5 Signs of a Hard Heart | How to Soften a Hard Heart

We live in a world that’s in the business of creating hard hearts. Yet the Bible warns against this type of heart. In this video, learn what a hard heart is, signs you have one, and how to soften a hard heart. Enjoy!

00:00 5 Signs of a Hard Heart
02:12 A Hard Heart is a Prideful Heart
03:44 A Hard Heart is a Misunderstanding Heart
05:40 A Hard Heart is an Unrepentant Heart
07:12 A Hard Heart is an Unsympathetic and Judgmental Heart
08:16 A Hard Heart is an Unforgiving and Resentful Heart

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[withxoanita]

I’m experiencing a hard heart now. Please keep me in prayer. I’m seeking Him and His healing

[xfesto]

I’m praying to God to soften my heart. Please lift me up in your prayers if you’re reading this. 🙏🏽❤️

[lynnettescales]

In the past I have struggled with a hard heart of unforgiveness. This unforgiveness caused so much sickness in my life and I spent a lot of money with doctors and medicine. I began to pray about it with counseling. One day, the time was right with God. He Holy Spirit worked in me and through me for forgiveness from the other person. On that day it was like a a heavy brick being lifted from my body. The Lord set me free. Amen

[burt]

Great video. That's 5 out of five for me. Time to pray.

[dorotheadixon]

For a long while, I struggled to forgive a teacher who has repeatedly humiliated me in front of the class. During my prayer times, I prayed for him. To my surprise, with time, I started to really mean those prayers and want the best for him. Also, God gave me peace. This just goes to show that when you struggle to forgive someone, pray for him/her. God has a way of changing your heart.

[PlantingHerSeeds]

“Sometimes we hang onto bitterness to protect us from more hurt, but In blocking out the perceived bad that may or may not happen, we block out the good that God wants to bring into our lives (because we harden our hearts)” This spoke mountains to me! Thank you!

[missnatasha]

Please pray for my hardened heart. I struggle with everything she talked about. Thank you for this video.

[Applebaby]

Please pray for me! My past life of abuse addiction and depression has caused me not to be able to abide by Gods teachings! I am trying to give God my heart but my sinful nature wins over my deep need to change! I’ve been clean for four years now but my anxiety shame and anger still lingers 😢

[RIAHONFIAH]

I love that saying I need to trust God

[dorotheadixon]

I do admit that I still see other ways that my heart is hardened. Thanks for not only addressing the problem but also giving the solution.

[sallymcmurray]

That would be me! It's an area of my life God is working on in my new heart. I had a tower around my heart that was closed. I vowed to never let any9ne ever get close enough to me to hurt me again. I was the unknown concubine, Tamar, Dinah, Job, woman at the well, child sex-trafficked survivor, and David.
I had no pride left, I forgave everyone but myself.
I could not feel anything (love, hate. compassion or sympathy) and blamed God for all the horrific things that happened to me so listen to her because she is so accurate! When I received a new heart, I have to work very hard to keep it aligned with God.
Bless you sister, your doung a good thing. ❤

[ginacastell]

This was good. I’m sure we’ve all experienced this heart problem. That’s why the Bible instructs us to guard our hearts with all diligence for out of it comes the issues of life. God, if we trust in you with all our hearts then we can be honest without fear. There are people I’m mad at and need to forgive. I’m sometimes indifferent bc I’ve gone through hurt. Give me your heart that puts others first and is not easily offended. You promised a new heart. Do it for all your daughters Jesus!

[nomakeupcutie]

I am struggling right now because I don't have a hard heart but I am married to someone that does. It's very hard to navigate through this as I want to honor my commitment but recognize this behavior has put such a huge responsibility on me. I even sometimes mirror the same thing because of feeling hopeless after years of trying.

[dwilliams]

Because of severe depression at one point in our marriage where I had no energy or motivation and slept for days on end I missed some important years with my wife and children. Because of this their hearts have hardened toward me. I have recovered and constantly beg their forgiveness but am only met with anger and bitterness. And am now in the final stages of divorce after 30 years together. It really hurts that a hard heart does not allow it's host to see the pure hearts in others. I am hoping for and miracle and know that we don't wrestle against flesh but against the negative spiritual forces that strive to hinder us from God's best.
I have shared your channel with my family many times but don't know if they have tuned in. I do hope they hear this one somehow. Please pray for us. Thank you.

[patriciastory]

Hello Christina! I do not comment often but need to let you know that you glow Jesus!! You are teaching the way, the truth and the life to all who partake. Never stop!!! Truly a Sister in Christ Jesus, Amen & Amen

[MsMeditatingPanda]

I don’t know if anyone will see this, but I’m pretty sure that I have a hard heart. I’m scared because I don’t want to spend time with God because of it. I want to change, but I feel so weak in my faith to believe that it’s even possible. So, if you see my message, please pray for me. Thank you so much for your time.

[StaceyMollus]

I have been a Christian since 1981, and I have never heard such a practical, applicable message in my life! I had no idea after all these years, that was my issue. Thank you so much for sharing. You hit the nail on the head!

[amanda]

Amen, that is exactly how I live, people will always tell me I'm too soft hearted and everybody is walking over me!

[CharlieBass]

I know this a woman's channel but I had to see what was going on. at this time I'm trying to learn wat the HEART is, I've been told it's about the emotional center. This is something that is truly hard to understand let alone connect with it. I have tried prayer and reading but I continually fail to keep it up. I have all the signs of a hard heart. At 69 and living my life on self-will, I can't seem to get out of my will. I want to change but I know I'm in the way. I know I'm in resentment towards myself but I don't know how to get out of it. I'm in need of and mind change so that I don't do what I shouldn't.

[yanniwoods]

I definitely have a hard heart from a lot of stuff that was done to me that in the past that I have not forgiven. I pray that God works on me to soften my heart so I can truly live, love, and spread His love onto others 🙏