Why do so many Fear Failure? #shorts - Shadé Zahrai

We’re almost wired to avoid failure. Why? Because it threatens our sense of belonging. ⁣
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Let me explain…⁣
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When you ‘fail’ at something, you’re often not even that concerned about the ‘failing’ part, and instead entirely concerned with these things:⁣
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What will other people think of me?⁣
What if they think I’m dumb?⁣
What if they think I’m a fool?⁣
What if it ruins my reputation?⁣
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It’s all outwardly focussed… ego-driven… ⁣
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Quite simply, it’s because we take ‘failure’ as a form of social rejection…⁣
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And rejection hurts!⁣
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But if you allow your fear of failure to hold you back, it’ll keep you stuck. ⁣
It’ll keep you frustrated & stagnant.⁣
It’ll keep you WISHING you could live the life you dream of, while convincing you that you’re not capable of it.⁣
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In my latest video I share some of the most common reasons why you might fear failure, why that fear is is trying to protect you and keep you safe (it’s true!), and powerful mindset shifts to work through it so it doesn’t hold you back. ⁣
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Because, if you don’t address it, it WILL sabotage your your relationship, your career progression & your happiness.⁣
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So… What’s your relationship with FAILURE? 👇⁣
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⁣Research:
Eisenberger, N. I., Lieberman, M. D., & Williams, K. D. (2003). Does rejection hurt? An fMRI study of social exclusion. Science, 302(5643), 290-292.

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DISCLAIMER - Obviously this isn't the ONLY reason people fear failure. As always, exercise independent thinking while being open minded (Research sources listed below).
What’s your relationship with FAILURE? 👇⁣

Eisenberger, N. I., Lieberman, M. D., & Williams, K. D. (2003). Does rejection hurt? An fMRI study of social exclusion. Science, 302(5643), 290-292.

[hoborock]

This lady is really sharp, well-spoken, attractive and intelligent

[meditationandmindfulness]

Appreciate your hard work. Great speaker 🙏

[SatishKumar-qbgm]

Yes very well said, thanks for sharing

[mrraamsridhar]

Thanks a lot! So many of your videos help us release ourselves from the boundaries we've created for ourselves

[goodgo]

What an excellent pitch. Thank yu for such videos

[robertcoulter]

Fear is a driver, punisher, torment. Its a spirit.

[youtubesux]

I play competitive sports and the same applies there. One of the main reasons for a miss is fear of failure. Exuberance is also a big one. The heart will race in both circumstances

[mspatil]

You share very helpful videos ..Thanks

[SatishKumar-qbgm]

Absolutely, well said, thanks for sharing

[-AkhilTej-]

🎯💎🏆 Great insightful & fruitful video 🏆💎🎯

[OMARYassin]

I got the first part, but I didn't get the part associated with thinking of the social rejection as a motivation instead of learning to ignore it.

Thank you anyone who is willing to explain the point.

[pss]

Ur videos are genuinely helpful and worth it. Irreplaceable content, kind of service infact. Thanks a ton

[jaguillermol]

Fear of success is a massively bigger issue than fear of failure

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[sakthiagri]

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[andykay]

Great knowledge
Also we should all be kinder to our peers
Now that we know we can cause them pain

[AB-ovzm]

Yes that is true but its harder to trust our self and trust our ability to make good decisions and trust the ability take care of our own selves that gets damaged by failure yes the mechanism of success or the matrix of success is approval of others but its our own confidence that is at stake

[rizwansiddiqui]

The truth is that we are stuck in this world n the restlessness could be cure, if we have positive ppls around us like u or the death can give relief to us.But the another truth is that, we are also running with death which is not possible.but believe me, if I get know the creator forgives me without any punishment, I'll choose death happily, honestly this life is not worthy for me n I m just grateful whatever blessings I got till.