[miuthub]

Thank you Tim for your compassionate teachings

[lifeisbeautiful]

Thank you .. Thank you .. Thank you
My inner child is so grateful to you for changing the course of my life

[KiKi-teyd]

This helps me so much. I've been trapped in anger at an ex who really very badly wronged me, didn't act in loving and respectful ways to me.... many times over. I can't understand why he can't even face up to me with an apology. Gutless. Did he change? Nope.

[darialo]

Great message. I love the religious part, by the way. 🙏

[darialo]

Wow. Thank you for bringing this to light, Tim.

[shelteredsparrow]

Great take on Esther and the Jewish people

[animalliberationCLBB]

Best wishes from Germany! So helpful much Blessings Christin

[ilovemeforwhoiam]

In my childhood, when i failed at something, i went to my parents for some comfort. guess what.. that was the moment i tortured, criticised, verbally emotionally abused, and hurt 1000 folds more than the initial failure. Having mature and healthy parents is a blessing, which i never had

[irena]

Omg, this is exactly about my ex garbage husband, everything he is saying is exactly what he's done in our 30year of marriage. This has done so much damage to me and my children. I do feel sorry for the old man, I wish I never met him.

[rorrschach]

If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving is not for you.

[jolaola]

Lift programme and React program - where is this available ?

[awakenedreflections]

This was so very hard to watch, my life described to the smallest detail