INTJs love ENFJs: Relationship and Friendship Compatibility

This video discusses why INTJs love ENFJs in all aspects of relationships whether it's platonic friendships or romantic relationships.

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[justcallmejon]

Before anyone comments, the thumbnail with Obama and Joe Biden is a widely used meme and should be treated as such. I know that Obama is not an INTJ and Biden is not an ENFJ. It's just a funny picture guys!

[PaleGhost]

INTJ: Explains something, gives solution, no one cares.
ENFJ: Repeats it and everyone listens, solutions implemented

I appreciate all the enfjs that have helped me with that.

[MonaLisa-gtcx]

ENFJ female here.❤ My beloved late husband was an INTJ. We were so compatible in every way. We adored each other intensely. He went to Heaven last year/2023. I am lost without him😢. We had a fairytale romance for over 4 decades/43 years, and I can't wait to see him again. 😢❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this info. It is very accurate. God bless you❤❤ ❤

[notsogrimadventures]

I’m an ENFJ and my husband is an INTJ and we were laughing about how accurate this was 🤩

[lalaguill]

This is way too accurate! I'm an ENFJ happily non-married to an INTJ for 5 years, this is the most uncommon and deepest relationship I've ever had. The greatest and longer conversations have always been with my partner and I've noticed how much we've grown since we've first met. I've become a stronger and assertive person thanks to his honest insights, while he's learned patience and understanding with me (he still thinks the world is full of stupid people though, but we are working on that). INTJs are the most loyal, caring and smart people in the world once you have the chance to know them. They are more than the stereotypical "villains" in the movies, they are the heroes in the shadows. :)

[midnightlibra]

I dont know if someone has already said this, but one of the main things I found that I contribute to ENFJs is teaching them to have boundaries. ENFJs have such a difficult time with this. And most of the time, it's like they wake up and realize, "Oh wait a second. This person is abusing me." They are so happy to help and care for others, its all they see, like tunnel vision. They don't recognize the patterns of other people's behaviors. They are so warm, we learn a lot from each other. I dont mind watching their back and protecting them of they need me.

[ImmortalChaos]

INTJ-ENFJ is an underrate pairing. I experienced a great deal of personal growth because of an ENFJ's love; her strengths complimented my weaknesses.

[brobjoe]

I’m an INTJ My wife is a ENFJ … we are great together… 5 years married ! Your vid’s are on point!

[Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes]

"Every time INTJ open his mouth, he is seen as rude" It's true ! 😢 And after parents, school, people... complained about why I didn't talk, or see us as shy.
3:42 This meme is so relatable, I like the picture.🤣
Thank ENFJ, for noticed me and made me feel included and not rejected, at sport and school. It's easier to socialize when ENFJ is here,

[acelguevarra]

I'm an INTJ female with an ENFJ boyfriend. I find it annoying when he's trying to "cheer me up" when I'm completely fine and just trying to recharge.

[McLuvin]

I consider ENFJ INTJ to be a golden pairing. So underrated, I (ENFJ) am able to have the deepest of philosophical conversation with another human being (INTJ) and fully flesh out ideas. They have endurance unlike INFP and INTP who peter out, whereas INTJ can take ideas to their limit. Amazing pairing as friends or significant others.

[teresatung]

Finally I’ve been waiting for this video! as an ENFJ I find INTJ intriguing due to their analytical and logical approach to problem-solving, which in my opinion…can complement the ENFJ's warmth and empathy. And I am appreciated INTJ’s profound perspectives on everything and their help for leading me to be a healthier ENFJ😊

(Also thank you Jon! for letting us know how to attract an INTJ. That really helps a lot😆)

[vikki]

ENFJ-A Here: I've learned that introverts batteries get drained quickily if they are always being dragged out. When they are are quiet, I suggest a quiet place for them to be alone to recharge and I love seeing theirs light up. I leave them alone if they are very quiet as much as I want to ask whats up. I've learned the introverts like to figure things out on their own first before they can vocalize it. So I love giving them that space and know they will come to me when they are ready and recharged.

Excellent video ❤

[Chris-fndf]

Been married to my ENFJ wife for 23 years. Best relationship I have ever had, and that includes my loving and attentive parents.

[moneymanagement]

My coworker is an ENFJ he was able to climb his way to the top with his charisma alone in less than 3 months lol. He always asks my decisions and opinions on things. He said I give very honest and practical advice.

[exokitten]

Thank you and you nailed it!!✨🙌

I am an ENFJ and something I think is gravely under represented in so many MBTI videos is the fact that ENFJs highly value objective information that we might not necessarily agree with.

Even though our “super power” is connecting with people, we CRAVE differing opinions because it is a literal source of growth for us and an opportunity to potentially help growth in others.

You are so on point with how ENFJs use Fe with Ni for lessons. Our Fe supercharges our Ni!✨

ENFJ 🤜🤛 INTJ

[Clueless]

I am a true, mature and balanced ENFJ, and I love INTJs! I have been blessed to have a couple of them in my life as close friends...So the feeling is mutual, you are the BEST! I ADMIRE YOU!😉

[Manicpixiedreamer]

I found your channel in search of helping an INTJ as an ENFJ therapist… this video is very encouraging, thank you!

[hfortenberry]

INTJ here and I agree. I love ENFJs (and yes, more than ESFJs). ENFJs just get me and I appreciate that SO MUCH! Also, those memes are hilarious by the way! LOL

[CJK]

I’m an ENFJ and my husband is an INTJ and we feel so seen from this entire video! Accurate 🎯