Why Your Ex Has To Learn The Hard Way

Coach Lee explains why your ex has to learn the hard way when it comes to realizing that breaking up with you was a mistake.

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[rglickdrums]

Coach Lee so true that experience from all this explanation in this video has worked. It’s not magic it’s feeling and next thing you know I’m happy. Everybody follow coach Lee advice and get the breakup kit.

[daisymazie]

I will never give up on him, but I won't chase him. He knows he did me wrong. He needs to fix it.

[aminez]

My ex reached out after 40 days of no contact one NYE telling me that there will always be a place for me in her heart and what we had was special, i just replied happy new year !

[stripperchronicles_]

I went no contact and got engaged to a better man soon after. Been together for nearly 2 years now. Lol. My lesson was that I had to let him go completely in both mind and spirit and give someone else all of me. Thank you.

[tysonmoffat]

These videos are amazing. They calm my anxiety when it creeps up and helps me keep no contact 😊💯

[ah]

My ex learned the hard way. She lost me for good. I met and married someone else and had 2 kids. She hasn't had a successful relationship since. Never married, no kids and now extremely bitterest towards me even though she broke up with me.

[siriusly_ash]

I got back with my ex and I still love watching these videos.. 😅

[detales]

Forgiveness requires tons of strength.

[CrispyCracker]

My narcissistic ex is in a rebound but won’t stop texting me. I’ve ghosted her but she just keeps sending them. I will never be a back up plan or 2nd place to anybody.

[yolandakerr]

It's been 6 months since our breakup and it still hurts me like it was yesterday

[diamond]

I love Coach Lee! But I did the opposite to get my ex back. I did no contact on and off for 3 months when we broke up. I couldn’t take it anymore so I kicked down the door of no contact and spoke to him directly. After a few weeks of back and forth, we got back together and have been back together for over two years and planning for our future together. Our relationship is better than ever. It’s completely different from the 4 1/2 years we were together before our breakup. I’m beyond happy!! I’m blessed.

[MightyFoogle]

About a month after the fact, spent my time healing every day. Take care of myself and live my best life. Accepted the fact that it’s happened, can’t change it. Honestly at this point, wouldn’t even care if she tried to come back. I’ve moved on and would rather focus on me.

Thanks Coach Lee!

[daisydaisy]

Guys he is so right stick to no contact no matter what
My ex just messaged me that he want me back in 15 days of no contact
Stick to it it's works thank you coach Lee

[albertodeulofeu]

I tried to tell her this, almost exactly like this, when she was leaving but she didn’t care. I’m glad to see someone else has the same definition of what love actually is

[weecher]

When we’ve learned the lesson it can often prevent further issues.
This was a great lesson, Coach Lee.

[barflin]

I've become a big crybaby since we broke up! i swear it's tiring thinking about it. I miss her more and more every day!

[abcde]

Been watching your videos for 2 months...one message for everyone..they will come back the day you dont care and let go

[lizspinazola]

I am DYING 😂🤣.
Rando: An ex is an ex for a reason!
Coach: "We all think the person typing that is just brilliant....GREAT. Be you. Do...you."

[markryan]

So, when / if attraction fades (i.e. desire, motivation toward the other person), that doesn't always mean due to issues with the other person, but it could be due to difficulties in their own life e.g. onset of depression (for whatever reason e.g. post natal), feeling overwhelmed due to recent life events, not sure what they want from the future, confusion etc. In such a cases, it is hard to take it personally when it has nothing to do with you (i.e. the one being dumped or pulled away from) and you wonder why the relationship or dating can't co-exist (which it could), but I guess it just adds pressure to the already existing "issues" and thus doesn't make for a good relationship. Addition: I guess also when the person's relationship with their self is not healthy, then this could affect the relationship with their other half and thus lead to own issue / life events causing a breakup or pull away.

[ahmedbenidir]

She came back...and said she doesn't wanna live without me ect...but
Things never resparked again, things are awkward and shallow and there is no chemistry as it used to be(at least that's how i feel) and it pains me so much to see how things blow up over a stupid simple misunderstanding
Somtimes... it's better to walk away fo good and extend the "no contact rule" few decades 😅